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    Default I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Here's the deal. This girl (who's 19 or 20 and 8-9 years younger than me) txts me and it just bs for a while. Then she askes to borrow something again. And I, totally joking. giving her a hard time, say "oh you dont want to party with me?I see how it is. Jk. (referring to her question) say it's not problem.
    Her :
    "well you got any ideas off what to do or where to go? "
    Me being slow on the uptake: "What to do ? not off the top of my head since I'm not sure what I'm doing tomorrow. But yes I know where to go."
    Her: reply was well hit me up when you think of something.
    me: sure will.


    so today she picks up the video stuff and askes if i want to go to a resturant or something and we do for a an hour and and half.
    Since I'm slow on the up take, does she think I just her out? I mean if she was older I'd totally date her but she cann't go where I normally go and kinda have a no one under 21 rule.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    btw she's not a dancer.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Well, what do YOU want? Do you want to date her? (It's implied but not said).

    Basically, if she thinks you two had a date... is it bad?

    Assuming that it's not a bad thing, I would tell you to relax and watch for followup, the answer will come in time, but whether she thought it was a date or not is inconsequential. What you thought/wanted it to be is important and you need to make sure that comes across in what you do.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    ^ true. I'd judge her on what her interests were: an underage person who drinks can be really obnoxious, and if she doesn't drink than it's really only a hindrance if most of your outings include drinking.
    Also, depends on if you want a gf, and if she wants a bf. If you both just want to hang out (she might just be looking for a buddy to do dinner dates with, not sex or dating) or if you both just want to have sex, then you might have a winnnnaaah.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Next chick
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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Quote Originally Posted by fearless
    Then she askes to borrow something again. And I, totally joking. giving her a hard time, say "oh you dont want to party with me?I see how it is. Jk. (referring to her question) say it's not problem.
    ...


    so today she picks up the video stuff ...
    Maybe she's a "video stuff" "provider". Look and see if she's on TER. I learned about this brave new world from blue side folks. Doesn't sound like you got much of a "party" for your video stuff, though.

    Or it could be you went on a date. Reading TER was a bit disturbing, but I've heard people do still go out on dates. Try and kiss her next time. If she asks to "borrow" a new plasma HDTV first, you'll have your answer.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl
    ^ true. I'd judge her on what her interests were: an underage person who drinks can be really obnoxious, and if she doesn't drink than it's really only a hindrance if most of your outings include drinking.
    Also, depends on if you want a gf, and if she wants a bf. If you both just want to hang out (she might just be looking for a buddy to do dinner dates with, not sex or dating) or if you both just want to have sex, then you might have a winnnnaaah.
    Right... most people need to understand that a LOT of their relationship issues can be solved faster when they focus on what THEY want and stop making excuses for it. It's not as bad as it sounds, but if you want a Pear, do you go after an Apple? Over simplified sure, but if you want this to be a date, then it is, if not, it isn't... wait until she visibly disagrees with what you want to be concerned about it, cause then you have the oppertunity to take it up with her.

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    Heh, Fearless.... you want to know if she likes you?

    Make her pay for dinner when the ticket comes. Just look her in the eyes, put your hand on the check, look soft, slide the check over, and say 'I'm not covering this.'


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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Don't overanalyze it... labels don't matter...

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    last night- I txt her and ask how was and bs txt then she askes me what doing tonight. Told her that I was out I was out with some of our co workers ( ones I she rather not talk too) b/c they had called but wanted to lose them.
    So she said that she'd call me in hour which she did and asked where she was. The place where I was closing and my dumb self told her to come up where I was at and we go from there. All the while this one coworker was talking me and wanted to say hi so I gave him the phone and he invited her out to his place that night and for the super bowl.
    While me were talking my other coworker comes up to us in the parking alot and invites her to another bar with us (i wasn't going where they were) in the parking lot. She basically looked to me for what to say and I replied maybe and told him to go away. She told me that she rather not hang out with them. Which I was so VERY much glad to hear. we bs abit and is telling me about that she was asked out by another guy my age ( at the gym) but declined due his age. We decide that we sholud just go home. I txt her and apologize for whole circus that occured.. she txts me back and says no worries and me to call her tomorrow.
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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Quote Originally Posted by fearless
    btw she's not a dancer.
    Well, hell, man, full speed ahead!!

    But first.... What do you think she wants from you? And you from her?

    If it's a 'go', take her to an interesting place where drinking is not part of it. Or do you think she wants you to be her buyer? (won't work in most places, and it's illegal too; bad example)
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: I am not sure but I think I asked her out.

    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Well, hell, man, full speed ahead!!

    But first.... What do you think she wants from you? And you from her?

    If it's a 'go', take her to an interesting place where drinking is not part of it. Or do you think she wants you to be her buyer? (won't work in most places, and it's illegal too; bad example)
    hell, i do not know what she wants from me. thats what I'm trying to figure out.

    about the buyer thing- she has asked. when she asked if I wanted to a restuant she was said that she didn't want me thinking that all she wanted was me buying her booze. or something to that effect. so I think it's a part of it. but if thats all she wants then it's not going to work so those reasons

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