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    Default Ladies..Did I Go Too Far?

    Ok! So it was a Saturday night in my club the place was totally packed..At my club there are 3 "Feature" girls (They have been in the Miss Nude Canada pagents and won awards, been in porn movies etc.) These girls are like praised in the club im at....
    ... Anyways So its about 2:45am the place is totally packed I go on to do my stage I see a blonde girl with money in her mouth (at the club i'm at people lie down on the stage with $5 bill or more and you stratle them whatever..)
    I wink at her cause I knew she was going to go and lie on the stage for me...
    The girl was pretty hot, fit, blonde... She lies down on the stage with the money I am blonde too I guess it looked pretty hot I open her shirt her bra is still on i lick her boobs.. we are in the 69 position The girl starts licking my pussy on stage I thought nothing of it..
    I was PISSSSS drunk and the whole place went crazy screaming, clapping, Then I kissed the girl my song was over..
    I get off stage to go change and one of the "features" follows me in, Comes right up to me gave me a pile of shit saying "You let customers lick ur pussy?(no) Would you let a guy do that on stage?(no) You could get clamidia Blah Blah I'm not trying to be a bitch its your body blah blah" All these things....
    Ladies.. Honest opinion was it really THAT bad what I did ????
    Some girls said maybe she was just jealous cause I got so much attention I donno.. Opinion Ladies..
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    I personally wouldnt let anyone besides my current SO lick my pussy. Girls, guys, doesnt matter. And even if I were the kind of girl to be more... open to such activities... I wouldnt do it at work. It gives ALL customers the wrong idea. I try to keep what I would do at home seperate from what I would do at work.
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    If I, in my seriously limited experience as a part-timer, have made this mistake, then I'm sure everyone here has. Yeah, you probably went too far, and if the cops had shown up you'd be in trouble. But they didn't and you made your money, so fuck it. No point worrying about it now.

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    Yeah,I would definately say you went way too far.
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    Oops!

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    at least the feature girl was kinda nice about it. she could have been WAY bitchier about it.

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    When I'm at work, I definetely let the female customers get away with a little more than the guys, but not THAT much more. Yeah, I think you made a mistake, but it's too late to worry about it now, just don't let it happen again. Besides giving customers the wrong idea about you and about the other girls that work there, there are also STDs that can be spread through oral sex. You don't know where that customer has been, or if that customer has any diseases. It doesn't matter how hot the person is, or how clean they look, because they still could have something that you wouldn't know about. Just too risky for me.

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    Yeah. But it's definitely an "oops" kind of going too far as opposed to like an "existential crisis" kind of going too far. Just shake it off. You still have your job. Even the girl who chewed you out sounded like she was mostly just looking out for you... it'll be fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    Yeah. But it's definitely an "oops" kind of going too far as opposed to like an "existential crisis" kind of going too far. Just shake it off. You still have your job. Even the girl who chewed you out sounded like she was mostly just looking out for you... it'll be fine.
    Just put it down as a lesson learnt. Lesson to be learnt is that you need to always be fully aware of yourself at all times with this employment... that means NOT getting drunk at work. You can drink to be tipsy/have a buzz... just not drunk. It doesn't look good for your nor the club.

    In the end, it was an OOPS moment. Don't fret. As long as you can show you have learnt from your mistake no one will give you grief for it. Besides, the feature was well-intentioned... just not well exicuted (sp?).


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    Yes you went too far. I'd be pissed too if i were working with you that night. Its unprofessional.
    I do lesbian shows but i'm paid to do lesbian shows. $5 doesn't cut it.

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    if I worked with you, I'd be annoyed if that happened on stage. it's kind of a VIP thing, and even then you fake it.

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    Well, if you have to ask chances are you already know the answer to your question. You went too far...

    What's more important is what you do from here and how you learn from this experience. My concern is why you were piss drunk at work to begin with. Think of yourself as a business. Your money making potential is far greater sober. If you regret your drunken actions at work what does that tell you???

    Don't worry, it's not the end of the world, but if you had it to do over, would you do things differently? Lighten up on the liquor sweetie. Good luck the next time around.

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    Now that you know better, you can do better. Don't beat yourself up about it and don't let anyone else beat you up for it either. Be prepared to take it with grace if managemnent chews you out though.
    Just think about how you would've felt if that was some other dancer onstage, you were on the floor and all of a sudden every guy in the club expected the same or better from every dancer that night. If you refused, you would have lost money. This may have happened to someone and you didn't know it.

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    Do You work in Canada?

    The club You work at sounds alot like the club I work at (how the ppl get up on stage with money in their mouth while they lye down) all tho there definitly are alot of clubs that also do this.

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    Most feature dancers do this, called "rides for 5", but I've never seen a house girl do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotic0690
    Ok! So it was a Saturday night in my club the place was totally packed..At my club there are 3 "Feature" girls (They have been in the Miss Nude Canada pagents and won awards, been in porn movies etc.) These girls are like praised in the club im at....
    ... Anyways So its about 2:45am the place is totally packed I go on to do my stage I see a blonde girl with money in her mouth (at the club i'm at people lie down on the stage with $5 bill or more and you stratle them whatever..)
    I wink at her cause I knew she was going to go and lie on the stage for me...
    The girl was pretty hot, fit, blonde... She lies down on the stage with the money I am blonde too I guess it looked pretty hot I open her shirt her bra is still on i lick her boobs.. we are in the 69 position The girl starts licking my pussy on stage I thought nothing of it..
    I was PISSSSS drunk and the whole place went crazy screaming, clapping, Then I kissed the girl my song was over..
    I get off stage to go change and one of the "features" follows me in, Comes right up to me gave me a pile of shit saying "You let customers lick ur pussy?(no) Would you let a guy do that on stage?(no) You could get clamidia Blah Blah I'm not trying to be a bitch its your body blah blah" All these things....
    Ladies.. Honest opinion was it really THAT bad what I did ????
    Some girls said maybe she was just jealous cause I got so much attention I donno.. Opinion Ladies..
    Well, if this is a typical act at your club, is allowed and you feel okay about it, it's your body. If its atypical, not allowed and a no contact club then you shouldn't have did it because it's not fair to the girls that are obeying the rules and the club itself.

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    Definitely too far. Were your story in VIP I could understand a bit more. But on stage, Wow! Shit happens, more so if you're piss drunk. I'd say cut back on the alcohol. A couple of drinks is one thing, losing control...not good. An apology to management and the girls would be nice. Be safe! Always be able to take care of yourself and recognize the line before you cross it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by candie00
    Do You work in Canada?

    The club You work at sounds alot like the club I work at (how the ppl get up on stage with money in their mouth while they lye down) all tho there definitly are alot of clubs that also do this.
    Mmmmm sounds alot like a club I used to work at !! Where is it ?? If it is the same club I would have been really pissed at you and would have went to the manager to tell them. We don't want our clubs to become dirty.

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    I have to agree that you went to far, but don't beat yourself up, I have had some drunken moments at work, learn, don't get so trashed you probably wouldn't have done that if you were sober. $5 is not enough to lick pussy, to me no amount of $$ is. take that shit outside the club, if it was VIP i could understand more, but not really.

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    Yup, you went way too far. We live and learn though so let this be lesson about getting drunk at work and what can result from doing so.

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    ^^ Same here. Too far hun. Youve lived and learned not to do it again. Even if your club does that you dont have to do it too. Its your body and you can say no at anytime.

    Btw, dont get piss drunk at work again. Someone could have stolen your money or worse b.c youre too drunk to handle yourself. Youre in control of your environment; its what you make of it is up to you.
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    Yup, too far. If I'd been working with you I'd have been a lot ruder than the feature dancer. I've worked at a few places that had a lot of controversy about even being open because stuff like that could potentially happen. The fact that it happened ON STAGE makes it worse because everyone in your club could have seen it. Word gets around about pussy licking on stage and clubs get investigated.

    I know you are knew to this so I hope you recognize that behavior that crosses the line between entertainment and porn is a very grey area and therefore can legally cause you or your club problems. I know that things can happen really fast, so you need to maybe slow down on your drinking at work if you can't be more in control of whats going on during your stage.

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    wow! Yea, you went too far IMO

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    She was probably just jealous of the attention you got. However, in my own opinion I think it was too far. But about half the girls I work with or maybe even more would think it's ok. It depends what city it was in. But in my own opinion, ewww. She could have had oral herpes or something. And being so drunk at work that you don't know you're boundaries is not good.

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    I don't think the girl would be jealous she simply don't want customers to think this is the norm at the club or else everyone is gonna try, even guys.

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