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    Thumbs up Embrace the squishiness!!!!!!!!

    Ok, so my avatar is a big fat lie since it's been up there for a few years now. I'm completely brunette, still tan, big 'ol titties now, PLUS 20-25 LBS!!!! I probably put on a good ten, maybe a bit more, over the winter due to depression, lack of working, and insane obsession with stuffing myself puking silly. Ok, ok, I'm feeling a bit self concious (sp?) about myself, but at the same time, still sexy and confident on stage.

    So low and behold............. I'm making more money now as a fatty than ever before! Guys seem to like me as a squishy chicky! It's crazy! And funny thing, going into my ninth year of man pigdom, I'm the most comfortable with myself than ever before! Granted, I'm working on dropping a bit, (which will come naturally just from gettin' back into the swing of things), but man oh man, getting a tad bit older really does "calm" you down. I feel like a sexy, smushy goddess!!!!! Hee hee!!!! Ok, just wanted to gush a bit, I must go now, there's an extremely sexy naked man in my bed that needs to be roused from his slumber in a way he'll always remember me by! Rowrrrr!!!!!!!!
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    Thanks for sharing! That's good to know. I'm about ten pounds heavier than I'd like to be, but yeah, I've noticed that they like soft, rounded women too. You definitely gave my day a boost!

    Wish I could go rouse my man from his slumber... *sigh* Two more weeks, two more weeks...

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    Ok ok, so I'm actually gonna fuck around on SW for awhile yet, but eventually I'll go wake him. Now Yekhefah, what's up with the two more weeks deal?
    "A dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to want to take it off you."
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    how much did you weight in the pic, I don't think 20 or 25ibs will look bad on you!
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    I was actually quite scrawny - about 105 lbs. I weigh 130, maybe a little less right now.
    "A dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to want to take it off you."
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    Quote Originally Posted by MeganS
    Ok ok, so I'm actually gonna fuck around on SW for awhile yet, but eventually I'll go wake him. Now Yekhefah, what's up with the two more weeks deal?
    We live in L.A., but I'm in Memphis visiting family and he's working on a show in Santa Cruz. I'll be back in L.A. around the 11th or 12th, and then flying up to Santa Cruz on Valentine's Day to see him. We left the same day, January 15, and haven't seen each other since, so it's a month apart. IT SUCKS.

    Fortunately there is at least plenty of phone sex!

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    You are not a fatty
    If you want the present to be differant from the past, study the past.
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    It is what it is, not what you want it to become, that's important -- at least for now. Today, remember that things worth having are worth waiting for!
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    There is just more of you for them to be in awe of !

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    I don't like those skinny little vegan looking girls. I want some baby-makin hips on a girl.

    Guys fear rolling over in bed at night and breaking those little critters in half. One doesn't want to wake up in the morning and say "Oh my goodness, I broke another one. Dang it all!"

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    <--- Not too skinny and a vegan.
    Your local vegan lover.

    Live and let live.

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    HELL YA MEGAN!

    I'm 10lbs heavier than I'd like to be, I've always been this weight, always felt I should be skinnier, in a club full of twigs.

    But then again I'm obviously not too unhappy because I don't really care to work out so whatever.

    Squishy Girls Unite!
    When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail!

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    I do remind everyone that a golf ball weighs considerably more than a ping pong ball despite the fact that they take up about the same amount of mass.

    The moral to this story is don't read too much into those numbers you see on your scale.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    I just couldn't WAIT to open this thread. LOL Megan, you always have the best thread titles

    I currently weigh 128. It's my normal weight. 130ish, generally speaking is far from fat.

    And yes, guys do like a bit of flesh on a woman. I am far from fat or out of shape but I can't tell you how many guys continually tell me how much they love my figure and the fact I'm not so skinny like alot of the girls at work. Yeah, love the squish!

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    What's wrong with 105? I'm about that once you convert 48kgs. Then again, I'm short as well (5 foot in US terms) and petite (my feet and hands are small.. I've only met less than a handful of other women with hands as small as mine)

    I'm older and not as 'in shape' as I would like to be either esp. with my rear however it doesn't seem to be really affecting my money. I've never wanted to be skinny as I've been around too many men in my life to know that skinny (being able to see a dancer's rib cage for instance) doesn't cut it... nor does being really toned I've noticed.. that can also scare men.. so in the end.. a little bit of a tummy is great. They regards it as womanly.



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    No no GCGirl, don't get me wrong, I was all about weighing 105 lbs! I guess I'm just trying to justify to myself that it's ok for me to weigh 130 also! I also am small boned with extremely tiny hands and feet. Maybe that's why I get so self-concious about my weight. When you have such a tiny frame, a little extra fat can be gargantuan! But lo and behold, my jeans were a tad bit looser tonight!
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    Thanks so much for starting this thread, Megan! I've been feeling a little self-concious about my weight lately; I talked to my manager about working night shifts, and she suggested I lose 5 lbs because "the night guys are picky." (I know I've seen girls softer than me working nights...but whatever. Maybe they were thinner when they were hired.)
    I'm 5'8, 155 lbs, and would like to shrink down a bit and be a little more toned. But I agree, I've gotten lots of admiring comments about being, as one custy put it, "a full-size woman." I notice the guys who say things like this tend to be more respectful, too. I suspect that when you have a little extra and carry it well, you seem more confident. Sounds like this is what's happening to you.

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    My best friend ( who is a guy ) put it like this.. when we were looking at those painfully skinny girls that always seem to flow in packs around the mall and I quote.. " Now, why would I want to fuck her. It would be like sticking my dick in a pillowcase full of coat hangers."

    I think that sums it up rather nicely.

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    Kick ass thread! Megan, I remember seeing your avatar a year or two ago and thinking you were beautiful and I can't imagine 20-25lbs could change that. I am 5'0, 115 (but with some big ole boobies myself!) so I can relate to "the squishiness."

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    Grace... i'm 5'8 and i remember in my dancing days drinking champagne and living it up to the point where i was about 155. A tan and the right kind of lycra went a long way but deep down i knew that i had moved to almost the very edge of a healthy BMI... (23.6). (body mass index for those wondering).

    http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm

    if you have very even proportions at our height you can get away with murder because the fat lays down so evenly, you don't even notice for the first 6kg... 13 pounds. (which is scary)

    on the upside - big boobies!!! on the downside - you know what your ideal weight is and it gnaws away at your mind. your manager is being nice (just like mine was then... god i cringe thinking about it).

    i regularly watched girls breeze into the club thin and buff... then after about 6 weeks, champ it up until they had 'the champagne look'. unfortunately it was de rigeur in japan because of the amount of money we made from a bottle of champagne. (for the girls not snorting their paunch away).

    the most important thing is how you look on stage and fit your outfits. do you have christmas ham on your hips around your thong string? or bought a bigger thong because the others 'must have shrunk'? that is ALWAYS the dead giveaway that it's time to hit the treadmill.

    (i was SURE that the dryer had shrunk everything of mine! delusional was i.)

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    I think I need to go get some McDonald's and throw out this salad sitting on my desk.

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    I lost weight, and, POOF, away went my big beautiful boobs! Now I'm not sure which way to go I love my flatter tummy and more slender hips, but oh I miss those breasts. I'm older so skin doesn't bounce back like it used to - now that that are smaller, they are lower and flatter than before. *sigh*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow
    My best friend ( who is a guy ) put it like this.. when we were looking at those painfully skinny girls that always seem to flow in packs around the mall and I quote.. " Now, why would I want to fuck her. It would be like sticking my dick in a pillowcase full of coat hangers."

    I think that sums it up rather nicely.
    OMG that id fuckin' hilarious!!!

    Hubby agrees with your buddy on that one.

    I do too, but I want "fluffy" not fatty. Either extreme is bad, I want a nice healthy medium.

    Megan, your fine and you know it!!!!
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    Fluffy rules, I love throwing my "weight" around!!!

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    you look like the type that would gain weight in your breasts and hips...not your waist, so much. there's nothing wrong with that!

    i, on the other hand, went from 105-125 when i first started dancing...and i'm only 5'1...unfortunately, i gain weight in my stomach area and a little in my hips...mainly i just fill out to become this rectangular shape. it's bad....but yeah i managed to get down to 106...and now i'm back up to 111 :-/

    that's great that people are responding well to your body, tho...and what is even more great is that you are confident!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nautilus

    if you have very even proportions at our height you can get away with murder because the fat lays down so evenly, you don't even notice for the first 6kg... 13 pounds. (which is scary)
    Yup. This is me! I can't say if it's a blessing or a curse...on the one hand, you can get away with a lot before you have to get your act together. On the other hand, when you do, you REALLY have to get your act together. Five pounds isn't going to make the difference on us that it makes on the little gals. I don't think I'd see any change until I'd lost 10--15.

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