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    Default What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    I am a customer, and i am just curious.. what do you look for in people ilke me to tell you.. without me throwing my wallet at you, that I am willing to spend money on you?

    Can you tell if a guy is willing to spend a lot of money on you?

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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    They make eye contact, they are confident and respectful in conversation, and they ask for dances.



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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    -they buy you drinks (as in more than one)
    -tip you on stage, but don't sit at the rail for everyone else
    -tip you very well on stage
    -look at you alot and make lots of eye contact with you
    -are really into to talking to you
    -say things like your what I look for in a woman
    -dont make you ask them if they want a dance, they make their intentions known
    -tell you to come by their table when your on stage
    -mention what they like about you to other girls
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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    The most common sign for me is when his eyes bug out and his mouth drops open a little as I walk by

    Next most common would be the come-here signal, followed closely by the drooling and nodding as he watches me give another guy a dance.

    It's usually pretty easy to tell when someone wants to spend money on me. What's difficult to tell is whether a guy who may not have noticed me can be convinced...

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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    Definetly STRONG eye contact. And you pretty much know when some is interested, It's just the way he looks at you. And like DancerSara said, they tip you on stage as well.

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    I notice they talk faster and want me to shush and get to dancing already.
    When they tip only you on stage.
    They dont ask you out in the 1st 10min of conversation.
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    WoW! I have to agree with almost all of your comments ladies! It's easy for me when I like a dancer, I will make a lot of eye contact and tip at the stage when I just walk by, making sure she's sees me leave the tip and again the eye contact! If I want a private dance there isn't a lot of conversation before I'll just say I want a dance. I don't even ask them there real names. I do like to ask where they get there stage name from if it's an interesting name. I don't think I have ever really asked a dancer for a date! Other then joking around like (can I just take you home for a while? lol) and it's obvious I'm kidding. I usually get a laugh and a Noooo! hehe

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    When they actually APPROACH YOU for a dance!! I had this happen 4x last night.







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    If you want a dance from a particular dancer
    - If you see her on stage, tip her and ask her to come and sit with you. Unless she's already got dances lined up, it's usually just that simple.
    - If you don't see her on stage, ask a waitress to find her. If you don't know her name, be prepared to describe what she looks like and is wearing.

    If you want to attract general attention from dancers
    - TIP. We notice if you're spending money, be it on door guys, waitresses, or the dancers on stage.
    - Make eye contact and smile.
    - Order more than one drink. I look for guys who are doing this, because they're obviously palnnint to stay a while, not just in for the peep show.
    - If you're truly desperate, put a stack of money on the table in front of you. Someone will notice it, I promise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    - If you're truly desperate, put a stack of money on the table in front of you. Someone will notice it, I promise.
    See for me, in my experience, THOSE are the guys who are cheap ass hell and don't spend anymoney! They want to create the illusion that with this stack of money, if you sit with me, you may just be that lucky girl to get it. Uh uh..I don't fall for that okie-doke.







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    I can always make money off the guy doing the drunken weave-walk to the ATM.


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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    This one guy came in, obviously a bit batty, but spending LOADS of money.

    He had another man with him who would occasionally give him stacks of money to spend on the girls.

    So: When they have a person with them just to handle all their cash...

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    See for me, in my experience, THOSE are the guys who are cheap ass hell and don't spend anymoney! They want to create the illusion that with this stack of money, if you sit with me, you may just be that lucky girl to get it. Uh uh..I don't fall for that okie-doke.
    I SOOO AGREE with you!!!

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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    When a guy tips you a larger bill on stage.
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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    Get right to the point and ask for a dance. Once the dance has started, when I ask "would you like to keep going?" say a specific amount, like "yes, why don't you do four more." That way I know you're going to treat me well financially, so I am inclined to relax and give you better dances.

    If you like the way I look but I haven't made it to your table yet, ask a bouncer or a waitress (NOT another dancer, unless it is our friend we hate that) if s/he could grab our attention. Oh and if you want to be more approachable, sit by yourself in the middle of the room. Be polite to every dancer cuz trust me, when you guys are rude to my friends it does NOT make me want to play with you.

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    I'm not necessarly one for dances, so I don't ask for dances.. if a dancer feels like giving me one, I usually won't turn one down but I would rather conversate... I have no problem paying for the woman's time, because that's what she is there for.

    The reason I asked because I have done some things in the past and have bad luck at times.. tipped a girl 20 dollars on stage before, couldn't get her to sit with me. Tipped another 40, sat down with me long enough to order a drink and left actually before the drink got there to go to the back.

    not all are like that, more dancers need to come here and take tips from you very smart women

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    Hay! here's a question for you ladies!I know this is going to flip the topic around the other direction.When I'm at a club and when a lady aproched me for a dance, but I really don't want one from her! What would you rather a guy do if he is not going to buy a lap dance from you, now or ever? I have said I'm just not ready right now, but they always say that they will come back later, and I do start to feel bad when they come back and I'm just going to say no anyway! But one girl at a club here in Chicago, when I said that she first was going to walk away and come back later like the other girls, but she stopped and asked "Are you going to get a dance from me if I come back again?, and be honest!" I told her no! and she did say she liked that answer better, and she respects people who are honest! what do you ladies think?

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    I'd rather hear an honest "No, thanks" or "you're not my type, but thanks" than get the run around. I think you did the right thing.

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    Yeah, I'd rather have the truth, and the reason why. Like you're too short, or thin, or blond, or whatever.

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    As for the knowing if a guy is going to spend money, you can't be sure until the cash is in your hot little hand. I've had plenty of guys stare and drool at me on the podium with no result. Also had way too many beckon me over just to chat or worse ask me out to dinner.
    On the other hand I've made tons off the guys that other girls avoid because they look shabby or in some way a loser.
    If a guy doesn't want a dance because he doesn't like me I would prefer a simple no, or I'm not getting any dances tonight. I don't need my shortcoming pointed out (especially if I've had a bad day). If he gets dances from another lady during the night, I know it's either because i'm not his type, or she just hustled better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittensgirl
    If a guy doesn't want a dance because he doesn't like me I would prefer a simple no, or I'm not getting any dances tonight. I don't need my shortcoming pointed out (especially if I've had a bad day). If he gets dances from another lady during the night, I know it's either because i'm not his type, or she just hustled better.

    Yeah, I can't imagine that most dancers really want to hear "no, your ass is too big", "no, your tits are too small", or "no, your attitude sucks"

    I'll stick to "no, thank you" and if they press, the classic: "it's not you, it's me"

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    I'm not necessarly one for dances, so I don't ask for dances.. if a dancer feels like giving me one, I usually won't turn one down but I would rather conversate...
    What does conversate mean? Is it legal?


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    Quote Originally Posted by CoffeeChicago
    Hay! here's a question for you ladies!I know this is going to flip the topic around the other direction.When I'm at a club and when a lady aproched me for a dance, but I really don't want one from her! What would you rather a guy do if he is not going to buy a lap dance from you, now or ever? I have said I'm just not ready right now, but they always say that they will come back later, and I do start to feel bad when they come back and I'm just going to say no anyway! But one girl at a club here in Chicago, when I said that she first was going to walk away and come back later like the other girls, but she stopped and asked "Are you going to get a dance from me if I come back again?, and be honest!" I told her no! and she did say she liked that answer better, and she respects people who are honest! what do you ladies think?
    Yup that's perfect. When I ask a guy for a dance and he says maybe later, I ask again in around 15 min, if he still says maybe later; I then ask if he wants one at all or if he's just trying to be nice and say no without actually saying it. Usually they say I was just trying to be nice. I tell them i want to hear the truth, so if they don't like a girl tell them (be nice though), we are tough cookies we can handle a no every once in a while, lol.
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    Default Re: What are signs that a guy WILL spend money

    conversate is just another way to say 'conversing'. it's no different than verbing any other kind of noun.

    anyhow, back on topic, one sign that a guy will spend money is when he goes to the atm and hands you the maximum amount allowed without looking at it, heh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    What does conversate mean? Is it legal?

    excuse my spelling.. I ment, I'm not that into the whole grinding lapdances.. unless she really is into it, but if she just treats it like any other dance, i would rather sit and talk and I don't mind paying you for that

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