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    Smiley is it just me?

    But when I'm walking around campus or the mall or the grocery store (mainly campus though, as i'm hardly ever at the mall and don't grocery shop near enough) do you find yourself looking at girls and wondering if she COULD dance? Not "hey i bet she's a stripper" but if she could actually pull it off. Try to imagine her with hair/makeup the clothes, etc. Maybe it's because I'm new to the game and I never thought I myself would/could actually be a stripper, but I can't stop! Every girl I see it's a quick yes or no. I must admit it does make for more interesting walks.

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    yea, I totally do this all the time. But, I have always checked out other girls even before I started dancing.

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    hahaha I was just doing that same thing yesterday at my campus!! hahaha yes, yes, yes, no, yes, NO! I'm real glad people can't hear my thoughts
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    I used to do that, now I try to guess who is the real stripper. Most of the girls who are dressed nice, with perfect hair and great bodies are not strippers, and probably never will be.

    I have found some of the cutest girls think that they are totally ugly. They are really hard on themselves. Strippers tend to be more "natural" looking people who are a little excentric in their style.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    Most of the girls who are dressed nice, with perfect hair and great bodies are not strippers, and probably never will be.
    That is so true.
    I always check girls out, but now I look at girls and I think, "Gee, she should/could be a stripper." Especially when I see a good looking girl working some crappy job, I always think, "Why isn't she a dancer, she could make a ton of money."

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    Quote Originally Posted by lizlizliz
    But when I'm walking around campus or the mall or the grocery store (mainly campus though, as i'm hardly ever at the mall and don't grocery shop near enough) do you find yourself looking at girls and wondering if she COULD dance? Not "hey i bet she's a stripper" but if she could actually pull it off. Try to imagine her with hair/makeup the clothes, etc. Maybe it's because I'm new to the game and I never thought I myself would/could actually be a stripper, but I can't stop! Every girl I see it's a quick yes or no. I must admit it does make for more interesting walks.
    My school is so tiny that only myself and and other girl dance (tiny enough that a lot of people know, bah); I know one former dancer who goes here, too. Although we both dress pretty cutely on some days, I feel that since I started dancing I venture out into the real world in 'normal' clothes more often, no makeup, hair tied back, etc. I don't think I look like a dancer when I'm at school. (I'm a lot more graceful than I used to be, though. Maybe throw a banana peel at me?)

    There's a lot more to dancing than just looks, though. Can she figure out how to not correlate her looks to her earnings? (Not as in wouldn't keep up her appearance, but would understand the 80% importance of sales technique) Could she still make those morning classes? A lot can be learned...

    But yes, I definitely notice potential!

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    Greggy,
    Same here...I get sad when I see a hot girl working at a fast food restaurant, customer service, or low end retail chain (hell, sometimes even the better retail stores) and think, Damn, you'd make a killing doing this! ....Especially when they look unhappy! But I keep the thought to myself and go about my merry way; I'm no recuiter.....If only they knew, though....tee hee
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    Quote Originally Posted by greggy
    That is so true.
    I always check girls out, but now I look at girls and I think, "Gee, she should/could be a stripper." Especially when I see a good looking girl working some crappy job, I always think, "Why isn't she a dancer, she could make a ton of money."
    Haha I do this all the time. Of course I never say anything to them, but I definetely think it.

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    Ha Ha Ha roflmao in the real world I am a manager with a very popular rest. chain. I manage anywhere from 15-50 people on any given shift. I meet new young people day in and day out and I have soooo many times looked at a young new hire and been like "WHY are you working so hard!!!! You could be shaking it and glorified and objectified (o.k. that's a little sarcasm but only a little because most guys would love to be objectified {o.k. o.k. I WOULD!!} I just look and think I know it probably isn't "easier" and has it's own set of pitfalls and depressants but DAMN the mulah lah has got to be way better and of course I cannot say this because I am first of all their manager and secondly a guy and third I am thirty five and they are very much not!! SO I aoid the un pc suggestion.

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    ON ANOTHER NOTE!!! I really don't find hooters entertaining. I don't think that I ever have!! I think that the girs at Hooters should be seperatedinto two categories. Those that would look great without the funny outfit (thereby naked) and onstage making way better money for being drooled over and those that wouldn't look as "good"without the funny orange shorts!! If you're gonna be gawked at why not make the big dough!!

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    However as I am not a shoe but a pig in both gender and money kkinds of ways and because the main part of my industry related business is VERY stripper oriented I have noticed a shift in the way that I do this. I live in a club intensive city (tampa) at least I think it is because if you throw a rock in Southwest florida and ACTUALLY miss a bailbondsmens store and a church than you are most likely to hit a strip joint! I ain't complainin' Since the inception of our webstore whenever I am at the store and checking out women as I am so inclined to do already I will actually decide whether I think a certain woman is a dancer. I actually hand out my biz cards to some of the more friendly ones IF they are wearing some funky shoes!!

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    LOL,I have seen some very pretty moms and thought to myself,"This woman could bank as a dancer.She has no idea about her potential".So yeah,I think this to myself too.
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    I check girls out all the time and think the "Yes, yes, maybe, definetly not..." I agree with Paris though... Most girls who get all "dolled" up when they are out probably aren't dancers... Speaking of school, probably no one would imagine I was a dancer since I usually stumble into the classroom no make-up, hair pulled up, in a sweatsuit...

    I don't usually do hair/make-up unless I'm going out-out, or I'm at work...
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    since these... 'can you tell'... and 'do you see girls who could' threads i have become like that kid out of 'sixth sense'. it's now the 7th sense, 'stripdar'... "i SEE STRIPPERS".

    today at the post office was a classic...
    tall, very tanned girl, waist-length black hair, perfect bolt-ons in tight pink t, denim mini, metallic silver sandals wound up her calves, very pretty. text book stripper. if she wasn't, she should be. i'd get a dance or two. (she was a high 9)

    every guy in queue was staring... one guy literally walked into me because he was staring at her... (i was invisible next to Ms stripper universe)

    yesterday at supermarket:
    very tanned, very busty, curvey, long blonde-haired girl, eating a danish out of a bakery bag at 9am on sunday morning, no makeup but that sexy strut, in clothes that fully covered her but were still sexy as hell. (my husband spotted her first... he's got stripdar too -- he poked me in the ribs and whispered, 'look, there's one') hehe.

    it's only since i've been on SW that i seem to see would-be/dancers everywhere. prior, i was just another retiree who had almost forgotten about it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nautilus
    since these... 'can you tell'... and 'do you see girls who could' threads i have become like that kid out of 'sixth sense'. it's now the 7th sense, 'stripdar'... "i SEE STRIPPERS".

    today at the post office was a classic...
    tall, very tanned girl, waist-length black hair, perfect bolt-ons in tight pink t, denim mini, metallic silver sandals wound up her calves, very pretty. text book stripper. if she wasn't, she should be. i'd get a dance or two. (she was a high 9)

    every guy in queue was staring... one guy literally walked into me because he was staring at her... (i was invisible next to Ms stripper universe)

    yesterday at supermarket:
    very tanned, very busty, curvey, long blonde-haired girl, eating a danish out of a bakery bag at 9am on sunday morning, no makeup but that sexy strut, in clothes that fully covered her but were still sexy as hell. (my husband spotted her first... he's got stripdar too -- he poked me in the ribs and whispered, 'look, there's one') hehe.

    it's only since i've been on SW that i seem to see would-be/dancers everywhere. prior, i was just another retiree who had almost forgotten about it...
    Are you a dancer? Most dancers aren't awake at 9am, and most dancers are about as low profile as you can get.

    The woman at the supermarket at 9am on a sunday morning sounds way to put together to be a stripper. Did she look disheveled? Hung over? Did she walk in a weay that somehow indicated that her feet/legs still hurt from dancing the night before?

    Strippers are uniquely paraniod and tend to have a low profile similar to celebrities.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    Most dancers aren't awake at 9am, and most dancers are about as low profile as you can get.

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    Strippers are uniquely paraniod and tend to have a low profile similar to celebrities.
    Sooo true! Most of those girls who look like strippers out in public wouldn't dream of stooping to our level There's a whole new breed of youngun who dresses stripperish all the time.

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    when i see a girl like that in the convenie, i'm thinking she's just been at work then out playing.... like i used to. i certainly didn't take my strip-face off to go to the supermarket on the way home. the nice man at the store knew our job... so he didn't care.

    9am was a regular deal for me when i was dancing. we'd stay in the bars after work, partying away until starbucks opened so we could flop in an armchair by the fake fire drinking mochas and watch the sun pierce the smog. (tokyo) then we'd stumble down to citibank to deposit the wad of yen. the respectable worky people of our suburb totally knew our go...

    i never danced at home so i had zero to be paranoid about - perhaps that's why i'm missing the low-profile point a little. where i lived/worked, a foreign girl was doing one of 4 things: model, stripper, hostess or english teacher. (and any of those could be escorting too)

    anyway - the point was -- the girls i mentioned should be dancing if they're not. i identified them as strippers from my experience which is probably different to most.

    if i danced at home, i'd probably be low-profile mc-duff too.

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    I had a guy (who, consequently, acts in Skinemax movie)approach me at the gas station and said, "You're a dancer." Just like that....I wasnt wearing anything particularly revealing...longish, flowing skirt, nice top, light makeup....maybe it was the long (middle of back) hair extensions? doh!!! lol
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    Sometimes when I am incredibly bored in class, I mentally tick off the classmate women I think could dance...this is probably a manifestation of my own soaring vanity (I do look a helluva lot better since I took up dancing, but at least one of my friends hates my tan and very blonde look...). I think being more body conscious now, I just tend to notice how other women look as well. I don't like this newfound preoccupation, but ehh. It's worth the tradeoff.

    As far as seeing dancers in real life- the only ones I recognize as dancers in public are the ones I've danced with at my club. And that happens sort of often enough- Ottawa is a small city.

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    before I was actually a dancer, I used to look at girls all the time to try to tell if they were dancers or not.. I always thought dancers would be dressed sexily 24-7. Now that I'm dancing and I've seen some girls outside the club I say there is really no way you can tell if someone's a dancer or not, in Ottawa anyways!
    What one of you said about asking, "do they look hungover, are they walking funny?" is soooo true. LOL, I feel pretty disgusting most days after dancing and not glamourous or sexy at all.. until it's nighttime again and time to put on all that makeup.

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