What space do you all feel that you most in in? Do you think there's a space in the world where everyone all fits in perfectly with no problems based on identity differences?
What space do you all feel that you most in in? Do you think there's a space in the world where everyone all fits in perfectly with no problems based on identity differences?
"You have demonic genius" -Naomi Wolf
"I very much resent it when people - maybe with good intentions or from a progressive point of view - keep telling me, 'It's their culture' ... It's like saying the culture of Massachusetts is burning witches." -Azar Nafisi



all the yoga studios i've been to gave me a feeling that it's a great social equalizer... as well as unitarian churches. other than that, there's a saying, don't remember exactly, "don't change your colors, and the walls will change their colors to match yours"
"The herd walks off the cliff because the herd are not a group of individuals - the herd is a mass of followers and followers follow the path of cowardice."
no.
but that's just been my experience...and who am i right?
why do some people still have to fight to get the same opportunities that are given to others?
reclusiveness...is a good thing.
the greatest revenge in the world...is success.





cemetary



p.s. another quote i like is "everyone is bald underneath their hair". wherever i am i keep in mind that ultimately we all have the same fate, all will die, all have problems, and everything depends on your perception. once you die, as far as you're concerned the world dies with you. when you keep seeing the bigger pic, most of external differences become insignificant.
imagine someone very introverted and asocial. someone who thinks they don't fit in and don't belong anywhere. then that person does a certain drug or gets drunk, and all of the sudden they love everyone and think everyone loves them, and don't give a second thought to whether they fit in or not. so it's all in the mind. you can trick your mind into that state without even getting high.
"The herd walks off the cliff because the herd are not a group of individuals - the herd is a mass of followers and followers follow the path of cowardice."





I have always been sort of the loner type.I don't care to "fit in" anywhere.Like me,good,you don't,well then you can go f*ck yourself.
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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I have never felt like I "fit in". The routine the the majority of American's seem to have bores me to pieces.





I fit in at my house...my cat loves me. I think I dont fit anywhere right now...so I stay home alot.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi





LOL somehow,I imagined a 20 ft. TM trying to fit into a house that had only 9 ft. ceilings when I read this.Originally Posted by TigersMilk
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One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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yay! my cat loves me too, and I am also a home-body........ I don't worry about fitting in. I don't care enough about it, and that was just a lesson learned as i got older......... I've never "fit in", not in grade school/middle school/highschool not ever... I have 35% of my body tatooed, so alot of people are intimidated at first... If they only knew to just ask me questions.... then they would see that I'm not so tough........ the truth is I'm just very shy.... you would never guess I was shy If you saw me at work on the floor..... go figure............Originally Posted by TigersMilk
I heartily second that!Originally Posted by onlythebest
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^^ i feel the same way. i used to have a work philosophy (sp - can't spell worth shit) "i'm not here to make friends. if i do that's cool. if i don't...that's cool too". these days it pertains to life in general. for some odd reason people get quiet on me when i say that.....i don't understand.![]()
why do some people still have to fight to get the same opportunities that are given to others?
reclusiveness...is a good thing.
the greatest revenge in the world...is success.





I fit in really well with myself, and I like myself so it works for me :-)
Volunteering in soup kitchen type places is always an equalizer.





I have, at almost 40, finally found that place...Disneyworld. Met so many types of people from everywhere in the world and never once felt like it was odd to be in their company.
Im seeing a trend here - Im like the posters...dont really have a "place". But I know I will soon, Im working on it... Ive been waiting for timing and the 'just right' school but Ive found it and know I will be very happy when Im doing hair full time.
I LOVE to be alone at home, I was always the weird book worm in school and then turned goth and that didn't help! Now as a dancer with blonde hair and a tan, I am approached by the "cool" kids, but I still don't fit in to me.
I enjoy reading outside with my dogs. There is a great field by my house where they can roam and I can sit in the sun and just take the world in.
But, when I am drunk I feel like I fit in EVERYWHERE... he he good old liquid courage.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
undermy down comforter cuddling with my bf, and doggies...i fit in perfectly there...it's pure harmony![]()
~The best revenge is enjoying life.
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