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    creepy old guy

    So I dont post often, but I did a search for a similar thread and couldnt find any so please forgive me if there is one.
    There is this guy who comes into the club (papa smurf is what the other girls called him) about twice a month. So I sat with him and gave hime a few dances and got about 100 dollars from him. But now he wants to give me about 500 dollars worth of stuff (clothes, food, etc.) but will only do it outside of the club b/c management "discourages" that type of thing going on.
    The thing is is that he is a pervert and wouldnt stop trying to touch me and feel me and that kind of thing. I am not an "extras" girl!
    And then he asks me what I like sex-wise!
    I dont want to say anything to the management or bouncer, b/c he has been giving me some decent money (an average night in my town is about 100-200 dollars, so an extra 100 per night is really good).
    I dont know how to discourage this pervert-type behavior, or how to stay on his good side to keep the money.
    What should I do? I have only been dancing for a month...

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    "creepy old man"...aren't they all?
    Cut him loose soon. If you string him on any longer, he might get stalkerish. He seems to be chomping at the bit too hard. He must really like you. However, no amount of cash is worth worse complications with a pervo who can barely control himself around you.

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    It seems to me that the older a man is the more perverted things come out of his mouth. I usually just giggle when they say perverted things. I had one old man last night tell me he would like to "eat my pussy". I just giggled and said "really, hmmm". I wouldn't meet him outside the club though. He may give you gifts temporarily but once he finds out you aren't going to have sex with him that'll stop. Then he'll stop coming in the club too. Take advantage of having him as a "regular" while it lasts. We mostly have older gentlemen come into our club. I pretty use to the things they say. I know it seems shocking at first but just giggle and act surprised, that's the reaction they are going for I think.

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    I am sorry, I didn't comment on the touching part. As far as that goes I would explain to him that the club does not allow this and tell him to stop while putting his hands down by his side. The bouncer should also be intervening if he isn't obeying the rules. If he can't keep his hands to himself I would dance out of hands reach and get my money up front. That way, he can't touch you and he can't refuse to pay you either.

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    Generously tip a bouncer or two to keep his eye on you while you are with the guy. Tha will help with the octopus syndrome.


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    Thanks girls. i appreciate the input and will definetly ask the bouncer to help me out.

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    This guy sounds like more trouble than hes worth. I understand the asking for sex and telling you what hell do to you stuff...we all get it. But hes comin on strong and has probably cycled his way through a few girls by now.

    Youre smart about not wanting to give him more than by being professional and doing your job. What the other girls said about tipping the bouncer and making sure they intervine when he gets octopussy.

    Enjoy cash while it lasts...there will be another one on the way.
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    ^ agree, too much trouble, but really...
    I had one creepy old guy who I danced for once, and his behavior just freaked me out (bouncing up and down on the couch I guess to get his penis to feel something, and then touching himself to get it up when I was out of the room [managers were watching this on surveillance.]) I had to figure out before he came back what it was worth for me to dance for him. I was at a point where I didn't want to tell any customer a direct no to a request to a lap dance, so when he came in the next time and came over to me, I told him I'd only do lapdances for him if he paid for five dances up front--so if he freaked me out too much I could leave.

    This may not work in your situation, but I'm sure you can find a creative way to discourage him without telling him no--if you do this with lapdances in the club, then it may work in that you'll become a more valuable commodity.

    Have you just straight up told him no, you are not interested in OTC, and even if you were you wouldn't want to risk it for being fired? we all tend to simper and smile our way through rude comments, but have you honestly been direct in telling him NO?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    This guy sounds like more trouble than hes worth. I understand the asking for sex and telling you what hell do to you stuff...we all get it. But hes comin on strong and has probably cycled his way through a few girls by now.

    Youre smart about not wanting to give him more than by being professional and doing your job. What the other girls said about tipping the bouncer and making sure they intervine when he gets octopussy.

    Enjoy cash while it lasts...there will be another one on the way.
    You've said it all.

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    Not directly he left and is currently out of town till the tenth so I said I would consider it but most likely wouldnt feel to comfortable with that.

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