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    I read a thread on the pink site called losers. I expected a male bashing bunch of posts but that was not the case.

    There is enough stuff there for ten novels.

    One of the ladies asked why there were so many relationships with gay men. I wondered the same thing. Seems to me a higher percentage than would be normal in the female population at large.

    Are strippers drawn to gay guys because they have to deal with so many straight assholes in the club every night?

    Why does a stripper become a fruit fly, fag hag?



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    Gay guys can seem more appealing for a few reasons

    -more understanding
    -good looking
    -care about their appearance more (sometimes)
    -many are gentlemen, which is hard to come by when we are working
    -Understand the female psyche better many times.

    Im just guessing here, Ive never ran into a guy that turned out to be gay when Ive dated someone...

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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y

    Are strippers drawn to gay guys because they have to deal with so many straight assholes in the club every night?


    Yes.

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    Why does a stripper become a fruit fly, fag hag?
    The entire adversarial component so common in dancer/customer relationships is gone when it comes to gay men. I've known many women, both dancer and non dancer, who have gay male friends. Most non-gay male/female relationships involve a sexual component on some level. It doesn't matter if it's a dancer/customer or an office co-worker - on some level the guy wants to get into the lady's pants. A big part of the reason that women develop friendships with gay men is that the women knows that the guy isn't trying to get them into bed. I really don't understand why this would a mystery to anyone.
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    another nonsensical thread by mark45y
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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    IAre strippers drawn to gay guys because they have to deal with so many straight assholes in the club every night?
    Nah, it's because strippers and gay guys are equally fabulous.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Feiticeira
    Gay guys can seem more appealing for a few reasons

    -more understanding
    -good looking
    -care about their appearance more (sometimes)
    -many are gentlemen, which is hard to come by when we are working
    -Understand the female psyche better many times.

    Im just guessing here, Ive never ran into a guy that turned out to be gay when Ive dated someone...
    I agree with that list. Plus they look hot making out with other hot gay men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    Plus they look hot making out with other hot gay men.

    Ew.
    Must be a straight woman thing.

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    Nic - gay guys and strippers are similarly fabulous. Honestly, though I don't think it is a stripper thing. The kind of gay guy that women like to spend a whole ton of time with tend to be what you'd call "flamers" - you don't imagine a straight woman being best friend with a closeted top in the Marines. I think the reason women like these guys is because they are always nice to you. Like actively nice - there is constant validation and compliments and an unending stream of casual, meaningless flirting that has no agenda except to flatter you and make you feel good. Why would any person not like that?
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    Most of the comments are pointed to gays being non sexually threatening nice guys. But the women on the losers thread all had sexual relationships with the gay guys. So somebody must have had an agenda beyond constant validation and compliments and an unending stream of casual, meaningless flirting.

    Why would a sexual relationship with a gay guy be preferable to a sexual relationship with a straight guy?


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    I honestly can't see why it would be.

    Out of about 40 posts on the original thread, only about three women owned up to having gay boyfriends-and all of the relationships ended. I'd have to say it's not all that much of a trend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw
    Ew.
    Must be a straight woman thing.
    I am sexually attracted to the male physic... so yeah, I guess it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    I honestly can't see why it would be.

    Out of about 40 posts on the original thread, only about three women owned up to having gay boyfriends-and all of the relationships ended. I'd have to say it's not all that much of a trend.
    Ya can't count. It's 7. Also the posts mentioning losers rather than commenting on other posts are much less than 40. Realize you have agenda. So that's cool.



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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    Ya can't count. It's 7. Also the posts mentioning losers rather than commenting on other posts are much less than 40. Realize you have agenda. So that's cool.
    Well, I can count; I'm just too lazy to read every word of every post. I still don't see any huge trend of hetero/homo pairings between strippers and gay men developing. I do actually spend quite a bit of time in strip clubs talking to strippers as well as reading SW. Your other point is valid, many of the posts where references to other posts.

    We all have agendas Mark. They may not be apparent in every single post that we make but Your's is no less obvious than mine.
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    I briefly dated a bisexual male years back. Women get involved with gay men because the guys are in the closet and lie to them, and often themselves. I know several civilian women who have been seriously involved with a man that ended up coming out, but no strippers that I know of have had the issue. Precious little correlation here...

    So, what exactly is the agenda here? I thought that this was just a nice fun escape in cyberland...

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    Women get involved with gay men because the guys are in the closet and lie to them, and often themselves.
    Well said.

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    Katrina,

    I did not ask the question. A lady from the pink side commenting in the “Loser” thread asked why so many gay guys. I only repeated the question here because I can’t post to the ladies forum.

    I have dated one, economically bi/lesbian stripper and know a few more.

    They hang out in gay bars and when they go out with a guy chances are it is a gay guy.

    Pursuant to that while chatting to a group of lesbians and gay guys at a gay bar one of the gay guys expressed a desire to see the lesbians dance at their club.

    I said I’ll go with you and we did.

    While we were there a couple of dancers came and sat at our table and asked us if we wanted a dance. The gay guy was rather flaming and went into a large semi choreographed scene about how he could never do anything like that. When I was asked I said I had never been with a woman and had no idea what to do or what a private dance consisted of. So I got a private dance.

    It was quite a dance. Quite a dance.

    Upon rejoining the table our friend the lesbian stripper was there. The girls chatted for a minute and then the inevitable happened and my private dancer started hitting me, with a chorus of you ahole, you’re not gay and things like that. But it was a fun experience.

    I can’t help but observe that the male posters here are more successful with the stripperweb female posters in proportion to being in touch with their feminine sides.

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