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    So....thanks for all the advice guys and gals.....

    I tried the methods suggested and I got my first champange room (yay!) the other night....I batted my eyelashes and played very coy...but I never promised anything outright and this custy never asked me straight up for sex...But heres the kicker, once we got into the room he became super aggressive and demanded something extra. I admit I didnt know how to react to this...and the CP room experience ended up sucking b/c I had to spend the entire time deflecting his hands and lips and everything else. On top of that, he was the type of guy that would be a total ass for 5 minutes and then "sober up" for a minute or two and magically be nice and totally apologetic to me, only then to go back to trying to grope me seconds later. Aaargh!

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    Default Re: To be or not to be flamed (update)

    When your customer is fluent in English, this one generally works (remember to smile)...
    "Gentlemen get better dances!"

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    Run to get the bouncer! One of the girls I worked with would lie to them and say she was going to the back to get some protection and she would send the bouncer in instead.

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    Default Re: To be or not to be flamed (update)

    yek - that's a good line.

    i will usually say something along those lines, but lately I have been very stern but demure at the same time when they get too pushy. I'm finding that a lot of the men (regardless of whether they are normally dominant or submissive) are into having a hot girl tell them what to do - in a flirty type of way. Here's the dialogue of one of my handsy boys from last night:

    him: come on baby, let me touch
    me: nope. (smile and wink)
    him: aah, come on, you'll like it
    me: nope. sorry. those are my rules (wink)
    him: you're no fun
    me: look, I'm the boss here. Don't you realize that? I'm in charge (sneak in lots of sexy smiles and giggles) Now stop touching me or I'll make you sit on you hands
    him: booo
    me: sit on you hands (at this point, he sat on his hands and I proceeded to give him a much better dance- since I didn't have to fend off his hands and mouth) see, isn't that better? Don't you like it when I'm the boss?
    him: (sitting there being a good little boy) yes baby! you are a very good boss!
    --- and he didn't touch me once more and bought six more dances followed by a champagne room with me

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    tell him you just pooped...

    I have never been able to do this, but I had a friend that did it

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkkitten
    Run to get the bouncer! One of the girls I worked with would lie to them and say she was going to the back to get some protection and she would send the bouncer in instead.
    I looove this! The club is your office and you are the CEO. He's not your boss. Your job is whatever YOU decide it is not what he decides. Get the money for the VIP up front so when these things happen (and you will have custys like this in the future) you are free to leave him and his bad attitude. Use a two strikes rule to weed out the testers from predators like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    tell him you just pooped...

    I have never been able to do this, but I had a friend that did it


    now, that is funny!!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: To be or not to be flamed (update)

    We get paid up front for our CP room dances...and I thought several times about having that guy kicked out but I just felt so bad for him!LOL...newbie mistakes I guess....We had just got in there when he started the groping and I wanted to give him a chance to behave...our CP rooms are 650 dollars a pop so I felt bad and didnt want to kick him out within 30 secs of being in there....I mean thats alot of money for 30 seconds...but I'm sure the more time I get under my belt the less patient I will become...and then I just simply wont care if he gets the boot because I would have already made my money..

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