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    hi

    there was a thread about what are signs that a customer will spend.

    ok now lets talk about looks,do looks matter to you?
    When a customer or group of customers walk in,what kind of guys do you think to yourself that they might spend money and be good company in the club for sitting with.

    The ones who wear suits,jeans,put gel on their hair,smell good,perhaps the nerdy looking guys,physicially fit,tall etc........? Lets hear what looks and characteristics you somewhat find appealing to you in the club and think that they might be a good target.
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    I never know who will spend money these days to be honest. I use to think it was the guys with suits but we had a whole suited group come in Saturday night and hardly spend a dime. I made most of money of guys my own age that night. Then the night before I made most of my money of a guy that was about 70 years old and wanted to suck my toes. Go figure.

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    Asian tourists and/or businessmen. I have yet to find an asian customer who doesn't spend in the strip club! Now, whether they will spend on me is another matter...

    I am refferring to foreign customers, not Asian-Americans.


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    I find that while it may be stereotypical, the "gang bangers" never spend and ask for extras all of the time

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    I haven't started dancing yet, but how about the old, fat, or ugly men? I would think maybe the guys that wouldn't have much luck with ladies OTC would spend most...am I way off?
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    i don't know if they spend all the time but i like to hang out with the tshirt wearing redneck guys. Sometimes they spend alot sometimes they don't but i almost always have a good time with them and the very least sell a couple drinks.

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    I avoid the guys that smell bad because it can rub off on me, scent is a big deal since my club has no shower, not even a bath room sink set aside for dancers.
    as for looks, I go with the guys that tipped me and then fan out to those that looked interested. Looks don't matter to me as long as their clothes dn't have food or greases spots on them <-- some mechanics just don't get it!
    Also when there is a Harley Davidson group in town I tend to shy clear of them. They really ask us to just let them enjoy the show since they are saving their money for steak and potatoes (yep, they said it). They don't seem to tip much and only wanted dances if there were extras included and at a discounted price. Guess they spend most of their money on their Harleys.
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    I find that going on looks alone is not enough. The men who have spent the most and have the most $$ are usually in jeans and a t-shirt or casual dress. I try to go up to everyone. Not just a certain type. I try to avoid sweaty and smelly. They aren't getting my attention if they can't shower before they come in. I bust my ass to smell/look great. Although, sometimes the smellies are pushy so I'll quote a high price. Sometime they pay it. But, for the most part they can't spend that kind of cash.
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    Guys with baseball caps on backwards rarely spend much, from my experience, lol...

    The gang-bangers and thugs will spend a lot if they are dealers and trying to impress everyone--this happens a lot in Daytona. I remember two thugs (these thugs were white, BTW) who were also immensely fat, and loved jumping up onstage after ripping their shirts off, their gigantic rolls of fat quivering and twitching in a most disgusting fashion. The stupid managers who let them do this were so impressed with the hundreds of ones they would throw in all directions (quite literally), they let them get away with it.

    I only had to work when they came in a couple times, and thankfully they didn't try to jump on stage or strip themselves on those occasions. But then I didn't cater to them. All those ones might have added up but those guys made the clubs look really bad to better, more reliable customers.

    The bikers can be good here for Bike Week--it depends on what kind of bikers they are. Some women seem to do really well with them, but I remember one Bike Week two years ago when nobody made any money here, in contrast to past ones. I missed the last one, but am looking forward to this one, for the money alone--I cleaned up twice during Bike Weeks, since the women I worked with did, too.

    Race Week tends to be better, which is why I am trying to get all this Country music stockpiled, haha.

    The fat old guys are a mixed bag--true they tend to be desperate/appreciative, but some of them are pretty cheap and/or rude, too.
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    Sadly, the cuties rarely have money and yes, I pray for a hottie now and then...
    If a cutie approaches me then I will work it, but I generally stay away from the attractive ones because they are only there for sport not to actually spend some money.
    I have had a few beautiful men/boys, but they are few and far between and usually a long and hard sell that isn't worth it in the long run. Bummer, right?
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    Oh, I heard all about the hot ones from one of my exes, lol...

    They were few and far between, and not generally worth the effort--which sorry to say I cannot sympathize with you about as much as the dancers here might, lol...
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    i make a lot of my money off hot guys, particularly the younger ones. of late i have leaped an old hurdle and started attracting 35+ customers who are as respectful and even more spendy, which i didn't think was ever going to happen. but for every hot guy with no money, i have found two who will crawl to the ATM on their hands and knees for me, or who already happen to have a stack of 20s with my name scrawled on them. the dancer's look and personality determine who will give her money more so than the customer's looks. i do well with nearly any type of customer at least now and again, but i do better with some age ranges and customer types more consistently than others.

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    Damn, Miabella--more power to you...
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    I agree with Paris---Asian tourists almost invariably spend on me. But some of my best regulars are actually Asian-Canadian as well. Maybe there is some truth to that blonde stereotype...

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    White males 30+ are usually what are attracted to me. Asian men never give me any attention, won't even look at me while I'm on stage, let alone buy a dance. Mid-eastern men usually buy dances. I actually did a round for like 8 indian men on Saturday. They were alot of fun.

    I dunno, the "thug" types usually go for me. Even the white guys. They are so "hard" yet secretly tell me how "they've never been with a black girl before, but would love to try" BARF!

    Older black males seldom buy dances from me. They seem to go for the blond girls. some, not all, will speak to me, just to be cordial, but that is the extent of that.







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    Remember...at one time most office male workers were expected to wear coat and tie. Now most offices do not require that, except for top executives and sales staffs. Last time my office required that was in maybe 98 or 99. This is one of the better trends to come out of California.
    Sometimes I can tell by the demeanor of individual males, including where they choose to sit, and confirm by observation, which ones wil be financially cooperative.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Looks have nothing to do w/ it for me. I pick the most homely looking guys. I find attractive guys think they're too good to get dances. I pick someone that i think never gets any attention. Works like a charm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Remember...at one time most office male workers were expected to wear coat and tie. Now most offices do not require that, except for top executives and sales staffs. Last time my office required that was in maybe 98 or 99. This is one of the better trends to come out of California.
    Sometimes I can tell by the demeanor of individual males, including where they choose to sit, and confirm by observation, which ones wil be financially cooperative.
    And you do this why?

    What is your interest in the "demeanor of individual males"?
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    He might be a 'people-watcher' type of regular. I've had women ask me on my nights off who looks like they had money to spend or who would be a good target.

    It is interesting to guess. Last night I stopped in very briefly to see how Katrina the new DJ was doing, and saw a couple of early race fans walk in with "Take my money!" written all over them, lol...

    But it's not always so easy to tell as that.

    Similarly, it's not always easy to tell who the assholes are. I was working with a girlfriend once and sent her over to a well-dressed guy who was clearly smitten with her, knowing the guy would get VIPs--and thinking he might be more of a gentleman about it than the typical customer.

    Sure enough, I was way off--he was an asshole in there--all over her physically, and badgering her mercilessly to take money to meet him later for sex...
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    I mean not groups of males, just singles. What they look at and how they act when gals come around or while at the tip rail. (I never talk to them, just watch when things get slow.) Hope that is clear now.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Yes that is clear. Thank you.

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    I'll talk up anyone who doesnt smell bad, look dirty, or act like an asshole. Looks dont matter to me beyond proper hygiene.
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    Really you can't tell until you talk to them. Generally I leave the guys in expensive clothes to last, my personal experience is that they are there to impress, and will give you the run around trying to get the most for thier money (maybe that's why I have no success with them because I walk away halfway through the "what else can I get for $20"
    Other than the suites i tend to go on ages. Clothes don't really mean much. Some guys drop in after work, or on the spur of the moment and haven't dressed especially for the club.
    Groups of young guys are down the bottom of 'to approach' list, I find they are keen on impressing thier mates with thier witty put down lines. They usually can't afford to spend any more than is required to get them to a wonderful state of leglessness and vomiting.
    If i have a choice of people to choose from I try the 30 something guy on his own first. Groups of 30 somethings (do a good dance and they will recommend you t each other), 2nd, individual oldys next, young dudes towards the bottom. I might add being an older lady I feel that a young guy would prefer a girl more his age, so my list is influenced by that as well.

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