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    this has never happened to me before ..as i approached a customer at a table sitting all alone.When i walked up to him before i could say hello he waved me off....lol so i just kept on walking by.This happened again later that night.........come to think of it ,it may have been the same guy...........ha ha....has anyone ever been waved off by a customer??

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    Better to be waved of than insulted or have your time wasted. Consideryourself fortunate that he let youknow right away that he was not interested.

    Probably waiting for his reg or just watching the show, anyway.


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    Go back into the dressing room and direct all of the bored harpies who don't make money towards the "high roller who just gave you $200 to leave him alone." Instruct them to be very, very persistent.
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    ^^^ That's too funny. It does haopen, most of the ones who do it have been of a certain race. Someone told me that it's their culture. I personally hate it, I think they should wait until you have introduced yourself at least before saying no and it should be said with words, not hands.

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    Very rude! It's along the same lines as the customers who say "no" even before you've said a word. While I do appreciate them not wasting my time...they could at least have the courtesy to say hi and tell me they're waiting for someone else.

    Pinkkitten, when I was in Japan they would make an X with their arms and that was how they said no...ugh! drove me nuts!

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    Its rude but it saved you valuable time. Rather be waved off or sit and chat for 2 songs to have him say hes not interested or waiting for someone...

    Thurs night there was a group of 4 guys who kept telling girls no before they even opened their mouthes... I asked what the problem was so they say $20 is too much for a dance.. I started ranting - lol - about what I had just read on her about the NOLA club with the pedistal and $100 dances etc, then about inflation, etc (it was really slow and i was bored)... well, one guy ended up buying one of the others and dance and a group of dancers started clapping and cheering as we walked to the LD area... then the others started buying... it was funny... sometimes you can break them...usually not tho...

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    If they use that line with me, I say " You spend more than that at wal-mart. or the bass pro shops, or the gun store, or the hunting and fishing outlet... You get my drift.

    Usually I'll send the more horrendous, extras girl over his way.. if he wants cheap well hey, better her than me.

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    I think that it is incredibly rude when a guy does this. He is most likely a social reject who doesn't know how to tell a dancer that he isnt interested with WORDS, and with RESPECT.

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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    Go back into the dressing room and direct all of the bored harpies who don't make money towards the "high roller who just gave you $200 to leave him alone." Instruct them to be very, very persistent.

    ha! I love that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    Pinkkitten, when I was in Japan they would make an X with their arms and that was how they said no...ugh! drove me nuts!
    Good God! It's like a vampire warding off garlic! Brutal.

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    I don't like it either. I have told guys that let me know in a rude way they aren't interested when approaching them for a dance that I was really aching to give a free blow job tonight but since you're not interested I'll move on. That'll usually make them laugh at least anyhow.

    However, I appreciate it if a guy lets me know he isn't interested in a dance in a pleasant manner.

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    Yes I have had similar things happen. Don't let it get to you! The guy probably has self-esteem issues and is trying to make himself feel better, or else is clueless, or both.

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    omg that sucks... no i was trying to talk to these 2 guys who were there for a batchlor party and they were kinda cute..but they totally just ignored me lol so at least that guy gave you SOME response!!

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    Uh,I ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY hate that!

    They are usually society's rejects. I usually tell them so too.


    Last time it happened to me I gave them a disgusted face and waved them away back. Next time I will tell them to go home!

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    I guess unfortunately some people are assholes whether they are in a SC, grocery store, whatever.

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    At my club we walk around for tips on the inside of the bar after our stage sets, and sometimes guys will wave you off. A lot of the girls get mad and rip the guys new assholes. Especcially at the end of the night! Serves them right. I personally don't care about a dollar but I think it's rude! If someone waved me away before even talking to them I'd b e pissed.

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    baby it happens to the best of us.. no matter how hot or in shape or nice you are, not every guy is always gonna want a dance.... thats just the nature of the beast..... it used to bother me when i first started but if it happens, which is rare, i just shake it off and don't let it ruin my night.....

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    Its' got to be one of my biggest pet-peeves ever. It's so rude. I've gone to shake a guys hand and he looked at it, and pulled his hand away (not because I have ugly hands or anything!) and I've had other times where I've said hi how are you and they didn't even answer me. I liked what someone on here said though, at least they're not wasting your time. I think I'll tell that to myself next time that happens.

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    I work in a military town and most guys come in the club in groups. ALL THE TIME when I'm on stage there are guys that will wave me off in the direction of their friend, and the friend will wave me back. I take the money that's in front of each of them and tell them that since neither one of them wants me to dance for them I'll move on to the next guy, and when they're ready for me to put more money on the stage and come back.

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    I've had this happen to me more than once and it sucks everytime. It usually doesn't fade me, but every now and again I might make a comment that will leave em' with their jaw dropped. It's unfortunate that a lot of these custys don't understand stripper etiquette. We're people too and that waving em' off sh-- has got to go.

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    what kind of comments to you make. I'm always wishing for good comebacks so I don't feel so powerless.

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    I couldn't even tell you, half the time what I say is in the heat of the moment and I'm known at my club for my famous oneliners, but it's really off the top of my head. I rarely repeat anything twice, but it's usually a snap and when I get through reprimanding these custys for their ignorance it's usually followed by an apology and hopefully their behavior has been corrected for the next girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
    Pinkkitten, when I was in Japan they would make an X with their arms and that was how they said no...ugh! drove me nuts!


    Do they accompany that with a buzzing sound like on the Family Feud?

    If I were a dancer I don't think I could get offended by that, it's so freaking weird and I think I would just find it hilarious.

    "I just got the big X!"

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    that happened to me when i worked in a club w/ the stage inside the bar (u walk arouund the inside of the bar and get tips like that) they wave you on like youre bothering them or something...riot. I conclude that theyre out of $$$

    I remember one night EVERY customer I approached would roll his eyes like, "oh what does this bitch want?" After about 15 of those, I flipped on 16th one and told him, that is VERY rude, you dont need to roll your eyes if you dont want company-I'm supposed to approach people, Im just doing my job--if you dont like it, the doors right there!" He said,"actually, I didnt roll my eyes, my contacts are dry." oops.

    wave ons dont bother me...but whats just plain rude is when you talk to them and they flat-out ignore you like youre not there.

    I did an experiment once when a saleperson was trying to talk to me-i ignored him completely, although he was in full range of my hearing, he called me a stuck up bitch under his breath. I conclude that ignoring ppl when they are talking to you is rude. LOL
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    I've only been "waved off" once, but the guys were EXTREMELY cheap. They weren't drinking OR tipping. They were only there for the free show.

    I'm glad they didn't waste my time.

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