We have worst insults ever given to You by a coustomer, But what about a dancer?



We have worst insults ever given to You by a coustomer, But what about a dancer?
There was once a Russian dancer who would tell me one way or the other that I looked tired every shift that I worked with her.
"You look so tired."
"Are you tired?"
"Why do you have black circles under your eyes - did you not sleep last night?"
one girl used to always call me a junkie both to my face and to others. Her reasoning went something like "your thin, dress in black, and wear your hair straight."
stupid bint
We can move with savage grace to the rhythms of the night
Cool and remote like dancing girls, in the heat of the beat and the lights
No one's ever said anything to me... Well, not to my face at least. Lol.
If you think school is hard, try being stupid.
This was years ago, at my old club. I hadn't worked in a week and had gained a couple pounds, plus I was bloated and raggin. When I walked into the dressing room this bitch goes....
"Damn she looks swole" (As in swollen)
Thanks bitch, as if I hadn't felt bad enough already!!
One girl got mad at me because we had the same purse. Didn't beat me up or anything, just mentioned that she was pissed that I "copied" her. Who fucking cares what kind of purse you have?
Other than that, nothing.
Waitresses tend to be more bitchy than the dancers.
One waitress thought she owned the customers or something. Because she informed me that I was obviously annoying the guys I was sitting with because I refused to let them pour champagne on me and SHE told me to "fucking leave". The guys had no idea who she was and apologized and they spent about an hour with me in the champagne room. Some people, go figure.
When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail!
I've had a lot of insults about my pre-opt boobs.
The month before I got my boob job, I talked excitedly about it nonstop at work. There was this bitchy, snobby 19-yr-old girl named Monique at my club, who would ignore me to my face when I said "hello," snickered in my presence, laughed at me when I was hurt/upset/crying, and the only words she said to me were insults, which she said when she butted her head into my conversation to interrupt. SHE was a natural D-cup, and one day when I was telling a group of people about the boob job I was getting, she interrupted sarcastically, "BUT YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BOOBS." Duhhhh I KNEW that, that's why I was getting mine DONE, and she already knew this.
And then after I get my boobs done. People are all saying stuff like, "Yeah, you had like nothing at all before!" or as one girl said, "Before your boob job, you didn't have much of anything." That made me feel like I was un-strippable or something before the boob job. Yeah it's good to know that I look fine now, but it makes me wonder how hideous I looked before!! And to think that some hypocrites didn't even want me getting my boobs done, yet as soon as I get them done, they're so quick to remind me how "flat" I was before and how much better I look now! They don't say it in the most tactful of ways either.





they wouldn't dare! (i'm sure they said plenty behind my back)
I was told by another dancer that that I drank too much. She was right at the time, unfortuately.
I am not a dancer YET!! But you best believe if a dancer comes up to me with that stupid shit, We will be fighting!!! I dont play that shit!! and yall should not neither. I dont do anything to anybody. but mind my own bussiness, thats all!!! But you know what that is why I dont talk to that many females because they Hate to much. They are 2-faced jealous ass bitches!! I hope nothing goes on like that when I start working because IT WILL NOT BE TOLERATED!!!
Unfortunately hun, that's the nature of the beast.Girls are already competitive by nature, add money in the mix and stupidity is bound to ensue. And that's what it is:stupidity.And competition. If you were to fight every dancer who insulted or talked about you, you'd be fighting more than making money.It's just not worth it, sometimes letting it go is the best thing to do.Originally Posted by LilAlize
One girl told me that while *she* thought I had a beautiful body, generally speaking, she and the guys she was sitting with had agreed, while I was onstage, that the thong I was wearing made me look like a SUMO WRESTLER, and that I should do something about it.
I think she honestly thought I'd thank her for the helpful advice... she was very upset when I told her to #$%@ off.
At 5'3" and 110 lbs, this one kind of caught me out of left field.
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One I can remember (I've posted this insult before in another thread a long time ago). Went something like this:
Girl: Have you any children?
Me: No. Why?
Girl: Your boobs look saggy. You should consider a breast op.
The thing is, she was meaning to be nice!!! I like "WTF?" My boobs are pendulous. Hear that? PEN-DU-LOUS!! They are NOT saggy! The men love the mammaries nature gave me and so do I so enough of this shit already!
Seriously, all some girls have seen are fake boobs that they've truly forgotten how natural ones sit on the female body.
OK, mini-rant over!
You are the envy
of all parallel lines that
dream of curves and convergence
- Sara Bailey: Sieve of Words





I was at a club in the middle of nowhere, and this one dancer was really freaked out that I'm a lesbian (I don't know how it came up, I don't really advertise it), and she was telling all the other girls like not to sit too close to me in the dressing room and stuff. My fourth (and last) day there, I walked in and she started screaming at me to clean the toilet because she knew that I had personally bled all over it the night before. There was no blood on the toilet and I didn't have my period, but I'm all peaceful and stuff, so I was like, "the toilet is perfectly clean now, but if it will make you happy I'll clean it at the end of the night" but she just kept screaming until they made her go home.




To my face nothing, but behind my back I've heard stuff like "why does she make more than me, I'm prettier, thinner, younger, etc". It used to bother me but now I don't care, women do tend to be competitive and immature sometimes. The customer comments bother me more. Actually, the staff (DJ, bouncer, manager, waitress) comments are the worst.


I had one girl tell me that I would have the perfect body if only I had tits to go with it. Yeah really boosting my self-esteem there.
hm...This was passed to me second hand by some girls who I believed because they weren't drama girls. There's this one dancer at the club in my town who has heft to her, but she looks good. Kind of does the serious pout thing too much for my taste, and I think she's an extras girl--but I never talk shit about anyone at the club. I'll compliment people or say nothing at all because it means I can cut through the drama. Anyways, this dancer was talking to my friend dancers and saying that in all her eleven years of dancing, I'm the worst dancer, she's EVER seen (or something like that.) And the girls who were telling me this were like, shoot, what is she talking about? There's girls at this club that dance so bad and she's picking on you? You're a fun dancer to watch.
Although, I've also gotten comments on how I dance like a "gogo dancer" or that I'd be great if "only you slowed things down." My POV is that stage dancing is the best part of my job and damned if I'm not going to enjoy myself up there while I'm doing it. And while I can not make my ass clap (ahem to a specific person) I can make it jump enough to make the men pay attention. HOLLA!
Okay, I've had my ghetto butt moment.
I was working at a club and for some reason a girl (who happened to be here on SW for a short while) just didnt like me. She went up to a dancer (well call her B) who I knew and told her that i do porn and its so slutty and i do extras and blah blah blah. Well - karma hit her real hard when B told her to shut her f*cking mouth because she does porn too... B was soooo pissed - the sh*t talker ended up getting ran out of the club because B was one of the hot shots. Her little plot of getting me run out of the club for doing porn ended up totally backfiring.
one girl screaming at me that *her* customer (who she already admitted was not her regular) said that i charged less for my dances and lied and was a lying bitch blah blah blah. tried to flip out in my face and then had the nerve to try to tell ME to get out of her face. just told her the truth (that the custy was lying, there were witnesses there) and left.
~The best revenge is enjoying life.
A dancer named Peaches hated me- I was uh, smaller than her. Once she made a snotty comment about my red bikini right before I went onstage...I happened to have picked Prince's "Peach" as my first song...LOL...Woops...Guess we weren't meant to be friends.




Well you will learn to let it go. Why would you want to fight with someone that has nothing better to do than talk bad about others. It just puts you on the level as her if you do the same thing she did.Originally Posted by LilAlize




I never heard anything in my face but I can feel that girls didn't like me in some clubs. Some girl said she isn't that pretty. My friend overheard 2 bitchy girls talking about me and one said I hate her cause she's so pretty. I was like wtf was that ?? Some girls were talking together and said bla bla bla complaining about not making money and that it was because we were there. Girls will be girls !





My favorite is that I'm to old to dance.
At our Entertainer of the Year contest this year one girl was sayign that one girl and I were too old and that we wouldn't place. Well she got first (at 32) and I got 2nd. The girl saying all this may be younger but she's a plus size unattractive girl. Just jealous, that's whats going on when other girls say shit about you.
A dancer with whom I used to travel with (and was great friends), had been talking shit behind my back. This all came to light after we had pretty much parted ways. Well the shit got thick, she tried to save face by apologizing, went ok for awhile, got worse, and she ends up smashing glass in my dancer trunk, food, street clothes, etc.... She would trash talk all these girls at new clubs we travelled to together, and told people I was saying this. She also said I was bulimic and abusing ex-lax. Man, she was A#1 certified c*nt. Honestly the only person I can say that I hate. She's the other girl in the picture with me in the gallery.
"A dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to want to take it off you."
Francoise Sagan
Sometimes mental illness makes dancers act irrationally hostile. & We all know drug abuse can cause psychotic behavior AND it is a sad common fact of the bar scene.
I have a bad temper, but my brother (who gets into fistfights sometimes) pointed out that it's not worth exposing yourself to blood-borne communicable diseases if you are being threatened by someone with questionable health. (I was ranting about how I wanted to kick the a*s of a female roommate of his that ripped him off, and he told me, "She has Hepatitis. And she fights dirty.")
Ok kind of a threadjack, but the best reason to NOT kick the a*s of someone getting in your face, if it's not worth it in the end.
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