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    This was actually kind of funny. There was a girl in Guam who just got a real, irrational hate on for me as soon as she saw me. And we were living together. I never did get it. But I don't wear a lot of make up to work, and I always do well. So naturally all the girls who think they're prettier than me decide I have to be a whore. The funny part being, I didn't really know there was a problem until another girl told me. She was giving me a ride home:
    Her: You know, I think this is getting kind of out of hand. If it keeps up, I'm going to talk to [insert manager's name]
    Me: If what keeps up?
    Her: Well, you know, all the gossip and the name calling. They're just jealous?
    Me: Are you sure? Name calling? Of me?
    Her: Um.. Yes. You didn't hear about her telling all the customers that you go home with other guys?
    Me: No. Huh. That's probably why I was busy.
    Me: Really?
    Her: You didn't HEAR her starting singing "There are hoes in the house" when you walked into the change room?
    Me: No! Why would I be listening for that? How would I possibly make that connection?

    Up until then, I thought everyone liked me.
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    I have a 34a cup size, and I manage to work it. Never let anyone make you feel less than the fab woman that you are!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Feiticeira
    If you were to fight every dancer who insulted or talked about you, you'd be fighting more than making money.It's just not worth it, sometimes letting it go is the best thing to do.
    That's sooo true.
    I mean, i believe in standing your ground and not allowing others to push you around. But truthfully, some people just say dumb shit without thinking
    Here's mine..
    A new dancer comes in & is doing the usual get to know everyone thing like, "hey, how long you been dancing/ how old are you/ any kids?"
    This chic asks me how old i was. At the time i was 26 & told her. She comes back with, "Ohh, you must of had a rough life cuz, you look older" talk about a doing a double-take. I just looked at her stupid and said.."yeah, i have had a rough life". BUT DAMN!!, i never.... wanted to choke someone so hard in my life. It was the last thing i needed at the moment. The night before i sat up crying all night, depressed about having to move & not knowing where to go. And yes, my eyes we're puffy as hell the next day & i knew i looked like shit. But, i still got up & went to work...then this . Needless to say, i shook it off & picked up my head going about my business cuz i knew she was young[18]/inexperienced/immature/and just plain inconsiderate. It just goes to show.. they're not worth the effort.

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    Yeah I get the "she's too old" thing all the time. They are the most gorgeous girls but they just sit in the changeroom and bitch about everyone all night long instead of being on the floor making money. It got too much for me at one club so that i took a few weeks off. When I came back the managers were like "Oh I'm so glad you're back. I'm sick of the customers asking where you are"
    The nasty evil girls are just jealous that you are more popular with the customers (and they're the ones who count) and making money.

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    I'm a curvy girl, but well proportioned. Another girl who is curvy as well told another dancer, she's just as big as me but gets more VIPS.

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    That i was an escort (which i was at the time) and was in the other dancers club looking to pick up clients! All because i was an escort, sitting on a custies lap and PAYING for dances from time to time for HIM from other dancers...Bitch. Got thrown out! Lol.

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    I know people have insulted me, but it's never made it's way back to me, thank goodness. I don't need that crap.

    A girl said I looked like Selma Blair after I told her she looked like Alanis Morissette. We both meant them as insults, but it was done in a very passive-aggressive Canadian way.

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    How about someone just not say anything, just looked at me and laughed??? While I was getting tipped when I got off stage...okay.

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    Gee! I haven't posted here in forever! One I first started dancing, the insults I remember were if I had been partying too hard or depressed and crying, customers would say that I looked five years older than what I was. (Which was funny because I was also an actress who was constantly playing teenage roles until I was 30, wtf??)

    Now, I work part-time on a topless bar in the valley in LA, CA. In the last 8 months or so, I have dropped two pant sizes and a dress size. I have no idea how much I weigh but will guess at 5'2" somewhere btw 98 to 102. However, because of my frame I'm not skinny

    But here are the comments from a mostly Latin clientle: This from the last time I worked: " Your face is so cute and I love your costumes, you look much better w/ your clothes on".

    Others: When I should a photo to a custy weighing 25lbs more" You were a little chubby but at least your boobs were bigger". "Your'e a pretty girl but are you OK? Stop losing so much weight". "Ella esta muy flaca( and they didn't tip, they were at my stage"...it goes on.

    However, at my gym, a personal trainer pointed me out and told his client (a woman) that within a month she could have my definition.

    I am also a casting director in the hollywood circuit (just cast my first full feature film ) and at those networking parties people always tell me I look great

    Sorry for the long post. I am just caught btw two worlds that I work in. In the dance world I am "staving" but in the mainstream entertainment world I am OK.

    At least I can laugh at the insults. Ah, I have one more. When I was doing extra work, I had gained around 15lbs. I danced at this bikini bar and a custy asked if I had children(I don't), I lied and told him I had five. He thought I was telling the truth and said I looked good for five kids!!!

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    oh my gosh i get stared at so much by other girls customers and dancers all the time i feel like screaming what the FFFKK are you looking at !! LOL

    This dancer said to me one time...oh you look like a little barbie doll......................it wasn't so much as what she said to me but the way she said it,she talked down to me and like i was some kind of freak or something,she was very catty ....argh!

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    my personal favourite was "but why did he book you?"
    it was obviously meant to mean i was unattractive or not worth booking or something.

    another one was not a spoken insult, but i found it rather insulting, was when a girl who i have mutual friends in common with (but we don't really get along) was coming out of a dance just as i went in, and she totally came over and was all over my customer (who i happen to have known for quite a while, since i first started as a bargirl, actually), and then told him that she was joining the dance, and to give his money to her. she then turned to me, and as an afterthought, said 'oh, thats okay with you...?"

    i should also add that i hadn't seen her in 8 weeks or so and it was the first night i'd been back that she'd worked..grrr....

    EDIT: what was funny was that she thought i didn't know him and proceeded to tell me how long she'd known him for...two months!!! even funnier was his reply 'aww, no way, she's my baby, we've known each other for so long!! isn't she great" i really love my regulars sometimes!!!
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    a guy on saturday nite said "you need a tan!" other insults have been - "youre new arent you" and that i look like alanis morrissette and leann rimes. i dont understand how one person could say i look like alanis and another could say i look like leann - they both look COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. a lot of guys compare me to the band camp girl from american pie and also avril lavinge. not so much insults there as they are cute girls.
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    no one's ever said anything to my face.

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    I didnt see this thread first time round, so Im ressurecting it!

    We had a 'lovely' young girl called Ariel (like the mermaid) She was rude and tactless anmd not that good looking, but was convinced she was da bomb. She only started making any money(more than $30 a shift!) after she started extras, and the novelty of her $5 blow jobs(no joke) soon wore off, so she made no money again.

    her best lines:
    to the head girl - are you paris? Gee I heard you were pretty *scoff*
    - Whats wrong with your eyes?You look like a corpse(she has light grey eyes)
    To another NOT FAT dancer - gee no wonder YOU made so little money *looking her up and down*
    To a dancer suffering from depression - god you look horrible, if I looked that bad Id kill myself
    About me to a custie - dont bother with her, shes crap. (he was a regular of mine and went and complained to mgmt, PLUS told her that since she was a nasty dog about me, he'd tip me extra to make up for me loosing any business cos of her.


    So not only nasty but tactless. This thread is great!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste View Post
    I didnt see this thread first time round, so Im ressurecting it!

    We had a 'lovely' young girl called Ariel (like the mermaid) She was rude and tactless anmd not that good looking, but was convinced she was da bomb. She only started making any money(more than $30 a shift!) after she started extras, and the novelty of her $5 blow jobs(no joke) soon wore off, so she made no money again.

    her best lines:
    to the head girl - are you paris? Gee I heard you were pretty *scoff*
    - Whats wrong with your eyes?You look like a corpse(she has light grey eyes)
    To another NOT FAT dancer - gee no wonder YOU made so little money *looking her up and down*
    To a dancer suffering from depression - god you look horrible, if I looked that bad Id kill myself
    About me to a custie - dont bother with her, shes crap. (he was a regular of mine and went and complained to mgmt, PLUS told her that since she was a nasty dog about me, he'd tip me extra to make up for me loosing any business cos of her.!

    You can't write this stuff.

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    Bump*
    She think she all that!!!
    She think she cute!!
    She only get dances cuz she has cute face "she being catty"

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    When I was brand new at my club there was this one girl in the dressing room who tried to rile me up. I had taken my glasses off to fix an eyelash or something and the girl, drunk and loudly chatting behind me, caught my eye in the mirror. It went something like this:

    her: OHHH MY GOD! You look SOOOOO much better without those glasses!
    me: Haha, I hear that from time to time
    her: *in an overly sweet, fakeassbitch tone" SERIOUSLY THOUGH! Honey! Why do you wear those??
    me: Because they make my vision better?
    her: Yeah but they make you look NOT CUTE! Like I saw you earlier and I was wondering, 'Why did they even hire her? She's not even pretty at ALL!' Here let me see how they look on me! *picks them up from the counter and puts them on* OH MY GOD, seriously these are UGLY! I'm surprised they let you wear them!
    me: *adopting the same fakeassbitch tone* Oh my GODDDD, I'm surprised because that's seriously SUCH a nice thing to say DIRECTLY to someone's face! (At this point we had gotten the attention of a few other girls who had always been friendly to me -- they snickered at my response)
    her: *as if she hadn't heard me* But anyway I guess I see it now, why they hired you, you've got potential with your glasses off.
    me: Well yeah everyone knows that! Just like in that supercool teen movie She's All That, remember that one? With Freddie Prinze, Jr. and that one girl! All she had to do was take off her glasses and she was a total babe. See, now watch me go from babe to dork real quick (I took my glasses from her and put them back on) -- nope, still a babe, wonder why that didn't work...

    I don't remember really what happened after that, but about a week later the DJ randomly put us onstage together... I hadn't ever gotten her name so I didn't realize who I was dancing with until halfway through the first song. She was wearing big fake glasses with no lenses, hahah

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    So this didn't happen to me with a dancer but with management at my first club. We were opened on Easter and I figured I'd go in and try to make some extra cash. As I was waiting in my car for the club to open the bouncer came up to me and told me that the club was actually closed for the whole day and they were having a managers' meeting blah blah blah. So I go home. Come to find out he lied to me and that it was open because my roommate was just about to head over to my club to party. So I'm like "the fuck???" I confronted him about he and he just shrugged his shoulders and was like "manager doesn't want you working past 9. you're too fat".

    SO PISSED!!!

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    Overheard: "Her stretch marks are bigger than her tits."
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Mom. Because I am almost twice the age of the dancer I have danced with recently. Did a bachelor party with a girl who was 21 and she let them think we were mother and daughter even when we went down on each other for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Overheard: "Her stretch marks are bigger than her tits."
    Uggg so cruel. That would strike such a nerve in me as, to use your phrase, Tempest, I am a former "fatty mcfat fat." It feels good to be thin now but the damn stretchmarks (though very light and faded at this point) still get me down sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    Uggg so cruel. That would strike such a nerve in me as, to use your phrase, Tempest, I am a former "fatty mcfat fat." It feels good to be thin now but the damn stretchmarks (though very light and faded at this point) still get me down sometimes.
    I'm covered in em too. Coco butter and olive oil are your best friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    Uggg so cruel. That would strike such a nerve in me as, to use your phrase, Tempest, I am a former "fatty mcfat fat." It feels good to be thin now but the damn stretchmarks (though very light and faded at this point) still get me down sometimes.
    I hate it when people insult body flaws that you absolutely cannot do anything about...


    Did I tell you guys when I told this new girl I wanted to audition at a different club and she was like "umm... i don't think they would hire you. You would need to lose at least 20 pounds".

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    This whole thread makes me sad..you gotta remember, people that have to insult others have an insecurity w/in themselves, or, as Kanye West said:" Always remember, whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you".


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    I had Artificial Disc Replacement surgery (spinal surgery) earlier this year and it put me out of work for almost 2 months. I'm a stage performer and was training to compete in professional pole dancing competitions up until I found out I needed the surgery. I still trained and performed at work before getting the surgery. When I was out, I wasn't allowed to lift over 5 pounds, etc. and all of my muscle turned to fat. So when I returned to work, one of my friends literally said, "Girl, you gained weight in all of the right places and it shows!" I was like "WTF?! Why would you say that to another dancer, let alone your friend?!"

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