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    Hey George, what’s happening. Had a lap dance with your wife last night. Ya she is great. Does she lube up that much at home? And that’s the cutest little mole she has right in the middle there. How in the heck does she do that trick with those long nails of hers without cutting the crap out of herself. I am sorry about the bruise she told me I should take the belt off but I felt funny doing that. And tell her not to worry about the wet stuff I was tested last week after we had that broken one in Miami.

    I guess I probably have an over active imagination but lets for argument sake say you are married to or living with a stripper who works in a high mileage club. How would you handle it?

    Is there any male on here who could deal with the above conversation? You know how tacky guys can get after a couple of beers.

    I don’t think any decent guy could cope. I was married to one stripper and engaged and lived with two more. A part of the deal was that they stop dancing. I didn’t mind that they had in the past tense worked in high contact clubs but I could not handle it while they lived with me.

    I don’t buy the we need the money thing. I either worked harder, got a part time job or we did without. If I did anything else I would have felt like a pimp. I don’t think a decent guy can be a pimp.

    This post was motivated by a couple of threads I read about men hating and all guys being losers on the pink site. At first I was critical but then I started wondering just what kind of guy would live with or be married to a stripper at a high contact club. Of course they are losers. Of course they would engender hatred of the male species in general.

    I would submit that a woman stripping at a high mileage club will never get a decent guy or woman for that matter on a long term basis.

    Am I wrong?




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    yes, you are.

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    The post was actually aimed more at the men on this forum. I think there a number of decent guys here and I wondered if any of them could handle being involved in a relationship like the one I described.

    Although Miabella thank you for not personally attacking me. I did expect a number of posts being personally derogatory to me without mentioning the question or discussing the issue.

    The only possible exception to this, in my mind, after reading Stripperweb for three years or so would be Katrina. Listening to her descriptions of a night at work would be worth any social stigma or physical problems I might feel.

    However if the lady of my dreams got home and told me that a stranger had got blood stained semen on her butt my first reaction would be, that’s it baby that’s the last night dancing.

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    Mark,

    If you meet someone working in a high mileage club, learn to accept what's happening. There's nothing more sexy to a woman than a guy who isn't jealous. Your own self confidence is key.

    It all depends upon how you establish your relationship. If she works in a high mileage club, chances are that she will go the extra mile and from time to time enjoy it too. This is where the relationship should go both ways.

    I wonder what the gals would think of this, but there have been a few posts in the past about girls "rubbing one off" on a guy they're attracted to. If your SO "rubs one off", then she should feel comfortable having you do the same type of experience with another girl.

    Of course, it's all about discretion and respect. Seriously, we Americans are very prudish about all this. The latinos and europeans are much more open (yet discrete) about this.

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    Interesting topic.

    I haven't been in that situation so I don't know how I would handle it, but being the emotionally detached type that I am I probably would be okay with it as long as she's okay with doing it, that probably doesn't make me a decent guy though does it?

    Conversely, I was talking with a dancer last week about her love life and she was complaining to me about how hard it is to find a good guy who is willing to accept her dancing, she then immediately added "even if they are okay with it, do I really want to be with the type of guy who is okay with it?".

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    ^^^ Indicating that she herself isn't okay with it, obviously.

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    It was tough on my relationship. He requested that I not dance in our home city, for the EXACT reason your described in your OP Mark.

    Our policy was don't ask/don't tell. So I went to SCJ and told me stories to all of you since he didn't want to hear about them and become jealous or upset.

    But I don't think its impossible for a woman dancing high mileage to be able to find a good mate. Difficult, but not impossible. I had a good mate, and stripping had nothing to do with our breakup. Susan has a good mate, lots of dancers I know have....

    Now that I'm NOT dancing, I can't find a decent partner to save my life, I am lonlier than ever!!!

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    It's tough to generalize about this. I am close with several dancers who are married. I've met thier husbands and guess what? they are normal. In fact, thier lives are normal. The women don't walk around the house in 7" heels and a thong and they don't sit in their husband's friend's laps and flirt for tips at social gatherings. What's really funny is that the topic of conversation is often the loser customers at the club.

    I've also spent intimate time with two dancers who where working at the time and, though sleeping with someone is certainly not the same as being married, I really didn't let it bother me. Knowing how things work in the club (it's all about the money, remember?) made it easier to deal. I think that a guy who sees clubs for what they are and understands what motivates women to dance would have a better chance at dealing with a dancing spouse. Still, there are no guarantees.

    It's going to depend on how both parties handle the issues that will arise. Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    Yoda,
    Just to clarify are you talking about high mileage dancers. Where the VIP room is similar to the bedroom. Or just dancers who grind every once in a while.
    At the risk of sounding vague here what's the diff? The clubs they work in are full contact grind clubs with many dancers offering extras in the VIP room. The only person who knows exactly what's going on in the VIP room is the dancer and the customer. I have, at one time, been a customer of all of the married ladies I mentioned. Four years ago, before she was married, one of the ladies in question gave me a BJ in her club. I'm not a big spender or a rock star so I'm assuming I wasn't the only guy she ever did that to. Does it come up in conversation with her husband? Of course not. Does he know? That's between the two of them. He knows I was once a customer of his wife's but he also knows I helped her through some very rough patches in her life before he came along. They met at the club she works at.



    For what its worth I've been with at least half a dozen escorts who all had husbands or serious SO's as well.



    My point (and yes, part of my agenda) is that generalizations are bad. I don't know if I would ever marry an escort or a dancer that performed heavy extras.

    It's an individual decision. I don't believe in condemning the woman any more than I believe in condemning the man who marries her.
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    Yoda you must be from another planet. Your last post is too good to pass up. Tell me why you would meet the dancers husbands? That has got to be a good story. I have only met dancers husbands four times and they were all for threesomes. You getting some of that action?

    I assume you read my post. Although that is probably a wrong assumption because you don‘t read much as you told me in the losers thread.

    My post stated that I was referring to a high mileage club, to quote from a current thread on the pink site “Goldfinger- if you're willing to do extras ( I mean pretty much full service) you're gonna make BIG money (I've seen girls leave with Thousands) in the champagne room. If not you're lucky to break $200.” That is what I mean by high mileage.
    Are you talking you met the husbands of dancers from a high mileage club? I don’t think so. I would be willing to bet on it.

    I certainly never suggested the dancers wore 7 inch heels around the house. Why would you think that? I did suggest that the husbands might mind 20 different varieties of semen being deposited on, in or around their wives during the course of the evening.

    Why on earth would you think spending intimate time (a married guy having a fling with a hooker/dancer) equals a relationship or marriage? To be honest I don’t know if you are married or not but I would assume from the tone of your postings you are married.

    “Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.” Oh, I suppose the spouse has nothing to do with a relationship? A relationship involves two people. Two people decide if it works or not. Unless you are a slave to the other person then the owner decides the outcome. I guess you are used to being a dancer slave. Cool if it works for you and that would explain your above statement. But that is the only explanation I can think of for your statement “Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.”
    I have seen a lot of relationships like that and read about a lot on this forum. That is, “it’s her money.” Most of the time I see dancers at high mileage clubs supporting dead beat guys or women who sponge off of their dancing/hooking earnings. The dead beats tolerate the dancers lifestyle because they are too lazy to work and tell the dancer everything is OK because that is better than working themselves.

    I have yet to see a man who can reasonably support a woman in a decent lifestyle tolerate a wife dancing at a high mileage club. It just does not happen. It ain’t there.

    If the woman has to work to maintain the lifestyle then I can see it happening, however infrequently.

    If the couple is well housed, upper middle class, a couple of cars and the kids taken care of, momma is not collecting sperm samples on her butt 6 hours a night for the fun of it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    Yoda you must be from another planet. Your last post is too good to pass up. Tell me why you would meet the dancers husbands? That has got to be a good story. I have only met dancers husbands four times and they were all for threesomes. You getting some of that action?


    Mark, My post was pretty clear. I've made friends with dancers who are married. I never mentioned that anything sexual went on with women I'm friendly with after they where married. My point was that they where married to men I had met and where leading normal lives outside of dancing. I'm glad you enjoy sharing a woman with another man, It's not my thing. I hope you are practicing safe sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I assume you read my post. Although that is probably a wrong assumption because you don‘t read much as you told me in the losers thread.
    I read your post. That doesn't always mean you are going to get the respnse you want.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    My post stated that I was referring to a high mileage club, to quote from a current thread on the pink site “Goldfinger- if you're willing to do extras ( I mean pretty much full service) you're gonna make BIG money (I've seen girls leave with Thousands) in the champagne room. If not you're lucky to break $200.” That is what I mean by high mileage.
    Are you talking you met the husbands of dancers from a high mileage club? I don’t think so. I would be willing to bet on it.
    I don't have nearly as much time to read every thread on SW and SCJ as you do. Nor do I share your penchant for trying to create your own new and controversial threads by trying to snare interesting quotes from other threads. I just respond to whatever thread I am reading with my opinions and experiences on said topic. In my second post I clarified the type of club I was refering to. I'm not doing research here Mark, I'm simply taking part in a chat board.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I certainly never suggested the dancers wore 7 inch heels around the house. Why would you think that? I did suggest that the husbands might mind 20 different varieties of semen being deposited on, in or around their wives during the course of the evening.
    Actually I'm not suggesting what their husbands would or wouldn't like. I'm simply commenting on what I have observed in a very small cross section and reiterating my beleif that what goes on between two people is not for you or I to judge.

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    Why on earth would you think spending intimate time (a married guy having a fling with a hooker/dancer) equals a relationship or marriage? To be honest I don’t know if you are married or not but I would assume from the tone of your postings you are married.
    I made it clear in my post that what I was involved in was not the same as being married. I've been married. I know what's involved.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    “Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.” Oh, I suppose the spouse has nothing to do with a relationship? A relationship involves two people. Two people decide if it works or not. Unless you are a slave to the other person then the owner decides the outcome. I guess you are used to being a dancer slave. Cool if it works for you and that would explain your above statement. But that is the only explanation I can think of for your statement “Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.”
    No, your wrong. Unless the couple is already married and the woman, who has never danced before decides to start working in club the decision is ultimately hers and hers alone. Prior to the wedding the male would deliver the "me or dancing" speach and the woman decides if he is worth it or not. Again, I have friends who are dancers (they decided the guy wasn't worth it) and friends who are no longer dancers (they decided the guy was worth it) who have had to make this decision.


    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I have seen a lot of relationships like that and read about a lot on this forum. That is, “it’s her money.” Most of the time I see dancers at high mileage clubs supporting dead beat guys or women who sponge off of their dancing/hooking earnings. The dead beats tolerate the dancers lifestyle because they are too lazy to work and tell the dancer everything is OK because that is better than working themselves.
    Yeah, bad men happen, that is precsely why I won't generalize. My experience has been that good men happen too.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I have yet to see a man who can reasonably support a woman in a decent lifestyle tolerate a wife dancing at a high mileage club. It just does not happen. It ain’t there.
    Well, the difference between you and I Mark is that if you haven't seen it, it must not exist. If I haven't seen it I just haven't seen it. Call me an optimist!

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    If the woman has to work to maintain the lifestyle then I can see it happening, however infrequently.

    If the couple is well housed, upper middle class, a couple of cars and the kids taken care of, momma is not collecting sperm samples on her butt 6 hours a night for the fun of it.
    Last week in Dallas I spent 2 hours with a really hot escort who is married (her husband did her website) and has three kids. The hubby is a teacher and she is also a stripper. She's putting herself through college. We didn't talk about their house but they do own two SUV's. She isn't collecting sperm samples, she flushes the condoms on her way out.

    I'm not claiming that this goes on all the time, I'm not even claiming that it will work the majority of the time, I'm not saying it would even work for me.

    You started the topic and I responded to it Mark. I'm sorry if my experiences don't line-up with your assumptions but sometimes reality has an ugly habit of getting in the way.
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    Yoda,

    You make a lot of good points. You are right I draw my opinions from what I know. Because of my business I know about 50 dancers who are married or in long term relationships. They all, without exception have jerks for partners and the majority of them are very abusive. I know another 50 X dancers who are married or in long term relationships. The great majority have decent partners who pay the bills and take care of things and are not abusive.

    I personally don’t think a man should take a wife unless he can support her in a lifestyle she finds comfortable but I am sure that is a minority opinion.

    I also think you have more experience paying women for sex than I do. I am more into swinging when I want outside partners and the lady of the house arranges that.

    So I defer to your superior knowledge and experience.

    A couple of years ago I was in a relationship with a dancer/hooker and it turned out very badly and that has probably left a bad taste in my mouth for the genre and perhaps has effected my judgment.




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    Sorry, too tired to read all of this post. Yoda, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look me up when you are in Austin...I've GOT to meet you!!!!

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    Ok read...

    Mark, sounds like you have a 50/50 split of experience, no correlation. For every failure, there is a success, or at least a decent couple trying to work out the kinks of life.

    I have never ever ever ever ever supported a guy in my life, never never never!!! I'v even had broke musician boyfriend had to get money orders from their mommies to buy me gifts that I didn't even want or ask for...whatever that means.......it doesn't mean much except that being a stripper doesn't have so much of a direct correlation to your theories as you and Hollywood would hope it does.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I guess I probably have an over active imagination but lets for argument sake say you are married to or living with a stripper who works in a high mileage club. How would you handle it?
    lol...if anyone is going to date any kind of sex worker. the words 'jealousy' and 'possessiveness' better not be in one's vocabulary.
    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I don’t think any decent guy could cope. I was married to one stripper and engaged and lived with two more. A part of the deal was that they stop dancing. I didn’t mind that they had in the past tense worked in high contact clubs but I could not handle it while they lived with me.
    my take on the subject? it's one thing to go a sc to monger. after all, it's a sc and they are sex workers. OTOH, if a customer is looking for a relationship with a stripper. i think it's a bit limiting not to mention a creating a lot of potential drama and work for himself. there are other places to find a girlfriend than a place where women let strange men suckle their tits like newborn babes.

    furthermore, why would a guy want to date a cock grinder, only to have her quit because he doesn't like her stripping? if the idea is that offensive. he shouldn't be dating her in the first place. frankly, i find the attitude just as bizzare as strippers not wanting their BF not to go to a sc at all or unless they are there looking over their shoulders. interestingly enough, many kool-aid drinking customers, who aren't even dating the stripper have the sort of disconnect.

    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I don’t buy the we need the money thing. I either worked harder, got a part time job or we did without. If I did anything else I would have felt like a pimp. I don’t think a decent guy can be a pimp.
    technically speaking, a pimp or an umemployed musician lives strictly off earnings of his ho. at least, that's what Dolemite says. can you dig it?
    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    This post was motivated by a couple of threads I read about men hating and all guys being losers on the pink site. At first I was critical but then I started wondering just what kind of guy would live with or be married to a stripper at a high contact club. Of course they are losers. Of course they would engender hatred of the male species in general.

    I would submit that a woman stripping at a high mileage club will never get a decent guy or woman for that matter on a long term basis.

    Am I wrong?
    i have to agree with kat. i wouldn't say it's impossible, but it's going to be difficult. there are plenty of guys willing to bang a stripper. there are plenty of suitcase pimps willing to live off a stripper. however, there are fewer men that aren't interested in either and would be totally okay with the idea of his SO of giving cock massages and not have it be an issue of discord between the two once the honeymoon is over..
    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    I have never ever ever ever ever supported a guy in my life, never never never!!! I'v even had broke musician boyfriend had to get money orders from their mommies to buy me gifts that I didn't even want or ask for...whatever that means
    he's getting money orders from his mommy to buy you gifts? cough**loser**cough.
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    Ok I have to admit it Yoda pays me to be his straight man so he can bonk ladies at a discounted rate but what the fuck is this?

    Originally Posted by mark45y

    I have never ever ever ever ever supported a guy in my life, never never never!!! I'v even had broke musician boyfriend had to get money orders from their mommies to buy me gifts that I didn't even want or ask for...whatever that means



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    Quote Originally Posted by mark45y
    Yoda,

    You make a lot of good points. You are right I draw my opinions from what I know. Because of my business I know about 50 dancers who are married or in long term relationships. They all, without exception have jerks for partners and the majority of them are very abusive. I know another 50 X dancers who are married or in long term relationships. The great majority have decent partners who pay the bills and take care of things and are not abusive.


    My response was to this comment. Pay for shit, loser, winner, don't pay, she's a stripper, she's not, etc, yadda...doesn't correlate to much more than a huge heap of weak connections in your mind. You welcomed dissent, there you go.....

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    Katrine as much as I love your usual erudite comments, I said all the high mileage strippers I know are involved in relationships with abusive men. I have never seen it otherwise. A relationship being marriage or other long term more that a couple of years.

    I fail to see where your comments shed any light on that.

    I also said that that high mileage strippers pay the bills and the guys are leeches. Maybe your comments touched on that. But it they did it was too obtuse for me to grasp.

    The only men that high mileage strippers can get are ones who make less money than them and are content to assume the cuckold role in the relationship. Hey a lot of guys or lesbians like that or so I am told.
    If there are any high mileage strippers who are in an active relationship with a man who earns more money than them and provides a lifestyle that does not require they work and are not abusive I invite them to speak up. But don’t hold your breath. Because there aren’t any.



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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    I don't know if I would ever marry an escort or a dancer that performed heavy extras.
    You mean BJ's on guys over 250 lbs? You and Mark definitely think outside the box.

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    I have met a number of dancers who are involved with men who weigh over 250 pounds. And they are sterling people. Just normal girls.

    The dancers always told me they did not know how much the gentlemen weighed because it was a don’t ask don’t tell situation. Of course, it's all about discretion and respect. Seriously, we Americans are very prudish about all this. The Latinos and Europeans are much more open (yet discrete) about this.

    It is Difficult, but not impossible to give a good blow job to an 250 pound male but being a stripper had nothing to do with the difficulty.

    It's tough to generalize about this. I am close with 250 pound males who are married. I've met their wives and guess what? They are normal. In fact, their lives are normal. The men don't walk around the house in flapping their flab.

    What's really funny is that the topic of conversation is often the loser skinny men than the fat customers at the club.

    I've also spent intimate time with two 250 pound dancers who where working at the time and, though sleeping with someone is certainly not the same as being married I appreciated the extra padding.
    I really didn't let it bother me. Knowing how things work in the club (it's all about the money, remember?)

    I think that a girl who sees fat men for what they are and understands what are is way ahead of the game but no guarantees.

    It's going to depend on how both parties handle the issues that will arise. Ultimately the dancer decides if it's going to work or not. It's her life and her money.




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    Sorry, too tired to read all of this post. Yoda, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE look me up when you are in Austin...I've GOT to meet you!!!!
    OK, but you'll be very dissapointed Kat. I'm just a dumpy middle aged guy who pays for sex more often than Mark does.
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    Yoda,

    You make a lot of good points. You are right I draw my opinions from what I know. Because of my business I know about 50 dancers who are married or in long term relationships. They all, without exception have jerks for partners and the majority of them are very abusive. I know another 50 X dancers who are married or in long term relationships. The great majority have decent partners who pay the bills and take care of things and are not abusive.


    I thought that you know a 50/50 split of dancers who are in good versus bad relationships. In this thread you failed to mention that that 50 bad are all high-mileage dancers and the 50 good are all "clean" dancers I guess. What is your definition of high mileage then? I wonder if I would have fallen under it?

    Are we clear now?

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    It is Difficult, but not impossible to give a good blow job to an 250 pound male but being a stripper had nothing to do with the difficulty.
    Nah, its actually pretty easy, because they are always occupying the perv corner or the best VIP booth for the action. They know because they must. Knowledge is power.

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    OK, but you'll be very dissapointed Kat. I'm just a dumpy middle aged guy who pays for sex more often than Mark does.
    I'll just take a Starbucks grande vanilla latte with soymilk and some good natured conversation, where we will mock all of the other whimsical characters found here in SCJunkiville!

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    Oh great, now it's the battle between Sporty and Mark to see who can be more irrelevant...this thread has gone to hell.....

    How about when you don't have anything to say you just don't say it?
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