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    Maybe I am just being insecure or maybe I'm not. This girl (who's 20 ) for like 2 weeks has been txting me asking what im doing and what not. just friendly bs. Then monday it stopped. She's barely talked to or looked at me all week and I cann't figure out why. like today when we were alone she barely said anything, arms crossed and looking the other way when I talked to her. It's this that makes me think I did something. I asked her what was wrong and of course she said nothing and I asked if she was mad at me said no. But I get this vibe I 've made her mad, annoyed her or she uncomfortable around me. How can I find out? At should I just let her be and let her come around? I am just reading too much into nothing? I am guessing I shouldn't ask her friend if she knows whats up w/ her? Should I even trying talking to her, not about whatever is wrong but just in general?

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    Default Re: i really do not get it. maybe its nothing

    Maybe she felt like she was getting on your nerves or something. Did you just meet her 2 weeks or have you known her longer? Or maybe it is something you said

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    I've known her for about 5-6 months. we've made plans but for various reasons they seem to fall through (we both) equally guilty but we see each other 2-3 times a week. the 2 things i can really think of is that there are 2 people that i agreed with that she shouldn't and doesn't hang out with. She said that she didn't want to be around them and I just said yea I wouldn't hang out with them. I'm just looking out for her. They are bottom of the barrel people (they do not do anything illegal that I know of). And I may have teased her about her friends thinking she's alcoholic b/c she can get booze. All I said was well there is that. Totally meant that is a why would they think that since your not way.

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    She's only 20 years old.She's gonna be a little on the flaky side.Just curious,how old are you???
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    ^^^ Agreed. She is still a bit young to really expect much from.

    Tell her "Hey, I am getting the vibe you don't want me around. If you aren't going to tell me what is going on then I am leaving this thick atmosphere."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    Tell her "Hey, I am getting the vibe you don't want me around. If you aren't going to tell me what is going on then I am leaving this thick atmosphere."
    Is that Generation Y talk??? This Generation Xer doesn't get it.

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    ^^^ he he
    I think she just lost interest.. heck at that age I did it all the time.. One moment I think a guy's hot, the next I am on to another conquest. That's how I learned to screen my calls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    Is that Generation Y talk??? This Generation Xer doesn't get it.

    LOL! Actually I was born in 1969 making me the first year of Gen X as I hear it.

    At least I didn't say "fresh."

    Basically it is:

    Are we friends or not?
    If not, then why not?
    If you don't want to talk about it - have a good life.

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    She used up her allotment of 200 messages for the month.

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    Default Re: i really do not get it. maybe its nothing

    I stop calling people all the time (and Im 21). I just get bored or just dont feel like it anymore. Then I make random combacks. So yea people my age are flaky.

    Except I dont play stupid little games such as "having your arms crossed when mad then asked about if youre mad you just look away".....immature behavior. Hello, the clue escalator is ready please step on.
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    Default Re: i really do not get it. maybe its nothing

    You two became friendly. Perhaps you said something she did not like. She's 20, this will happen. Sounds like you pissed her off. And it's her problem, because you don't know what you could have said that made her feel this way.

    Walk away....this is peek into the future of a friendship with her imo.

    Pamela

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    now I'm pissed. after 3 days of dealing with her freaking short, snapped responses, to be nice I decided to txt her and ask her is she wants me to pick something up for her. She reples maybe but she's not going to ask me again and the then says no but thanks her parents got it. So I raise an and am wondering why she wouldn't ask me, if it bothered me why would I ask her so I call her to say that, no answer so no message. Fine, I'll deal w/ that when I see u. 2 hrs later she txts me and wants to know what am I doing tonight? I was out talking to coworkers about this situation when she txt'ed me. they agreed shes mad or something then 10 mins later I get that txt and tell them what she did. response don't reply ( which I wasn't going to do). forget it while I'd like to be friends w/ her I do not need this drama. didn't when I was her age and I do not need it know. real shame that I'm a patient nice guy but when I'm done being patient, I turn on a dime and I AM DONE. no going back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela

    this is peek into the future of a friendship with her imo.

    Pamela

    meaning ?

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    That's what happens when you deal with immature little girls.Better luck next time.
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    Default Re: i really do not get it. maybe its nothing

    maybe she jas a boyfriend or something who is up her ass about talking to other people

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    well I finally got the full story from her. It's b/c people where spreading rumors about us that aren't true. I hate it people assume things and run their fool mouths off. I so want to go to war over this. she will not give the names. I'm so fing mad. I asked a couple people and they heard it but only 1 was trying to give warning.

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    is it 1997?
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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