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    I started dancing maybe 3 months ago and ever since then ive been miserble....except for when the good money comes in! I love to dance, i make awesome money,and the fact that im one of the favorites in the club keeps me there. But I keep having problems like thinking i caught some kinda disease and stuff. First i thougt herpes.... looked JUST looked it. Got tested twice and was negative. Turns out it was infections from shaving so much and then contact with the pole, floor,and guys jeans irritating the razor burns. Ok...so that pretty much healed..after a bout a month. Then I got this itch and its not cute itching my stuff at work. LOL Well that cleared up about 3 days ago. NOW this is the scary thing...I got a swollen bump under my skin, not anywhere close to where I shave its like right by the pee hole...(sorry,couldnt think of another word) Its as hard as a rock and hurts if i touch it, and then theres another one about an inch back. I dont know if i should go to the doctor AGAIN for the fifth time this month cuz i feel like a pain in the as$. Am I the only one who goes through this kinda thing? Im a clean girl,I wipe my booty off with Noxema pads when i get off stage and after lap dances, I wipe myself with Always pads after every dance, wash my hands,everything. My boyfriend show no sign of std's...so its gotta be the club. I dunno....love the money but wha should i do??

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    If they are hard bumps under the skin- like lumps, not like pimples, then they could just be cysts, which will either go away on their own, or if they get too swollen, may need to be drained. That would not be caused by the club- it's just something that happens.
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    Xiomara, If the lump is on the inner side of your inner labia, about parallell with your vaginal entrance, you could have a bartholin cyst/abscess. Bartholin glands sit at about 4 and 8 o'clock if you could face your vagina head on. If they get blocked up, they swell up and get painful. If they get infected....really painful. Try hot soaks for a few days. If they get bigger or start to feel like a big squishy knot, they'll need to be drained by a doctor.

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    Poor baby, I'm sorry your having such a hard time. if I can help you out with something let me know..

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    Xiomara, if you hate dancing, for god's sake quit. For shaving problems and stuff down there is biggest problem will always be a dirty club. I worked at a club where it didn't SEEM that dirty, but I could not get rid of the pimples on my ass (by nature I have really perfect skin. My entire adolescence I had 3 pimples. As a result getting them feels really dirty to me. It doesn't feel like a normal skin issue). It disgusted me - I did everything short of applying a blowtorch. Nothing. Changed clubs - it all went away. It was just a filthy stage.

    If you are doing something that will risk herpes, you are doing too much. Like just don't rub your crotch on the pole. There should not be anything that will give you diseases like that in a normal work day. If you can't climb the pole just using your thighs, just don't climb. The floor is the same thing - there is no good reason to rub your crotch on the floor. I cannot imagine a move in which that is happening, and if you can, trust me, you can live without it. For shaving - try shaving WITH the grain, every day. It's not as smooth, but it is way less irritating. The other option is to go with waxing. You can also try grinding more with your ass (and I all about the practical advice).

    Finally - a lump like that - honey, that is not from dancing. You likely have a cyst and we are none of us doctors (and least none of us who are giving advice). Go back to your doctor. She doesn't mind if you are a pain. You are paying her for it. That is not normal, and needs to be looked at.
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