Hello ladies.... I am feeling SOOOO confused and anxious right now. PLEASE put in your bestest motherly advice. I could *really* use it right about now!
{sooo sorry that its long!}
--> I started dancing at my current club "casually" for about 6 months now... I am young, and have rendered alot of critisism from some of the old, dusty, washed up, burnt out meanies...WELL, I noticed a particular gentlemen who visited quite alot when I was working... (according to my friends, he asked them if i was workign that particular day/night, my schedule for the following few days, etc.) He is young, hot as hell, and quite wealthy. Everytime he comes to the club, he makes sure to tip me extra nicely on stage, buy me the most expensive champagne bottle avail., and slip me a lil extra before he leaves. WELL, one sloooow night, we ended up talking for 4 hours straight ( out of my 8 hour shift!)He confessed that he has had a MAJOR crush on me since the first time I sat down and we had our first convo. We *really* hit it off, and i was finding myself >FALLING< for him!
We talked about EVERYTHING, and realized that we had more in common than I though! He asked if I wanted to take his card and give him a call sometime, and i readily accepted!
I was soo excited that I had won him over, it was practically too good to be true.........it WAS!!!
Come to find out, he used to FUCK the MAIN meanie (bitchy washed up dancer) that I have problems with!!!!!!! My neighborhood friend, who has been dancing there since high school, told me that the "Meanie" had fantasized of having a real relationship with *mr. Wonderful*, but was constantly crushed because he made his intentions of just casual sex with her clear...
MY PROBLEM: I dont know if I should follow up with our plans of going on a date this coming weekend... ALSO, im worried that this is some kind of sick set up. Ive heard what you ladies say "dont trust anyone in the club"... Ive heard some HORROR stories of how far people will go just to cause harm to someone! SO PLEASE HELP ME YALL! Should I even be talking to anyone I meet in a club?? (In case this helps, he has regularly encouraged me to quit working, and just intern somewhere and pay off college in that way... so basically, he doesnt want me to dance out of necessity, and is willing to pay any and all costs that i might be making if i was dancing...)
PLEASE LADIES..... YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO ABOUT *MR. WONDERFUL AND THE "MEANIE"!!!
~My deepest thanks in advance, for looking,and/or reading, and/or posting...



WELL, I noticed a particular gentlemen who visited quite alot when I was working... (according to my friends, he asked them if i was workign that particular day/night, my schedule for the following few days, etc.) He is young, hot as hell, and quite wealthy. Everytime he comes to the club, he makes sure to tip me extra nicely on stage, buy me the most expensive champagne bottle avail., and slip me a lil extra before he leaves. WELL, one sloooow night, we ended up talking for 4 hours straight ( out of my 8 hour shift!)He confessed that he has had a MAJOR crush on me since the first time I sat down and we had our first convo. We *really* hit it off, and i was finding myself >FALLING< for him!
We talked about EVERYTHING, and realized that we had more in common than I though! He asked if I wanted to take his card and give him a call sometime, and i readily accepted!
I was soo excited that I had won him over, it was practically too good to be true.........it WAS!!!
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