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    I received a private message from someone on here, claiming to be a girl who lives in my area & is interested in dancing. She asked if I would be interested in meeting up with her... I find this sketchy because 1. she has no posts or any threads.. this just makes me uneasy, like it's some weird guy. What do you think?

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    Strange. IMO
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    She could ask her questions on this forum. No need for a private meeting.

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    strange thing is that i had the same thing happen to me a lil while ago.

    i just ignored the person, since i had never heard of them on here. My advice is to do the same...no sense getting yourself a stalker!
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    Yeep, thats creepy. Personally I'd give it a wide berth.. then again thats just me.

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    I had the same thing happen... ignore them. Damn pervs...

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    err on the side of caution

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    That's happened to me often over the years. I've met many wonderful girls from here ALL of whome have posted to the forums first!

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    no way!!!! It's probably some weirdo guy stalker pretending to be a girl!

    i wouldn't.

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    Invite "her" to the club you work at. If she is thinking about dancing than that would be the ideal place to meet "her". If it is a guy, then take him to VIP until he runs out of cash.


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    ^ lol

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    I got one a few months back. I ignored it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yourgirlkt
    I received a private message from someone on here, claiming to be a girl who lives in my area & is interested in dancing. She asked if I would be interested in meeting up with her... I find this sketchy because 1. she has no posts or any threads.. this just makes me uneasy, like it's some weird guy. What do you think?
    Some weird guy! Tell him to back off! Gotta be safe.

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    OH hell no. Stalkers can be had without even trying to get one... don't bumble right into letting one know what you look like & where you live. Argh.

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    It's weird how the online community environment works. The only girls who have PM'd me randomly were looking for perspective on clubs in my area and they were all posters so I responded with what I know. All the guys who have PM'd me have had 0-5 posts. I never responded. Its not that I wouldn't respond to a male PMer who wanted to know where I worked but posts seem to give you a certain amount of street cred or something like that here. If someone wants to start a dialog with you via stripperweb, you want it to be someone who is really a part of stripperweb. Does that make sense? I'm kind of tired . . .

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    HEY!!! I read this thread about 3 nights ago and TODAY I just noticed I had the same thing!! WTF??
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    And how do you want it taken care of? What am I supposed to do? If you get a PM like that, forward it to a mod (me of velvet in SG). We may "ban" the person, but if you get PM's like this, and you are not comfy with it, the best way to handle it is to just ignore it.

    Even if we don't "ban" the sender right away, we'll see the name...if all they're doing on here is PM'ing people like this, then we know. Otherwise, if only one person ever says anything, then we think it's just an isolated incident.

    All of you who are concerned about these emails, either forward them to me or PM me with the name of the person doing it. I won't promise that they will be banned or that anything will happen, but I will keep my eyes out for recurring problems.

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    ok just got this email... urghhh annoying especially since I am nowhere near fl... pryce will be getting a copy


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    Weird. I've only gotten one PM from someone in "my area" who I hadn't seen post much on SW. I went along and answered questions about the strip club life, and it really did turn out to be a girl who was a little shy at posting on a new forum and just wanted to ask questions and about clubs in my area. I ended up meeting her and she's a sweet girl.

    But if they ask to meet you in the first PM that's a big red flag. I can see asking questions about the clubs pertaining to your area but wanting to meet right away?

    I would answer questions if they asked, but meeting nope
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    Quote Originally Posted by GuyPOV
    She could ask her questions on this forum. No need for a private meeting.
    Exactly. That is what club chat and private messages are here for in the first place.

    If this persons pm seems fishy to you then there is probably a good reason for that feeling. If the person who asked to meet you IRL is offended by your desire to play things safe then that is there issue.

    I always think it is best to follow your gut instincts. They are there for a reason.

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    I had a girl pm me looking for someone to audtion with and asking about clubs. I didn't see a reason to doubt who she was. Now I have had guys (I guess guys) pm me with no posts saying they saw my pic and I'm hot or something but I get more of that crap on myspace. in fact I just had a guy on myspace want to know if I want to get together and have sex. wtf?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lildreamer316
    HEY!!! I read this thread about 3 nights ago and TODAY I just noticed I had the same thing!! WTF??
    Actually Lildreamer, I emailed you regarding this thread a few days ago.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=61260

    I surely hope it wasn't my email that you're referring to

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