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    I got $400 for 3 hours of drinking VERY nice champagne, eating fresh fruit and chocolate, and making a man, dressed like a little sissy slut, suck on a dildo. I got my hair brushed, my back massaged, and my feet lotioned and maassaged. Life is fucking good.
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    Hell yeah!

    I just got paid $200/hr to use a sissy sub as my footstool while watching the Olympic ice skating. And last night? $200 for trampling a guy and standing on his penis.

    Life is good. :-)



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    Seriously???To stand...on...his penis!?!?! I personally got paid to torture people too! They weren't necessarily interested in that. I was responsible for making them wait for a table...wait for their food...endure the uncomfortable silence of a first or potentially last date while their drinks took too long...I am a FOOD DOMINATOR and I didn't even know it. I hope that the people that my people served (or didn't) are appreciative of the cheap abuse that they enjoyed. Tongue in cheek but not on floor for stilletto pressure thank you! Too crazy and amazing!!

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    Shit, let me start dominating. lol

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    How the hell do I get that job?!

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    that sure is a sweet sweet ride, girls!

    i have a very close friend who is big into trample. he is a huge guy with a ribcage like a horse. he has up to 4 dancers standing on him at a time on the fetish nights.

    i have decided that it would change our friendship for me to be prodding around his nether regions with my heels - so i am just a supportive bystander. he has many gorgeous girls lining up to trample his raggedy-ass.

    it's great work if you have the right personality. (not scared to issue a little pain, that is)

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    If anyone is ever interested, just search for the threads I started about all this not too long ago on this Other Work board. It may not be this year that I start my dominatrix training (as such) however it is still on the cards for the future.


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    Always remember, do not just start doing anything in BDSM. TRAIN WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCE.


    I cannot stress that enough.

    I dont care if its tying someone up with rope or spanking or trampling. There are so many wrong ways to do anything involved with fetishes and MANY ways to seriously hurt someone, or get hurt yourself.
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    i think i'll leave it to those with the calling...

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    I watched. Then got involved with 'fetish games'! It goes from there!

    My feelings...if you have a room dedicated to Dominating men/women, a license, and it's your job for $$$ your a pro. Other than that it's all play! Many men who get on stage laugh, tell you what they want, and it's alot of talk too!!! Alot!

    I have fun at this fetish club (this guy hits The Blue Room where Paige is at, wants to be my guest one night) playing Dom. games! You don't and can't get too hardcore like the ladies who do this for a living! Your public. You just can't. For one the guy can't be naked in the public and you can't smother him with your naked pussy....It's all FUN! Pony games, sure gag balling and spanking etc. it's pretty small stuff, i would not worry about it! I go every Wed. just about...there are laws when it's public...many.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    Always remember, do not just start doing anything in BDSM. TRAIN WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCE.


    I cannot stress that enough.

    I dont care if its tying someone up with rope or spanking or trampling. There are so many wrong ways to do anything involved with fetishes and MANY ways to seriously hurt someone, or get hurt yourself.
    Yep, what she said. There are a ton of things I won't do because I don't know how to do them safely.



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    i think i would enjoy being a dom but i'm not sure i'm right for it..... i actually enjoy hurting strange men a little too much. i'm worried i'm sick or something. i wouldn't get carried away, but don't they generally want someone a bit more compassionate?
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    I've been thinking about getting into it for a long time. I've been reading into it a lot. Now im just doing more reading and I have to find a domme to train under.... that is once I get the nerv for it lol. Hopefully some day..

    Paige you sound like you had a great time... I envy you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally
    I've been thinking about getting into it for a long time. I've been reading into it a lot. Now im just doing more reading and I have to find a domme to train under.... that is once I get the nerv for it lol. Hopefully some day..

    Paige you sound like you had a great time... I envy you
    You can start with me, Cally. Ill pay you $12.76 to tell me that Frederick the Great was not the foremost military genius of the 18th Century. Ooh that would hurt.

    Beyond that, though, I cant help you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by venusofwillendorf
    i think i would enjoy being a dom but i'm not sure i'm right for it..... i actually enjoy hurting strange men a little too much. i'm worried i'm sick or something. i wouldn't get carried away, but don't they generally want someone a bit more compassionate?
    It sounds like you have the perfect personality for it. No, you're not sick if you enjoy hurting people who enjoy being hurt. If you enjoy hurting people nonconsentually, that could be sick.

    As far as compassionate, some do and some don't. Most of the guys I see do, but that's because I'm a nurturing sort of top. I get plenty of emails from guys that I don't see because they are looking for something much more ruthless and serious than I can do.



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    hmmm... maybe i could do it then...... someday, i guess. meanwhile, i have to sort my own shit out. not gonna help the guys if i start having flahsbacks while they're bound and gagged....
    *(~shakes her head~)*

    and no, i definately don't want to do it nonconsensually. except for to child molesters/rapists/wife beaters. i'd like to beat the shit outta them. but with non-astoundingly-awful people, i sometimes feel a little guilty. damn, i need a bdsm support group. most therapists are no good for this sort of thing.
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    That all sounds good, but is it always?
    I have the oppertunity to have domanatrix training currently but it's for an extreme / heavy BDSM which I am cool with and interested in BUT one of the reasons I am holding back is because I keep thinking it will require so much more effort on my behalf than merely dancing does.
    The safety issue is a big one for me - the fact that it would always be in the back of my mind. The thing I love about dancing is that I can totally forget everyting when I'm performing - there are no worries which sort of rocks bigtime!!!
    Maybe I'm just in a pessimistic mood but the customers I meet don't sound so easy unfortunatly, lol.

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    Great point many may not think of. NO, it is not always good money, fun, safe or EASY. Especially when done in fetish club scene! You have to make it look great! get attention of others...make $$.

    Domination as a 'job' well that take a very experienced person to do it to pay the bills, oh gosh what work that would be. I could not....i like play Dom!!!! It sells... but not all the time.

    I talk to FAR too many men who can't tell their wives about seeing a Dom. and many of them go hardcore. Too many of these guys tell me they thought they would have a heart attack, many vomit, etc. Fuck that. Safe words, sure...but these guys will push their own limits. Major paperwork to cover your ass...then if you lose a guy during a session...live with that.

    I remember the chick who had a guy die during a session, she never turned in the body...she freaked out! Been a Pro. Dom for years in her dungeon!!!!

    On a side note....i like having control...being a Dom does not mean you have control.



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    That all sounds good, but is it always?
    I have the oppertunity to have domanatrix training currently but it's for an extreme / heavy BDSM which I am cool with and interested in BUT one of the reasons I am holding back is because I keep thinking it will require so much more effort on my behalf than merely dancing does.
    The safety issue is a big one for me - the fact that it would always be in the back of my mind. The thing I love about dancing is that I can totally forget everyting when I'm performing - there are no worries which sort of rocks bigtime!!!
    Maybe I'm just in a pessimistic mood but the customers I meet don't sound so easy unfortunatly, lol.

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    i'm definately looking back into this again seriously...especially since i've finally met some people in the scene out here.
    why do some people still have to fight to get the same opportunities that are given to others?

    reclusiveness...is a good thing.

    the greatest revenge in the world...is success.


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    she never turned in the body?! how the hell did she get rid of it?

    Ouch i meant to reply...i almost did an edit sorry hun.
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    Once you ARE at the top of the scene food chain, you can make it a VERY good career. I trained under a Domina who charged $250 per hour, hand several sessions per day, every day. It payed all of her bills and then some. But it took many years for her to get there.

    I charge $100 per hour, have a session MAYBE once a week, if that. And I've been doing it 10 years. I also live in a DEAD area for this sort of thing. When I was still in NYC it was a whole other animal.
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    Thanks Pamela! I am concerned about limits being pushed to far - people can be really stupid. I was thinking that some first aid training would be a really good idea. There must be alot of injuries and deaths we don't hear about, though guarenteed some of the ones in bizarre circumstances have made to news... I would probably prefur to do performance type stuff really.

    Paige yeah it's a bit of a dead scene in many places here too. I have friends who have worked in Sydney and done extreemly well out of it, but when they tried to move on and set up elsewhere they found there was almost no market at all.

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    Where do I sign up?

    Pro Domme must be one of the best jobs if you can make a living out of it. I'd love to try it.

    But damn Pamela, that's scary. I knew the business was risky, but death?
    What happened with the body?

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    This woman either freaked and called the police or the smell got out.....i do need to find the site about her...it was in NYC i believe.


    Ok this was in Mas. But there was one in NY as well. I remember this lady too.

    Pamela
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    Oh, I guess I had good market for it in my country, hehehe!

    Well, I`ve been in BDSM for a couple of years, so I`m positive about the SSC: that it is sane, safe and consensual (that means: nothing that hurts you more than your own capacity of heal -physical and/or emotionally-, AND nothing unconsensual). If that goes under payment, between consenting adults, thats also fine (beware that in the US you should not involve traditional "sex", tough you may be doing a kind of "sex work")

    But, there are different kind of Dommes: caring, severe, sensual and so on... and different kind of "subs": humilliation lovers, pain lovers, servitude lovers...

    I personally love teasing, flogging, facessitting and trampling, but won`t ever play with needles or scat (some do). So that it is a matter of personal limits, and -preferibly- a matter of likes. AND, of course, of training: BDSM can be dangerous... very dangerous if done improperly (you should sometimes know something about health problems of your sub, for instance, and how to performe CPR in case of need).

    Have fun and take care,
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