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    Sad Too Many Girls!!!

    I can work with a group of 5-8 girls and be fine and still make money( i feel like guys won't have much of a choice b/w us so they will have to dance with me) but when there is like 10 or more I feel uncomfortable and give up b/c now guys can choose from a bigger group now! does that make sense??

    And alot of the girls are getting dirty at my club and i ( really!!!) don't so i lose customers to them and i hate it! Management won't do anything about so what am i suppose to do? Lower myself and get dirty too?

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    Default Re: Too Many Girls!!!

    Maybe you should start focusing more on your appearance (hair, makeup, wardrobe) to help you stand out amongst the other girls. Looks are important, but so are hustling skills. If you dont have that, then you may as well go in the dressing room and biotch!







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    You shouldn't feel like you have to get dirty, just focus a bit differently. Unless the dancer-to-customer ratio is really huge, just having a few more dancers means there are just a few more not-so-great dancers in the club now. It's just how the numbers work out. While there is more to choose from, there is also now more for a customer to reject as well so beef up on your game a bit more. Like CK said, really work on standing out more amoung the sea of other dancers and you'll be more like the diamond in the rough, not just "another dancer"

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    I cannot stress this anough: CLASS trumps SKANK any day. I do NOT do extras in a club where many many girls do. It does not matter to me how many other skank girls are working or what they are doing. It does not affect my money one bit.

    How is that possible? I make sure to look movie-star glamouous EVERY DAY. I may not be the hottest girl in the bar that night, but I guarentee I am the classiest. I focus on the 35+ year old custies who have the $$ and appreciate the tease. I make them feel like kings in my presence. ANd guess what? I have a huge base of regs who love me and my dance. These guys are nice, respectful, and appreciative.

    Your crowd of skanks are going to appeal to the cheapo extras hounds anyway. These are NOT your target customers. These are the guys you do not even WANT to cultivate for regs. They are not going to buy more than a couple of dances from you anyway, and they are going to make your life difficult in the porcess.

    You mission, and I suggest you accept it, is to appeal to the mature, respectful crowd with the $$. Never mind what the skanks are doing.

    If you must, consisder the skanks are there as a service to YOU, to keep the nastiest, grabbiest, most demanding cheapskates out of YOUR hair.


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    Default Re: Too Many Girls!!!

    I read some of your replies so far and thank you but with most of the guys will ask me something like: " what are you gonna do for me in the back?" and when i tell them a great lap dance they'll ask if i do anything special (ex. any "dirty" type things) and if i say no i can't do that then they will say no thanks or maybe later and then they go in the back with a girl who I KNOW is dirty ( and does things she shouldn't do). it is not fair.

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    You need to have this setup as a 2 wave attack then. KNOWING they are going to ask the second question, be prepared for it and don't stress over it. Here is what your close should sound like:

    Customer: "What are you going to do for me in the back?"

    You: "We're going to share in the most erotic experience you have ever had with your clothes on. NOBODY gives erotic dances like I do."

    Customer: "Well, what else can you do?"

    You: "My dances will continue to only get better with you after the first one. While it may only sound like a lap dance on the surface, I can tell you that the time we'll have together will be nothing but fun for the two of us."

    The first statement is strong because it emphasizes that the clothes say on. The second part, while still saying that there is no sex in the VIP room, essentially is a much better way of saying it and reinforces the first statement you made. Use this and you'll have a lot more luck.

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    I hate working with too many girls. It wouldn't be as big of a problem if this was a high hustle/ lap dance club, because the guys would be used to being hustled. My problem is that this is a very low hustle club, with stage tips making up about 75%+ each night. We're a smaller club with only one stage, so when we have 10 girls working, we only get on stage about every 2-2 1/2 hours, which means no money. The manager has been on a big kick about having tons of girls lately- like 8 girls on a Tuesday, which is often the slowest night. Grrrr.... its already slow at our club because it's winter, but not with this many girls working? I need a day job.... lol....
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    It sucks when there's that many girls working. But a lot of times, they distract each other, a LOT. So while they are all bitching to each other in the back about the number of girls, you can be out on the floor making money. Just pretend that it's the same number of girls as before. A lot of times when a lot of girls worked, they distracted each other so much that I did even better than normal. There would be on average less girls than normal out on the floor and the majority of them were complaining to each other and asking to go home.

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    your in the same boat as me! my club is big ( one of the best in western NY) and there is only one stage too. I usualyy work days only (i can't deal with all the girls at night and deal with the immature coked-out ways) so i sometimes only work with 3-4 girls for most of the days which ends up sucking b/c then i go up for a4 song set (instead of 3) and at least every 1/2 hour ( itis even worse when some are in the back). Then i can't really talk to anyone b/c i am always up--and when there are alot of girls they will get to the guy before i do and then i am SOL. either way i lose!!!!

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    most guys that come in there do not want extras,so keep that in mind too. I believe that men know when they go into a strip club,that those extras (that the other girls are doing) are not allowed.Then there are some who think they can get extras .
    Don't do anything you do not want to do..concentrate on what you do and not on what others are doing.If a customer gets handsy or does something out of line then tell him no,you don't do that,if he persists then tell a bouncer and stop dancing for him.Always get your money up front.

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    How many customers come through the door at night vs. during the day? How many girls work at night? What is the dancer/customer ratio on night shift?

    Day shift sounds too slow. Plus it is mostly regulars in a slow club. Being on stage every 30 minutes in a slow club is a waste of time. It sounds like it would be better to ignore the drugged out girls and work at night.

    The Dancer Wealth Class would answer a lot of your questions and help your money right away. If you can't afford the live class, the Home Study one is inexpensive.

    All your questions are very good ones, and having danced for a long time, I will say that nowadays, if a dancer is not somewhat flexible, and well trained in selling, she can be eaten alive in this business.

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    I work in a club with over 150 girls per weekend night, and over 100 each night during the week. A lot of girls do "extras" in my club, but you just ignore them and stay true to yourself. and you'll do fine . Just try to stand out from everyone else.

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    I work in a high hustle environment and am lucky during the week if we have less than 50 girls and on the weekends 80 or more. There are so many variables in a strip club environment that you have to be prepared for anything. I come to work ready to walk a hole in the ground if I have to. You never want to get comfortable so that you are unable to step up your game if you need to. There have been slow nights where 50+ girls are pouting around pissed and evil. I love it, that makes my job even easier, but then there are nights where everybody's pounding the pavement. You just need to work harder and be flexible enough to adjust to a high number of girls on the floor or an overcrowded club, etc. Set goals for yourself, stay focused, and work on doing the best that you can do in that situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rileyfeme
    your in the same boat as me! my club is big ( one of the best in western NY) and there is only one stage too. I usualyy work days only (i can't deal with all the girls at night and deal with the immature coked-out ways) so i sometimes only work with 3-4 girls for most of the days which ends up sucking b/c then i go up for a4 song set (instead of 3) and at least every 1/2 hour ( itis even worse when some are in the back). Then i can't really talk to anyone b/c i am always up--and when there are alot of girls they will get to the guy before i do and then i am SOL. either way i lose!!!!
    let me guess....you work at Rick's?? my ex's mom was a waitress there and she always complained that there were a ton of girls doing extras in the back.

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    there are extras at every club...even if there are 5 girls. Given the right opportunity and how bad the girl wants the money, anything is possible.

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    oh god no. I work at Mademoiselle's. it is the only place i have ever danced. i went to rick's once and was not impressed. did you live here when madem's opened? it use to be clean but now it is getting worse. These type of girls are ruining it for the good girls!

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