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    "on a break"???

    As of sunday night my boyfriend and i are on a break...

    this is after a week of fighting because i felt like he kept pushing me away and he felt suffocated.
    He said he just needed some time and that he is still very much in love and really wants things to work out.
    I've gotten busy with lots of other stuff ( yesterday i got a new job and bought some plane tickets to visit a girlfriend)

    my question is if you guys have ever been on a break and been able to get back together and also how long is reasonable for me to not contact him at all? days? weeks?

    thanks for your help girls!

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    Wait for HIM to contact YOU. He wanted to take a break so he'll come back and tell you when he no longer wants one... And you can decide if you want him back or not. Get involved with your life and don't call him.
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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    I may be the minority, but I did take a break with my man once, an we ended up getting married

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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    We also took a break early in our relationship. We still went out, but there was no "i love you's" or huggy/kissy/sex stuff It was very hard on me, we were apart for about a month.

    We are now married for almost 8 yrs!





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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    ah dunno...

    a break - so he can bone all and sundry; or
    a break - while he 'finds' himself (under all and sundry); or
    a break - because he really wants to break up but lacks the guts
    a break - so he can work out how to marry you???? not likely.

    breaks for me were always a cheap excuse to cat around. breaks for my boyfriends were too.

    the happily married post-breakers are the minority imho.

    you're doing the right thing by busying yourself with other stuff. if the shoe was on the other foot, i'm sure a break would be a code word for 'uncertainty'. who needs any more of that?

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    You never know. I think my parents broke up for a bit and they have now been married about 40 years. I've known others that do that and then realizing how much they love each other. Sometimes it takes losing what you have to realize how much you really want it in your life.

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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    I wasn't planning on contacting him.. i'm letting him take as long as he needs to call me.. though i reserve the right to move on if i get to that point.. hope not though.

    lots of help. thank you guys!

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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=60945

    Read it, re-read it.

    Do not hold your breath that the relationship may last. Even if he does contact you, really consider whether you should continue on with your life or it will be worth getting back together.

    In my one and only long term relationship (near 4 years), we took a break for a couple of months only to get back together then break up for good.


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    Default Re: "on a break"???

    break=breakup in my experience

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    Last guy I took a break with was just so he could secretly date other women, while telling me not to move on, he just needs to figure some things out. All the while telling me how in love he was with me, and I was the only one he wanted. Just my experience with a "break"
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    A...........HEM!



    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Wait for HIM to contact YOU. He wanted to take a break so he'll come back and tell you when he no longer wants one... And you can decide if you want him back or not. Get involved with your life and don't call him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shiraz
    As of sunday night my boyfriend and i are on a break...

    this is after a week of fighting because i felt like he kept pushing me away and he felt suffocated.
    He said he just needed some time and that he is still very much in love and really wants things to work out.
    I've gotten busy with lots of other stuff ( yesterday i got a new job and bought some plane tickets to visit a girlfriend)

    my question is if you guys have ever been on a break and been able to get back together and also how long is reasonable for me to not contact him at all? days? weeks?

    thanks for your help girls!
    I wish I could suggest that to my b/f, he would go crazy & tell me no way.

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