How the hell do you keep a purely physical/sexual relationship just that ??
I'm asking as I recently dropped The Fireman as I (stupidly) grew feelings for the prick. It was from the get-go all about the sex for him. Unfortunately, whilst it started out the same for me... I got to know him more... and started to fancy him. I told him via text message last night (that I fancy him and want to pursue something more than just a 'love affair') and due to his no response realise it is over and was purely sexual with him.
(I listened to his actions: he never called only ever text messaged me, whenever I came over it was always about sex, we never went on a second date, etc. etc. Basically, I was okay with it being a physical relationship at the start... then .. well.. got to know him a little more.. and well.. yeh.. I got burned)
I know there are women out there that can and do have purely physical relationships with other people.... how the hell do you do this without starting to 'fancy' the person ??
Also, has anyone started in a purely physical relationship to have it turn into something else ..... or is that doomed from the out-set due to the girl 'giving herself away' too easily ?
Thoughts, stories, etc.![]()



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