I want to thank everybody in advance that have been to my other problematic threads (yeah...I complain too much) and gave me the right advice to handle my situations as a dancer....but alas...I come to you with my biggest problem of all.
I've been doing okkkaaay when it comes to money. I live in a medium sized city, and for me making 150 is good...( I mean I'm not happy especially when some girls are walking away with 4-500 dollars...but grateful that I didn't go home broke).
But anyways I'm not quite understanding how the customers minds work. I get compliments...I mean I get compliments out the ass ..."Oh you're so pretty! You're the best looking thing up in here! I love you smile! Girl you can dance!" Every custy that I sit down with and chat will do this EVERYTIME.
Custy: The compliment me.
Custy: Ask me when I'm going back up on stage
Custy: Ask me how long I've been doing this
Song or two passes
I'll inerject with a "Can I dance for you or Wanna Go Play"
Custy: Naw night right now.
I'll get up to leave and they'll ask me to sit back down, and they will ALWAYS want to take me home or exhange numbers or try to meet up later.
It's driving me NUTS! I can't make any money because every custy....and I can't emphasize the word every enough...wants to take me home and wife me up. I'm not here to be your wife dammit!
Maybe its my hustle....now I'm just ranting because its so hard making money when they turn you down for a dance but want to take you out....NO NO NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONNO!!!!
Now I'm just mad.![]()


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He also said he wishes we took CCs so he could get more dances (me too.... ) damn my club for no CC processor...

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