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    Default Different types of dancing?

    Hi Girls,

    I'm probably going to sound like a complete idiot here, but I am so confused about what "dancing" entails. I know it depends on the type of club, but I don't know the differences.

    I used to be a bikini dancer at a very small club in nj. Each girl danced 3 songs and then went around pretty much bullshitting with the customers and collecting money. There was no touching beyond hugs (at least from me, and I wasn't approached about it very often, so I'm inclined to think the other girls weren't, either) and their were no lapdances, private dances, etc.


    Well, now I'm interested in dancing topless, but I don't seem to understand what is expected of me in the way of touching. Is there a such thing as topless dancing and ABSOLUTELY no touching? No lapdances, etc? Is a "private dance" the same thing as a "lap dance"? Also, is the point of a lapdance orgasm, or not? I can't imagine that it is, but nobody ever SAYS, you know.

    Thanks. And please, be as specific as possible. Act like I'm a half-wit, ok?

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    Default Re: Different types of dancing?

    At the vast majority of clubs you make the vast majority of your money from selling personal dances that involve at least light contact. There are very few clubs where you only dance on stage and those are really the exception. You need to check out the clubs in your area to see for yourself what is involved in a table/lap/couch dance locally.

    The goal of dances is not an orgasm. Well, for some guys it is, but no, most of us don't spend our nights grinding on customers until they pop. Most people think it's weird to come in your pants.

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    Default Re: Different types of dancing?

    The only place I know of that only does stage dances as the norm, is Utah, where I am. And that's only because private dances are illegal.
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    Default Re: Different types of dancing?

    I don't really have a problem with private or personal dances, as long as it doesn't involve grinding on somebody. Not that there is anything wrong with that, it's just a personal preference. Is that something that is out there? Private dances with no (or very light) touching?

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    Most clubs that have lap dances are very picky about grinding... as in they dont want you doing it. A lot of girls in contact clubs will still just do air dances... you kinda stand in front of the guy, lean over him... lightly rub your upper body on his upper body etc... grinding in most cases is a no no. Also I dont know many clubs that will allow the guys to touch your breasts or pussy... some girls will allow it but its not supposed to happen.

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    Default Re: Different types of dancing?

    ^^^I have to respectfully disagree here. It depends A LOT on where you are. In some areas grinding is out, but in many it's a standard part of the dance. Here in Texas, at least, a little bit of grinding is the norm and expected by dancers, customers, and managers alike. If you're not a big fan of grinding (I'm not, either) you can compensate somewhat by being very, very sensual in other ways. I drape my hair over customers, breath in their ears, make a lot of eye contact, rub noses, lick my lips, etc. Basically put on a good act and keep them distracted from the fact that they're getting minimal grind. It works for me.

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    Default Re: Different types of dancing?

    Our club is absolutely NO grind, but the contact is still pretty substantial despite that. Many of the girls (including me) spend a good chunk of the lap dance sitting on one of the guys legs, leaning back onto his torso, touching his chest, occasionally running fingers along the outside of his legs. . . stuff like Grace was talking about
    When we aren't dancing, we may spend a fair amount of time sitting on guys' laps (especially when it's super-slow), and there are guys who will pay girls hourly to sit on their laps or cuddle with them.

    It takes a little getting used to, but since I'm OK with touching, but hate grinding, it works for me.
    I've gotten the impression that this is pretty standard for some high-class gown clubs, though they may be a lot stricter on no contact in some cities.

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