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    Default Does sex make you feel closer?

    I don't if just women feel this way or men do as well. But does sex make you feel closer to the person you are in a relationship with?

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    Absolutely! If my man and I go too long without sex I start feeling like roomates not cool. Even with a new baby we make time. Sometimes just a quickie is all I need to help feel connected with him.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    Of course! It's always a bonding experience in my relationship.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    I don't if just women feel this way or men do as well. But does sex make you feel closer to the person you are in a relationship with?
    Yes, for me it does. The intimacy that comes with sex is a relationship-builder for me.

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    Of course. We are biologically designed that way.

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    oh yeah, especially in the begining of a relationship.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    For most women, it is a postively resounding YES. I would say it would be for men too. Just human nature, in the end. We do use it as a form of intimacy not just pleasure. Tho' we can also use it purely for pleasure if and when we want.

    Personally, since I can't see myself selling actual intercourse or similiar sex as a business (working as an escort or in a brothel for instance) in the near and distant future, it is the only thing that distinquishes my male friends from my male lovers/boyfriends.

    If I don't have sex with the person, they are a friend. If I do, they obviously are not


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    Oh.....aaaabsolutely. But then again - I'm a romantic monkey.

    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    I don't if just women feel this way or men do as well. But does sex make you feel closer to the person you are in a relationship with?
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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    For me too it's yes.

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    yes it does

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    Sex - No. Intimacy - Yes.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    I would say it should, and usually does -- but those times when it didn't -- I knew I was not with the right person.

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    Julie: Don't you know that when you sleep with someone, your body makes a promise whether you do or not. ---"Vanilla Sky" (2001)

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    What Audrey said.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    If I don't have sex with the person, they are a friend. If I do, they obviously are not
    You know, there's a whole different way to read that then what you intended.

    Sometimes it seems like sex is the first step in screwing up a perfectly good friendship.
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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    absolutely... sex is such a vital part of the relationship...... no doubt... but its more than that.. its all about your friendship and chemistry and love for someone that makes the sex unbeliveably awesome....

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    yupper. in a committed relationship anyways.

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    Sex is great when you love the person, but if you lose that initimate feeling it's like a bagel, doesn't matter if he fucks you nine ways 'til Sunday. It starts getting old, Law of Diminishing Returns....
    Last edited by Prina; 02-21-2006 at 06:49 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina
    Sex is great when you love the person, but if you lose that initimate feeling it's like a bagel, doesn't matter if he fucks you nine ways 'til Sunday. It starts getting old, Law of Diminishing Returns....

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    Quote Originally Posted by Prina
    Sex is great when you love the person...
    It most certainly is. Even when there is no love it isn't bad at all. Except when you do it to a person you don't love and at that time still love another; then it's just a guilty, very short-term release.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    it used to. then i learned better. experience is a WONDERFUL teacher.
    why do some people still have to fight to get the same opportunities that are given to others?

    reclusiveness...is a good thing.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    Yes...it does, and not having sex ( in my experience) creates a void that's incredibly hard to over come. Don't know if it's tension, expectations or resentment, but it sucks.

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    Default Re: Does sex make you feel closer?

    No, it doesnt for me.

    I am in a great relationship, and i LOVE LOVE the sex... but.... it's really the companionship and conversation that makes me feel close to him.

    sex really has lost some significance after stripping for a year. sad but true! for me

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