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    i just started working at small club in boulder, colorodo, and the part of the club i work in is full nude. i haven't been to any clubs outside of colorado, and i wanted to get some feedback: what do you think of waving your pussy inches in front of customers' faces during stage dances and lap dances? many of the girls who work there stick their naked coochies nearly on the customer's face (particularly during private dances). i find this to be trashy and self-deprecating, but i'm not sure if i'm being uptight about this. what are your thoughts on this?

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    yeah don't ever do that ever

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    If youre not comfortable with it - dont do it.
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    Depends on the customer. Now if it's smelly or gross, obvious no. But, if you grow comfortable with the customer enough to trust that he won't lunge for your precious spot, then yeah, it might work out well for you. And if not, you can always spread your legs and play with yourself a couple feet away, and even if you don't stick it in their face, they shouldn't complain. But also realize that it doesn't have to be self-deprecating; you're the one that decides what's self-depricating for yourself.

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    No....


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    You are the only one who knows what your comfortable with. Choose what you are and stick with your choices.

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    I would MAYBE if it was during a private dance, you had tremendous faith in the custy, you could look at yourself in the mirror without feeling shame or disgust, and only for a split second or two. That's not something that is really normal, so no custy should really be expecting it; and if they complain, they probably wouldn't have been content to just enjoy the show anyways.
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    Quote Originally Posted by danigirl
    i find this to be trashy and self-deprecating

    So honestly, did you really need our advice then? Sounds like you pretty much made up your mind already, cut and dry.
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    ^^^ My sentiments exactly.

    Basically, don't follow the crowd if you're not happy. However, if this is the one of the MAIN reasons you're finding it hard to make money, then switch clubs.

    When people start stripping, they have their limits. Some girls won't even show the cooch at all (I have a friend in another club who won't), others will happily (like my good self here). Just do what you wanna do.
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    I don't do it unless I trust the customer, but that's because I'm paranoid about getting licked, not because I think it's trashy to show off my pussy.



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    I don't do it ever. I guess the closest I come is on stage. I suppose it gets a little closer when I do certain things but it's never like... and INCH from someone's nose or anything. I think doing that is just setting yourself up for unwelcome behaviour.

    I once had a guy blow on mine. It grossed me out. I kept thinking about the little bitty amounts of spit that come out when you blow and how his gross spit was on my coochie. It made me feel so dirty.

    I guess it's all about your confort level and the club's rules but as I genereal rule, I never put my pussy in a custy's face. No way.

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    If your not comfortable don't do it.If this is the norm for your club find another one where you'll feel more comfortable.Personally I always try to keep naked kitty 12 inches away from the customers.That way they have a good view and you can easily avold anything unwanted.If covered I'll go closer like 6 to 8 inches but I don't go any closer.I personally don't have a problem showing kitty off as long as I'm making money and everyone is behaving.At the club where I work we weren't alowed to do floor work (our main stage dosen't have a pole)or anything but strait up and down dancing after our bottoms came off until about 6 months ago.

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    thanks for all the feedback, everyone. i appreciate hearing your thoughts!

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    I do a move during private dances where I have one leg on the ground and Ill put the other one behind their head and my cooch is maybe 6" away - altho I have really long legs and lots of girls cant do this move... We dont do nude dances tho - I have booty shorts and a top on durin all dances. Only time we can take anything off (other than topless on stage) is booty shorts off in VIP - so I have my panties and top on...

    Dont think Id do this move nude - afraid of a *kiss* {{{shudders}}

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    Eeeeee...this is very awkward. If there's something your uncomfortable about....then just don't do it. Even in this business WE ARE allowed to be treated as humans and not animals.

    I worked in a FULL NUDE club also, and I would never take my panties off when dancing for a customer. Only on stage, then I'd cover up if I spread my legs.

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    Well, I do it. But I say don't if you don't want to. Believe me the day will come when you will look back and wonder where the innocence went. "Like remember when I was shy about shoving my crotch into some guy's face? Where did those days go?"
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    It'll depend on what the local dancing standards are, too. Here in OR, it's no physical contact, so getting a serious look at my 'little lady' is about what the customer's paying his money for . . .

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    IMHO this question really centers on the 'slippery slope' theory i.e. exotic dancing no longer being a paying proposition in some clubs on the basis of beauty / performance / personality alone (i.e. show business), but instead requiring some form of implied or actual sex in order to pursuade customers to spend money (i.e. sex business). Giving the customer a gynecologist's view and a 'whiff' is arguably a first step down that slippery slope, with grinding lap dances and 'extras' being further down the slope. Deciding where one's own comfort zone lies is an individual decision, but the 'first step' is a bit of a psychological milestone.

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    i don't do it, i get too shy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by danigirl
    i just started working at small club in boulder, colorodo, and the part of the club i work in is full nude. i haven't been to any clubs outside of colorado, and i wanted to get some feedback: what do you think of waving your pussy inches in front of customers' faces during stage dances and lap dances? many of the girls who work there stick their naked coochies nearly on the customer's face (particularly during private dances). i find this to be trashy and self-deprecating, but i'm not sure if i'm being uptight about this. what are your thoughts on this?
    It is extremely trashy and repugnant behavior.Behavior like this just proves how exotic dancing has become a lost art.The ideal is/was to tease and make money by doing as little raunchy things as possible and to act like a lady.If I saw some dancer do this,I think I would have to smack the Hell out her.
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    Yeah, you might get smacked back.
    Repugnant how? I understand being shy, and I understand not wanting to do things. But repugnant? When did our vaginas become so grotesque that letting a guy look at them is smack worthy? (in a strip club mind you, not a church or day care centre). What happened to all the female sexual empowerment? And how is being repulsed by your own body contributing to the "art" of stripping?
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    ^^ I agree. I think it's needless to stick your pussy within a foot of a custy's face. It puts it out there and sometimes guys don't understand they can't touch it, blow on it, kiss it, lick it, etc. when it's thrown in their face like that.... it seems like more of an open invite to them to get more action than entertainment. I know girls that do it tho and they get licked and touched a lot more than girls that don't. Why set yourself up for something like that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phedre
    ^^ I agree. I think it's needless to stick your pussy within a foot of a custy's face. It puts it out there and sometimes guys don't understand they can't touch it, blow on it, kiss it, lick it, etc. when it's thrown in their face like that.... it seems like more of an open invite to them to get more action than entertainment. I know girls that do it tho and they get licked and touched a lot more than girls that don't. Why set yourself up for something like that?
    My sentiments exactly.
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    Eh, it's your body, do what you want. Just don't expect ever dancer you work with to be OK with it..

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