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    Default Re: He maxed out his credit card.

    Quote Originally Posted by calliope7
    Well are you actually lying to dancers, as in "oh yeah I want to dance later but I'd like to sit and chat with you for awhile (and try to touch you while you sit here)?" And then leave or act like you don't remember telling her you wanted to dance. If thats the case, I don't think its the same thing.

    To be honest, I don't think its wrong for you to let her continue sitting there and chatting if she does not bring up a dance herself. However if you purposefully mislead her, that different.

    As far as the types of guys being discussed in this thread, none of them are being mislead. These guys know on some level what they are doing despite how drunk they are. It really comes down to the dancer's discretion as to how far she'll take it with a guy she knows does not have much money or really can't afford her dances. The real question being asked is whether to keep taking money from someone who is openly offering it and can't afford it or to try to help them out and cut them off. But like Lena said, when you play the good guy(girl) someone else will come in and take advantage of whats left.
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    DancerSarah, I used to. But not anymore. I'm in Nashville now.

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    Hmm, I get that so often, even where guy will wait till after midnight to get more on their card. If the guy is drunk he shouldn't still be there but it's the clubs call. I don't push guys too hard that are obviously drunk but if he's going to spend his money better me than someone else who will not give him what he paid for (not that he will remember) I would never go through a guys pockets and I tell customers to put a 50 in their sock so they can a least get home. Some customers just want to blow it, I figure give them a good night, give them a good time, if they were in a club they would shout the bar. Give them value they will spend most of the time talking and having a laugh but be aware when they come back they won't remember a lot.

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    Default Re: He maxed out his credit card.

    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    I've taken everything in a guy's wallet, but I never stand over them harping for more! I've watched a girl slap a guy because he was three short, after spending two hundred or so.

    I have actually given a few bucks back for their gas money home. I knowit's their choice what they spend, but they have to get home somehow, he he
    I once had a guy unintentionally spend all his money... he wanted to do a half hour in the VIP room but it was full so I suggested the champagne room. All I did was suggest it then he said, "How can I say no to you?" It was that easy. Afterwards he realized he spent every last dollar and was giving me this sob story that he had no money for the cab ride back to his hotel and I happily suggested he use the ATM machine for that and told him how to get to the nearest one. I do feel a little bad about it , but hey he's the one who came up to me in the first place and I never begged or hustled him into the champagne room.

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    Default Re: He maxed out his credit card.

    I think it is silly to announce that your cards and your bank account are depleted. Why would a person want the public to know that? Of course this guy was drunk and nearly out of his mind. Second concern is why would a person in his right mind get drunk in a place where all these sexy women are after your money and are professionals at it? Hell, you only leave with memories, and if you are drunk you have little of that left.

    You only presumed he was an adult. He wasn't, you know.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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