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    Okay, so my ex is back in town for a few days. And me and him are supossed to hang out today. Well i called him up to change to tomorrow, and he told me that he has to see his grandparents tomorrow and that he will be on his way to my house in a few minutes.

    i'm freakin out. I mean, yes it'll be great to see him again. But it's going to be soooooo awkward. My boyfriend will be coming home and i have no plans to go out tonight with my ex to a party. I just made a nice dinner for my man, and i want to stay home with him.

    i'm so stressed!!! WHAT DO I DO??????

    Do i introduce them? Or do i just keep them separated?! I don't want to have my ex stay for dinner, how freakin awkward would that be? But at the same time, i live in a small town and there is nothing to do here!

    oh god help. And i'm so sorry if this doesn't make sense, i'm so stressed
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    Default Re: omg. what do i do?????

    wow. so that really made no sense. Let me try to explain:

    My ex is in the Air Force and is stationed out in Wyoming, he's on leave and i haven't seen him in like 3 years. So we decided a few weeks ago to meet up for coffee and just hang out for a little while. Last night he called me up telling me that he was going to come see me tomorrow(which is today).

    This would have been fine had we hung out in the morning/early afternoon. But it's not a good thing for me and him to be hanging out in the evening. That's the time me and my boyfriend snuggle and just relax from the day.
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    Anyone else thinking: "Don't make the 3-some joke...don't make the 3-some joke.."

    Honestly, Hannah, be a little cosmopolitian. You have a current lover and a past lover in the same room. Odds are they'll even like each other (once the awkwardness evaporates).

    And clearly you have a choice when/where to hang out. If it makes you uncomfortable to see him at night (are you worried you'll cheat? I'm not clear on that) then the simple solution is not to go out.

    E.

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    Default Re: omg. what do i do?????

    heh. well there will be no 3-some with him.

    i really doubt that they will like each other. My current boyfriend thinks my ex is a lil wussy bitch and my ex thinks that my boyfriend is an arrogant asshole.

    I know that i won't cheat, so that isn't an issue at all. It's just that this is an awkward situation that i have never been in before.
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    If it were me Id call the ex and say its a no-go and youll call him tomorrow... I couldnt even imagine my guy and my ex in the same room... creepy...

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    agree with audrey... the man in your life right now should be the one that comes first, not your old boyfriend... try to contact him tomorrow and set up a late lunch or a coffee shop visit.... Is it absolutely necessary that u see your old bf? ok he may have already stopped by as i am reading your post??? hopefully nothing bad happened if your bf was home when he came.... YIKES......

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    Default Re: omg. what do i do?????

    Alright, well it wasn't as bad as i thought it would be. I didn't really want to meet up with him, and he was supossed to call me when he left his house(about 40 min. away) and instead he called me when he was on my street.

    It was funny though b/c my boyfriend kept giving me this look like "i can't believe you dated this guy" it was hilarious. But it was such an odd meeting.

    It wasn't necessary to meet the ex, in fact, i hadn't really been sure if i wanted to or not. But at least seeing him made me realize just how happy i am with my boyfriend...and i wouldn't trade him for anything
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