Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months...
We started out in a weird way.. He needed a roommate and i did too. He moved in, pretty soon we started fooling around and about a month later, we were a couple.
I quit dancing right before he moved in because I didn't want him to take what I did the wrong way and tell everyone in school what i did, not that it really matters that I danced, but I don't think the whole school needs to know. And i had NO IDEA that he liked me before he moved in, so I didn't know what to expect out of the deal.
Anyways, about 2 months after we started dating, I told him i use to dance. He was okay with that, a little shocked though. I had gained some weight from eating a lkot of food with him, and discussed losing weight and going back to dancing, he said he would be okay with that.
Well, now to present day, gained a bit more weight, and now I'm going to join a gym next week to lose that weight.
But the other day, he tells me that no girlfriend of his is going to be a stripper, and he doesn't want me to go back dancing!
WTF???
He's 31, I'll be 23 next month, his longest relationship is 8 months, so if we play the cards right, this will be his longest one. Although he's been engaged twice, both times after like 5 months of dating a girl.
He hasn't even said "I love you" to me!! Oh, he gave me a "promise ring" at Christmas, and made it very clear to me that it was by no means an engagement ring! WTF??
What does this mean? Do you think maybe he's just taking it slower with me because he doesn't want to get hurt again? i would talk to him about it, but I don't want to make him think I'm reaching for him to tell me he loves me if he doesn't, or to get hurt myself over it, but then again, if he doesn't care, why would he all of a sudden have a problem with me stripping?
Ugh! Men!! Any advice??
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