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    Hi, Im actually a newbie. I never danced before except privately for my ex. Im looking into this for quite some time. But lately I had friends hinting it at my reg 9-5 job. Im afraid for a few reasons; no experience, what if someone finds out at my reg job, and not being thin enough. I know I am beautiful but Im not skeletical. I've heard the money is great- which I realy need right now to survive. (By the way, Im a single mom w/just my less than 30k/ yr income) But my fear is you only hear the good things outta every dancer who does this. Can someone who's "been there" give me some honest words of advice? And how to actually start?

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    Default Re: advice please for a 1st timer

    Don't worry about not being thin - that doesn't matter and skeletol is not good in stripping so forget that!
    Most of us start with no experience and we all just pick it up as we go along, so don't worry about that either!
    If you're worried about people recognising you, you may want to experiment with wigs - it's amazing just how different a wig can make someone look! It's not nessesarilly a problem if people do find out what you do - everyone knows I strip and everyone is great about it for instance, but I understand that situations can be very different for all of us...
    Stripping has it's ups and downs but so long as there are more ups then it's worth sticking with! If you scour stripperweb you will see plenty of posts about the shitty times at work, but really IMO they are mostly minor gripes, the really bad stuff makes up just a small percentage.
    Stripping - it's not hard so I'm sure you'll be fine if you can stop worrying (-:

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    Default Re: advice please for a 1st timer

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker
    If you scour stripperweb you will see plenty of posts about the shitty times at work, but really IMO they are mostly minor gripes, the really bad stuff makes up just a small percentage.
    (-:
    I agree. Just like any job, it is what you make of it. If you choose to focus on the negative, that's all you'll be surrounded by. If you choose to do the opposite, you'll make great money and have fond memories to look back on.

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    Default Re: advice please for a 1st timer

    hello and welcome, first do a search in the newbie forum a lot of your concerns will be answered. I love dancing, people who say bad things have no clue and are just jealous. Before i went back to school, i had a normal job, and i would dance far away i would go for weekends, go to some clubs and visit them, find out about hiring procedures.

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    Default Re: advice please for a 1st timer

    Unless you wanna be a high fashion model, next to no one enjoys a skeletal woman.

    Men like juicyness, and their opinions change when they see real life women. Many guys I know who have met the skinny women they worship in magazines at conventions, are disappointed that the lady had "no ass", or "was twiggish". (Of course, this isn't to say they didn't still think she was hot lol)

    Just guys don't mind flesh. Steven Meisel, Gilles Bensimon, or Ellen von Unwerth, on the other hand, want bones popping out of their models... ugh

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