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    I started doing this recently. There are the guys you can tell are into eye contact and watching your face ..after 8yrs. of stripping this is hard for me, I'd rather bury their face in my chest, turn my back to them...etc. wham/bam would you like another!?! But I have now discovered this game in my head that makes these guys very easy to dance for. Examples...

    A young guy with a crew cut- I fantasized he was a cop in the club to bust girls but he was falling for me and as long as I seemingly shared the attraction he would leave us alone

    A thug looking hispanic- I fantasized he was a greatly feared member of the mexican mafia. I was to respect him and feel honored to be dancing for him.

    You get the idea. Now, am I a complete dork or does anyone else do this?

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    Default Re: Ever fantasize while giving a dance?

    hahaaa..that's kinda funny. I've never done it though.

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    I have never done this, but I think I will try it. It sounds like a good way to pass a boring night.


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    Lyssa, that is adorable.

    I bet it works like a charm, too!
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    Yep, I do it all the time! Sometimes I even dance for my bf at home and pretend he's a customer.


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    While I am grinding on a ugly, old, fart I fantasize about a new outfit or new pair of shoes, lol, but he never knows that of course. If I have a cute, young boy I fantasize about making him my "pool boy", lmao

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    I usually fantasize about that being my very last night dancing, so I'd better enjoy it

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    Default Re: Ever fantasize while giving a dance?

    If it's a guy I don't really want to dance for for some reason, then I tend to daydream too-but I always try to keep some eye contact. I don't want to look like some dancers do after a long time dancing-you know the look. But I'm still reasonably new to the business, so maybe I am not jaded enough yet!

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    I have done this, it works pretty well. Just keep looking into his eyes but unfocus your gaze. Also, it helps to turn around and grind your butt against him so you can close one eye to fantasize, and keep the other eye open to look for unwanted intruders.

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    When i really like the song i can get pretty intense/seductive

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    I do. I think about a big dollar sign on thier head. Works wonders!
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    When I'm doing a lap dance I'm usually thinking about what I'm going to do with the money, or what I have to do the next day. I hardly ever think about the guy at all. I usually am just going through the motions. I do pay attention to how the custy is reacting to me, so I can change my style if it seems like he isn't enjoying the dance, but usually I don't think about him in any way except for as a dollar sign.
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    I often fantasize that I'm dancing for one of my exes that I am still attracted to. My dances improve quite a bit when I do this.

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    Default Re: Ever fantasize while giving a dance?

    i've never done a private dance (probably will post about that later), but when i'm up on stage being ogled by grossies i dance for the bartender who works during my shift because i have a teeny crush on him

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    ....note to self, ask dancer to fantasize about Tom Selleck, Tom Cruz or Tommy Lee during dance.

    More on topic, many times, based on our conversation before the dance, I could tell a dancer was thinking of some form of revenge on some other dancer, her x-boyfriend or some perv she met that night. I always back away very slowly and quietly after the dance is over.
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    I tried this last night. The guy reminded me a little of my ex-husband, so to entertainmyself, I imagined what we woudl say to each other if he realy did show up. Custy kept asking me if I was OK. Hmmmm....


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    Default Re: Ever fantasize while giving a dance?

    that's so awesome!! hahahahhahhaaha. u go all into detail too! lol

    i DO fantasize about other guys..but i just imagine it's them i'm giving a dance to. i don't really get into detail, tho.

    that's cute

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