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    So last night sucked so badly I have trouble even recounting it. There where 29 girls and I'm not sure if there were over 50 people in the club all night. I think only 5 or 6 of us broke a hundred. I myself after paying my bar fee walked with $20. All these new girls busting in a month before race week so that they can qualify to work race week. Its astoundingly sad. By far the worst thing about the night was this one ass hole...GRRRRRR....I went up to him and asked if I could get naked for him and he mumbled a bit so I smiled really big and said "so, is that a yes?" He then stood up pointed at his wedding band and said "NO NO NO NO NO"....very loudly..people turned and looked, I was very embarrased so I laughed and said "Are you aware you're in a strip club?"...he then said "I know where the fuck I am, go away you whore" I have never been so insulted in my entire life.
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    We have guys thrown guys out for calling us names like that. That's totally unacceptable on his behalf. I would have probably slapped him and got myself in trouble instead of him.

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    Ooh, that made me see red just reading that. I don't know what I would've done, but blood would have been shed.

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    Yea, I definately would have slapped him. This girl punched a guy the other night for calling her a slut. Anyway, sux that you had such a bad night.

    hahaha, maybe he was in such a bad mood b/c his lovely wife kicked the sh*t outta him for treating her like that.

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    Did you tell the security guy's ? Where I worked I would get guy's kicked out for that.

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    What an ASS! I'm sorry you had to deal with him. Try to cheer up. Know that you are a much better person than he could ever hope to be!

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    I would've yelled back at him to get the fuck out of here before his wife finds out then, and walked away to the next guy. This is really just a typical example of the guy who needs to put down women in hopes of stroking his poor little ego. He wants you to get embarrassed and slink away in degradation. Stand up to them; don't let them get the best of you. Then move on to the next.

    I usually had fun with the next guy, mutually poking fun at the moron who made an ass of himself in front of everyone, and then did some dances

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    Last night at my club there were over 40 girls, and we soooo outnumbered the guys there. Totally miserable!
    And there was one couple who came in-they got married 3 days earlier, and she bought him a dance! so that was good, but then she came up to me in the middle of the dance and told me to get myself off of her guy-how bipolar is that?

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    I send that guy's wife my condolences.

    And, yes, he should hve been bounced.

    I probably would have kneed him, and tell the bouncer that he was trying to finger me or something.

    Sarah, you need to find a new club, even if you have to go out of town to do so.


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    Ahhh! What an asshole!!!!!!!!

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    This is a classic example of men being highly chauvinist. They go to a strip club, have an ugly, fat wife at home, are ugly themselves, and put down girls working in the club in degrading ways. They don't want their daughter, wife or girlfriend dancing, but they will patronize the clubs themselves.

    Many of these guys go in a club looking for vulnerable girls they can get their way with, and don't see us in the same light as their wives, or women outside the industry. These guys MUST be set straight.

    Many club owners and managers on the other hand are cut out of the same cloth as the asshole customers. They hire as many "gals" as they can ( many managers are told to only hire girls they would fuck) and as long as they have girls applying for jobs on a regular basis, and paying to work, could give a fuck how much money the girls actually make.

    As Paris said above, you need to find other places to work. This business nowadays for varying reasons, requires moving around.

    I work 6 day a week bookings in small Upper Midwestern towns where the amount of girls is controlled, and we get a base pay of $300-$400 a week to avoid the situation you are in.

    This business is definately not easy money, and requires some sacrifices to have monetary gain from it.

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    that was very rude and uncalled for....i would of had him thrown out too.......don't let his negativity bother you,

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    If that Turd was having that much of an issue being having dancers sell him laps because he's "married," he shouldn't have been in there at all. What a dumb thing for him to even say. Like that's ever mattered to the thousounds of other married men we've given dances to.

    Second, when a customer has called me something like that I quickly eye the nearest bouncer, ask the custie to repeat himself, smile and then watch him get kicked out by the bouncer whose now heard him call me a slut.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    This is really just a typical example of the guy who needs to put down women in hopes of stroking his poor little ego.
    Exactly.

    Don't waste any energy on this kind of guys

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    Made me mad just reading it. Just move on, Sarah.

    I just hate hypocrites.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina

    Many club owners and managers on the other hand are cut out of the same cloth as the asshole customers. They hire as many "gals" as they can ( many managers are told to only hire girls they would fuck) and as long as they have girls applying for jobs on a regular basis, and paying to work, could give a fuck how much money the girls actually make.
    Tina is absolutely right here. The issue here is that most management are hired because they know how to do glorified bartending duties such as make purchase orders, count the registers at the end of the night, etc. Most of them wouldn't even be able to get an assistant managers job at a fast food restaraunt. As such, they generally have little or no business sense. I see this all the time when I see club policies enacted on the dancers where I can tell as an absolute matter of fact that the manager who came up with the hair-brained idea hasn't worked in sales a day in his life. This all said, they would rather see the club full of dancers rather than see a few less dancers who wind up being happy and making money. What they don't get is that by having LESS dancers, the end result is they will make MORE MONEY because of the different supply/demand rules as it applies to the sales in the club. It always works out this way, yet most managers are too stupid to see this obvious fact. There is a LOT to be said about creating a cutoff point in business.

    For example, there is a sushi place near my house where my wife and I go to frequently. Their service isn't really great but their food is, so we go there because we like the food and it's nearby. We went there the other night and they just happened to be REALLY busy for some unknown reason. Just pure coincidence. Well, the restaraunt was unable to accomodate all the customers with the amount of staff they had and as a result, the service was absolutely terrible. We sat there 15 minutes before we got a drink order at the counter. We ordered appetizers that showed up 1/2 hour later and some did not show up at all. The list goes on and on. The people next to us on both sides who were there before us said that this was happeneing since before we got there. They just were not able to accomodate the customers. So while all this is going on, and fearing losing a customer or two, the manager who was standing at the door kept letting more people in even though he KNEW the restaraunt could not accomodate them properly. In this idiot manager's mind he is thinking that he can't turn away a paying customer but what he didn't realize was that the restaraunt was full of UNHAPPY customers. A smart business decision would have been to tell the newcomers that although they have a free table, it would be a short wait because they are understaffed right now and are unable to accomodate them.

    Bottom line, if you can't accomodate the customers you do have, what's the point of bringing in new ones who will be just as unhappy 1 hour later. As a result, I made it a point to tell this manager that we will never be returning and made him take off 30% of the bill and he lost two regular customers over his own business incompetence. It makes me wonder what the owners would have done knowing this. Interestingly enough, my wife is a trainer for a large Italian fast-service restaraunt chain...she trains people to be General Managers. I asked her how she would have handled the situation and she said that she runs into this all the time. That when a flood of customers comes in, she tells her managers that while they are tempted to open another register, to think long and hard about doing so in spite of the line. The reason? While it may make the customers happy knowing their orders are being taken fast, the kitchen may not be able to accomodate such a huge flood of orders at one time and as such, mistakes may happen more frequently and the orders may not come out in the highest possible quality. As a result, slowing down the initial service actually makes for happier customers in the long run...it's smart business sense.

    This gets me back to my original point...most managers (but not all) are not business people. In fact, the majority of them them are quite incompetent in any form of business management and even as a junior manager of a gentlemen's club, they have already risen to their own level of incompetence. This is why they will hire tons of girls the week before race week and follow the "quantity" instead of "quality" concept when hiring dancers. As such, most of the house girls wind up getting screwed financially and everyone is unhappy. So even in a small club, by hiring an extra 5 or 10 dancers over what they really need to accomodate their customer level, they think they are coming out ahead because they made an extra few hundred bucks for the club that night in house fees. What they don't seem to understand is that now the dancers are fighting to make a buck, the customers are getting bombarded by "wanna dance" girls and the club looks horrible because you have dancers sitting alone at the bar looking bored. This winds up making the customers spend LESS money in the club on the back-end where the club makes the bulk of their money, not on the house fees from the dancers. Not to mention your bread-and-butter of the club, the house dancers, are unhappy because they just got screwed out of all their sales opportunities because of all the new girls who just showed up for a week so now the club has to deal with the drama of frequent turnaround of the dancers because they are all unhappy with the moronic management decisions that occur on a daily basis.

    It is for this reason alone that I cannot stress enough that for new dancers or even veteran ones looking at a new club, find out what the management is like before starting because their policies can make or break a club and certainly make or break the income levels of the dancers in it.

    Jeez I need to open a club.

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    WTF!?!?! I wonder how he treats his WIFE!? So sad he has to insult strangers to make him feel up to par with... whatever. OMG I'm so pissed! I woulda said, "But does SHE know where you are?!" WHat a fucking dipshit.
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    He would've been kick out of my club for talking anyone like that. What an asshole.

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    Oh my GOD....what an asshole.

    First of all, you are not a whore; to say something calmly like you did ("are you aware you are in a strip club") was a very tame and undeservedly kind response to this jerk pointing at his finger shouting "no, no no" like that. For him to ALSO say back "go away you ____"--just proves he is among the lowest scum of the human race, the truly emotionless, heartless, even sometimes serial killer type breed that truly has no consideration or good within his heart.

    In short, fuck him. His life must be so miserable that he has to try to share that misery with those around him. I am sorry that it had to be you; I have had it with men who enjoy abusing women emotionally just because they "are in a men's club, and can"...I've seen enough of that attitude.

    If it were me, I'd prob. have been so upset that I'd fail to have him ejected from the premises. Which he surely deserved. And which he deserved even if you had to lie about him grabbing you to get it done. However, I would hope that a manager would be willing to eject him based solely on his verbal abuse like that (just have yet to hear of that situation being brought to a manager's attention, though I'm sure it has been...examples anyone?).

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    I've never had to deal with crap that bad, but if I do have to deal crude custies I let all the girls know about it. Guys like that don't deserve our company and if you treat one dancer that way, you better bet no one of the the others are going to talk to you.
    I've actually watched dancers go on stage next only to whisper to the girl getting off and point at the guy that wasa jerk. The guy never stays long.
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    yea, although it has pissed me off just to read your story, i agree to move on, don't even waste another brain cycle on this unhappy looser.

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    I should have had him thrown out and he would have been if I pursued it, but I didnt because like many people have said on here, don't waste your time on that ass. I ended up having a really good night last night and made my entire rent plus some, so that turned out well. The club I work at is a very nice clean club and I know I would have been backed up 100% if I had wanted to, but ya know.

    Normally there arent that many girls at the club, but since its close to race week we have to get our numbers up, which sucks for now, but wont matter during race week. Ive been told that 50 or 60 girls work a night during race week (normal #s are around 20-23) and if you dont leave with at least a grand you're doing something wrong or just arent on the floor. Thats why I stay.
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    Hahaha... the other week, I had a great conversation with this woman about her studies in theology. The bar was almost closing up (after last set), and I asked one of her companions who was still at the rack if he was interested in a private dance. He started shouting at me that he was a good Catholic boy, was here with his sister, and indignantly started exclaiming to his friends about how some girl just asked him about a private dance.

    Jeez, dude, then quit sitting there and encouraging the ladies to take their clothes off! Hmph

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    Good comeback line given to me by one of my friends on here is.. " is that real or is it a rental" For when they show you their wedding ring(s)

    Stupid jerk, somebody like that needs to catch crabs or the clap just for being a dick-head.

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