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    How to you respond to the "what's the point of getting a dance? I'm going to get blue-balled." Or "I can't touch, what's the point then". Whenever a guy says this I am totally stumped and have no idea what to say.

    Also, lately, maybe because I'm feeling a bit burned out, I'm having problems continuting the conversation, and particularly having problems leading the conversation to dances. My approach tends to be (or what I aim for the very sexy, sensual, mysterious? stripper (lots of eye contact, I wear lots of red) Any ideas for conversation that would fit my type? Either starting conversation or middle conversation (after you've asked the how are you? what do you do?)

    MUST GET OUT OF MY RUT BEFORE I WORK MY BUTT OFF FOR A MONTH!!!

    Thanks everyone!

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    God, I hate when they say that.

    Honestly, I don't even want to bother with them. There are guys that you are going to have to fight the whole time, and these fall into that group. if you do sell them a dance, you will have to make it grindy/feely or they will only buy one.

    Not worth it, but if you must, try to convince them it's not about the physical, but the fantasy.

    Conversation leading to dances....it's good to keep it light and airy, and flirtatious. You probably want to avoid what they do. Find out why they are there....what are they looking for. Make it goal to provide it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Izabella
    Either starting conversation or middle conversation (after you've asked the how are you? what do you do?)

    Thanks everyone!
    A lot of guys might not like the 'what do you do' question. They might be unemployed (I hope they've got $$ for you!), or they might really hate their job, or they might have just gotten off of a 12 hour shift and just want the company of a pretty woman for a while. Jobs are something that I only ask about if he mentions it first, normally after "How was your day" or "How's your night going?" Then maybe ask something like, "Is that a fun job?"

    Can't help ya with the blue balls.

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    Just lie,lie lie and then lie some more. Say your dances are fantastic! If their not who cares,you got the $ for a dance,turn around and go hustle another,they all add up in the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Izabella
    How to you respond to the "what's the point of getting a dance? I'm going to get blue-balled." Or "I can't touch, what's the point then". Whenever a guy says this I am totally stumped and have no idea what to say.
    On the advice of someone here, I recently said aloud my mental response to this question - "So it's all just about popping one off in a hurry, then? Gee, you must be GREAT in bed." Believe it or not, it worked! He laughed and said, "Yeah, I am!" I responded, "Then you appreciate that there's more to it than an orgasm. Besides, when you get home tonight, what else are you going to think about to help you fall asleep?" Lean in, touch his knee, look in his eyes... "When I dance for you, you're gonna be thinking about it for a LONG TIME."

    Worked like a charm. Thanks to DancerWealth and the fine ladies of StripperWeb.

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    Just say, "Well, you know this isn't a brothel because the club name doesn't have "ranch" in it so what would bring you in here then?" At this point, no matter what the reply, such as "well, I want to have a drink and hang around beautiful women" then you reply with, "Well, that's why I'm here and my suggestion is we get a lot closer with me doing a dance for you."

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