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    K, so i'm kicking back and watching TV. I'm flipping through the channels something fierce... independance day... nah (does anyone else giggle at the line Vivica A. Fox says when she goes to her strip club to "pick up her check" I know i do, anyway, back on topic), Day after tomorrow... nah, I Robot, seen it (good flick, tho), the english patient... can double as an elephant tranquilizer, Spiderman 2... seen it 100 times let's see what else is on, then i get to some goofy dracula movie and i stop. Why do i stop for some dracula movie where it looks like they are reading cue cards, you ask? Well, to put it bluntly, the first image i get of this movie as i click in is a pair of pretty fucking perfect, naked, breasts. Gotta love the skinemax channels. Bingo! Sold! To the chick with the boobs! Mr Madcap is a sucker for boobs.

    All of a sudden some other chick starts licking them, and, you know, doing the softcore cinemax thing. So i'm sitting there watching two chicks getting it on. You can tell they are not really having sex, which isn't a biggie since it's a low budget softcore sex-movie, but these two are going at it in every other way OTHER than actual sex. I find myself admiring the women's bodies, but i'm not turned on by the act itself. The idea of two women together just holds no magic for me, the way it does for other guys i know. I don't look down on it, hell, there's not enough love in the world as it is, but it does make me curious. When i ask other guys why they dig that sort of thing so much, none of them seem to be able to answer beyond the goofy bevis and butthead laugh that guys somehow all have when dealing with something like this.

    Me, i figure that guy folk like this stuff 'cause it's sorta forbidden unless a guy is lucky/unlucky enough (depending) to get a threesome. I mean where on earth can a man be less welcome than lesbianism? The heart of mount Kilauea, maybe. Vesuvius? The Amazon river during Pirhanna mating season? Do they really, honestly, get turned on by the sight of the two girls getting it on, or are they imagining themselves in the mix? What is the big deal?

    Again, this isn't a condemnation of lesbianism and i don't want anyone to think it is. Who am I to argue with true love? I just don't get why GUYS (of all people) like it so much. Funny thing is that a lot of these guys sitting there chicken choking to images of Jenna Jameson and Nikki Tyler eating each other's pussies are also guys that just might try beating the fuck out of the next gay man they meet. That's plain weird.

    If you're a guy that likes this sort of thing, why? If your a girl that does this sort of thing, why do you think they get off on it so much? All opinions welcome.

    I'm asking for thoughts, not details. It really does nothing for me so i'm NOT looking to get my rocks off with this thread. I'm just kinda curious.

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    Well, I can say I was a very lucky dude when it came to group sex. (Get into music or theatre man.) And no, I ain't gettin into details.

    But, I can say there is a difference between lesbianism and orgy fun. Lesbianism is more of a rigid thing. Same thing for gays.

    And you said it - guys are visual. Checking out chicks is fun (best kind of girlfriend is bi - you can go to the mall and check out chicks together.)

    Even in orgies though, people tend to pair up - you can only focus your attention on one person. Sure you might swap a little more - but for the most part sandwiches are kinda rare. It is two people focussing on one instead of one focussing on two. The "bread" need to be "givers" and not "takers."

    OK. I am gonna shut up now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap
    If you're a guy that likes this sort of thing, why?
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    It's two naked chicks. Two > One.

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    Simple....guys are hairy beasty creatures and women are soft gentle goddesses.

    Which would I rather see making out? Hint:I didnt vote for hairy beasts.
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    This is a very typical and cliche fantasy.I wished more men had more creative fantasies besides this.Go out on the streets and ask men what their fantasies are and 9 out of 10 times,you'll get an answer like,"Seeing/being with two chicks at the same time."VERY cliche and unoriginal.Think of something better,guys.
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    In addition to the above reasons, I suggest men like "girl/girl" because men (correctly) believe in the reality of the "bicurious" girl as fundamentally different than a "bicurious" man. It follows that we believe that "bi" girls screwing around with other "bi" girls will eventually end up with us, not the girl.

    A truly "bi" girl that chooses a woman over a man may not offer the same fantasy image of the girl/girl sex. Yet, my guess is that this is either 50% of the reality, and possibly the "bi" girl is perpetually conflicted between the sexes. You think Ann Heche is thrilled about being bi?

    Quote from Ann Heche: "And for anyone who ever thought that Ellen and I broke it off because of sexuality, you couldn't be more mistaken. And for anyone who thought my mother's prayers had anything to do with me marrying a man, forget it.”

    Another from Ms. Heche: "The therapists didn't know, ... The therapists knew about my abuse. The therapists knew about the shame I was enduring. ... But the therapists never knew the extent of the world that I created to get out of the shame of my abuse.”

    Ohhhh wait.... that's off topic...

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    Quote Originally Posted by otb
    ...VERY cliche and unoriginal.Think of something better,guys.
    When we invent fantasies to impress you and with the goal of getting into your pants, that's a pick up line, not a true fantasy. And since this is not a dating site, that won't happen here.
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    My boyfriend likes to watch me with other girls because I like it, and it turns him on to see me that turned on. I don't think he gets all that into it otherwise - he's seen plenty of lesbian sex and it's not a huge deal for him anymore.

    Personally, I prefer to watch girl-on-girl porn because the guys in straight porn are fugly, and porn with just one girl by herself would be boring.

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    I think it is my imagining I am in the mix. I have been there once, and I preferred the joining in. Seeing a woman being truly turned on (in reality, but even in porn) is a great turn-on for me and is as satisfying as if I were in there with her. Also in porn filming at least one pussy is viewable most all the time. It is not the viewing, it is imagining what I would be doing with her and her being so hot. From my over-active imagination, seems there are so many more fun activities when a guy is with 2 gals, the positions etc.... Still watching lesbian sex is not as interesting to me (porn doesn't really show the orgasm often) as watching girl-guy sex when they are truly turned on. Watching guy-gal-guy sex is even less interesting; I would rather watch a gal cum from self-pleasuring in a real moment.

    I'm sorry if this is not insightful as you may have hoped.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    My boyfriend likes to watch me with other girls because I like it, and it turns him on to see me that turned on. I don't think he gets all that into it otherwise - he's seen plenty of lesbian sex and it's not a huge deal for him anymore.

    Personally, I prefer to watch girl-on-girl porn because the guys in straight porn are fugly, and porn with just one girl by herself would be boring.
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    It must be genetic or semething .

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    According to my boyfriend, girl-on-girl porn is cooler because he'd rather not have a nekkid man on screen while he's trying to jerk off. Also, he likes seeing women turned on (bless him) so two women having orgasms is twice as good as one woman having orgasms. An entire room full of women is even better. The boy just should have been born a lesbian.

    For myself, while I'm only very mildly bi, on purely visiual terms I'd rather see a woman naked than a man, cause they're just prettier. And softer. And smell nicer.

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    At the end, it's all about the COCK.

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    Cock Power Cock Power Cock Power!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Biz
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    It's two naked chicks. Two > One.

    BINGO!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kikin
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    LOL! I'll try and stop by. I've been feeling quite "blue" lately WRT strip clubs.

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    I don't know. I don't even know why guy-on-guy action is hot to me. It just is.

    By the way, in the big scheme of things, this is a pretty tame fantasy overall. People fantasize about allllllll kinds of crazy things. At least this one involves humans.

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    It's pretty simple really. Some guys don't want to see a big hard schlong on their screen, esspecially one that makes their own look, well, inadequate.


    Some guys just want to see women's body parts, or the look of pleasure on a woman's face, and with girl-girl you have twice as much female flesh to look at.

    Personally, I loathe most girl-girl porn for the same reason I loathe its boy-girl equivalent. It's mechanical, boring, mass produced, and scripted by someone who isn't me. I need some legitimate heat between the actresses, and lets face it, I'm not going to get that from Vivid Video or their ilk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    LOL! I'll try and stop by. I've been feeling quite "blue" lately WRT strip clubs.
    We will welcome you with open arms...Lord knows we need fresh pinky blood. lol,

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    BTW great girl/girl song on stage- "Casanova" - Peaches

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap
    .... So i'm sitting there watching two chicks getting it on. You can tell they are not really having sex, which isn't a biggie since it's a low budget softcore sex-movie, but these two are going at it in every other way OTHER than actual sex. I find myself admiring the women's bodies, but i'm not turned on by the act itself. ....

    Again, this isn't a condemnation of lesbianism and i don't want anyone to think it is. Who am I to argue with true love? I just don't get why GUYS (of all people) like it so much.
    I think you've answered your own question here. You enjoy watching the two women but, as you said, it's not actual sex. You're enjoying watching their bodies and their expressions of being faux turned on. I think that's all that any straight guy is enjoying. He's concentrating on watching two women's body parts as they act pleasured and/or he's projecting himself into the action. I suspect the difference between his reaction and yours is a personal matter of degree.

    Why do straight guys enjoy lesbianism so much? I doubt they do. I doubt many have seen lesbian or even bi-curious sex; they've seen two girls play acting for the enjoyment of a predominantly male audience. I mean, even if the porn stars are bi or lesbian, they still know how to play to their audience. There's nothing wrong with weaving a good fantasy for straight men, something the majority of us here have a stake in, but don't confuse that with the real thing.

    My theory is that, if the typical straight guy were to come into my bedroom when my girlfriend and I were enveloped in real intimacy, and he realized his chances of joining in were zero-zip-zilch-nada, he would be disinterested, possibly repulsed, by what we were doing not for his enjoyment. (However, don't message me for an invite to test the theory; it ain't happenin'.) Perhaps I'm over-generalizing, but in my experience, the last thing a straight guy wants to watch is lovemaking in a realistic lesbian relationship film. And no, The L Word doesn't count, because it's too fantasy soap operaish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    (However, don't message me for an invite to test the theory; it ain't happenin'.)
    And may I assume that goes for me too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    ... if the typical straight guy were to come into my bedroom when my girlfriend and I were enveloped in real intimacy...
    He'd get his ass kicked out of there pronto, the perv. Who cares whether he gets wood?

    Fucker, I better hang out in case he comes back. Don't mind me, now.

    ...Seriously, I tend to agree. However if both girls are jaw-dropping gorgeous, he might get over his hangups for a while. Then again this is the fantasy you describe. Pretty vanilla. girl/butch-girl doesn't seem to be a Vivid theme.

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    [QUOTE=Susan Wayward]I don't know. I don't even know why guy-on-guy action is hot to me. It just is.

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    finally! i thought i was the only one.
    and what's all this about guy/guy always having to be some hairy funky guys? there are lots of hot bi/gay guys! yeah, two old funky hairy men getting it one isn't attrative but two cute, buff guys with big 'ol cocks is to me! hmmm and if you throw a hot chic in the middle and everyone playing together, now that's hot!
    ...ok sorry, did i get carried away?

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    I always thought that Paul Reiser's line from Mad about You must be the answer
    "it's fun, naked and I approve of both parties"

    One of my best (and pretty much straight) gf always points out that guys just aren't as aesthetically pleasing to photograph as a woman. I agree (but then I'm not into guys). The female form is more sensual, and implies sexuality in a betetr way. So two gilrs is twice the appeal.
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    I only wish all men thought like you guys... My ex couldnt stand it...


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