No. You dont sound anything like a pimp. In fact you sound pretty lucky if you ask me.


No. You dont sound anything like a pimp. In fact you sound pretty lucky if you ask me.



i would NEVER give my boyfriend my money, even if we ever get married, he gets none of it!!!
Thats crazy!


We used to call guys like these "popcorn pimps", or, for the traveling ladies, "suitcase pimps".
It doesn't always, but is usually, a term related to a guy living off a woman working in the "sex industry".


Tim, I do not think your situation qualifies or xoxo's for that matter. At least in my opinion(i can't speak for anyone else). The men I was refering to are the one's who sit home playing video games and getting stoned with no intention of getting a job or contributing to the house hold at all. They drive the gf car come to her club to take her money so they can go out partying with the guys and get pissed if the girl comes home with less money than they think she should have made. I can go on but I am sure you get the picture.




Ive been in a similar arrangement with my husband for the last 5 years. Ive danced on and off, as I study full timw and if he wasnt working as much as me he cooks/cleans etc. When I have exams I dont work, but his wages still come in, (he supports me) without dipping into savings. ATM I use the cash from stripping to pay day to day bills, and his wages are paid directly into a joint savings account, meaning I dont need to take stripping money to the bank every week.Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
When Im fully qualified I will be earning twice his top wages, and he is planning on being a house-dad so he can see our children grow, as I can work part-time and still support a family with my career wages and our savings/investments.
Any partnership is about supporting each other when needed. Neither or us push the other to study'quicker' or work more.
On the other hand I do work with a girl who is 'dating' a man older than her father. He encourages her to bring home other girls from work for sex with him (and im talking a 30year gap between him and the young girls he is after) to do extras, and he MADE her get a BA (not kicking and screaming, but he TOLD her to get it done, she was an AA before) and he often takes advantage of her club perks/discounts.
So I can see both sides of the debate
- Celeste




Also I hope that the people who say that they would never support their partner never have any health problems, as surely by this logic they cannot be expected to support you.
A friend of mine refused to support her boyf when he was out of work (hes a sub contractor) even threatening to kick him out when his savings ran out. She convienently forgot the 6 months that she couldnt get work and he supported he without a word. This is all over the last year and they have been together for 7 years.



Ok there is a difference between pimping your girl out, and your girl paying her share. Not all guys have to pay for everything every time, specialy when your girl makes a lot of dough. There is nothing wronge with your wife or girlfriend helping by paying half or even 100% as long as you are whole hearted and not taking advantage of her. It's the same for guys. Some chicks exspect the guy to pay for everything under the sun, even things they don't use like the chicks clothes. I just don't swing with that. While it's nice to have thing paid for because they want to buy it for you, not because they feel they have to. My boyfriend pays for something we both like, but he's not gonna buy me whatever I want, even if he doesn't like it. I wish I had more money because I'd pay for anything my boyfriend wanted, then again he would never let me.
I find it odd that being married would make any difference in whether or not a person should support another, given the example of whether or not it is financially wise in the long run. Especially when divorce rates are so high. What difference does it make?
Also, being best friends with the person you are in a relationship with is VERY important. Those are the relationships that last through those times when you lose sexual attraction or the going gets rough in general. If you lose sexual attraction to your mate or best friend, you are much less likely to go out and cheat or just break it off because it's "too much." Being best friends doesn't mean they are attached at the hip or don't have their own lives going on.
And even if the two were to break up... who is to say she would regret her decision.
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