Dancers at my club survive mostly on regulars, as there is just very little other traffic in the club. I recently danced for the first time for a customer who has been a club regular for years. He was very inappropriate from the get-go: trying to touch the kitty, trying to get me to "hold it", trying to kiss me, and so on. It was a slow day and he was buying lots of dances, so instead of blowing him off like I wanted to, I just kept dancing evasively. Several times he tried to grab my hand and put it on his, um, lap, and I'd make an excuse to take my hand away, like reaching for my drink. I also told him straight out that the things he was doing were against the rules and would get me in trouble, and got the whole "Its OK, I know the manager" spiel. It sucked, but I ended up making most of my money that day from this customer; if he hadn't been there, I might have made <$100.
At the time he was telling me how much he "liked" me and "wanted to get to know me", gave me his business card, and has been back to the club at least once asking for me, but I wasn't there. Eventually, I'll probably see him again, and I'm not sure what I'm going to do. I imagine dancing for him would just be more of the same bullshit, and I'm not sure it's worth it. Is there any way to keep making money from a customer like this without getting molested? Would you openly tell a customer that you didn't want him for a regular? I kind of wish I'd just walked away the first day. I might not have made money that day, but I wouldn't have to put up with his crap anymore, either.



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