Hi, I'm new to this site, apologize for not introducing myself previously. I have a problem, not expecting any miraculous solution, just feedback. After a lengthy hiatus (5 years) I returned to the strip club scene wiser (I thought) and with a much larger disposable income. At first it was incredibly fun and exciting, the girls and waitresses all fought over me, told me I was good looking, cool to talk to, etc. and I even had some activity OTC. I really didn't spend much money, maybe 100-300 a night at most. Good fun for reasonable $$ as far as I'm concerned.
Here's the problem, if you haven't already guessed. I've become infatuated ( ok, in love) with a dancer with the usual abusive deadbeat loser husband/boyfriend they seem to gravitate to. I simply can't say no to her, she has my phone # and almost every time she calls I end up going to see her. I know she's using me, sometimes she gets significant cash from me for absolutely nothing or just to cry on my shoulder. It pisses me off big time that the $$ I give her goes straight to mr. thug BF so he can continue his non-working druggie lifestyle of doing nothing for her except occaisonally beating the shit out of her and destroying any gifts I buy to help her with her job (body mist, outfits, etc.). BTW he knows about me, has met me and basically hates me and is extremely jealous of me.
I already know what to do-stop seeing her NOW. As crazy as it sounds, its going to hurt a lot and already does. It will be the second hardest thing I've ever done. (the first was leaving an 18 year marrriage to a beautiful and severely disturbed woman, not a stripper BTW) I've lost my power and turned from a semi-player to a PL,
so go ahead and slam me and tell me how stupid I am. Sorry this post was so long, I guess I'm just venting.



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