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    Ever feel insecure about your body sometimes and feel like not going to work that night because of it? I mean, I really feel like I should work but I keep looking at my swollen tummy and big thighs and think not tonight. Any of you other girls ever feel like this?

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    I'm sure it's in your head. I do have moments like this but I quickly replace them with positive thoughts. If you really can't snap out of it don't bother going in, you're insecurities will not make for a good $$ night. Instead do something productive around the house, go to the book store, maybe go see a funny movie....

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    Just wear an outfit that covers your problem areas.

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    I felt like that last friday, and had one of my best nights ever! Now, if I ever feel fat, I will think of that night and remember that just I feel fat does not me I am.

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    I've had plenty of those. But if the night is going well, I seem to forget.

    The other night, I was "the fat girl" at work. That was depressing. It's like everyone my size or larger decided not to show up.

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    I get that way a lot. And it's dumb because even on fat, bloated days I'm still almost ten pounds less than when I started dancing (not even a year ago!). But I'm just a mess of insecurities some days, and will not go in because of it. It's bad, I know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    Ever feel insecure about your body sometimes and feel like not going to work that night because of it? I mean, I really feel like I should work but I keep looking at my swollen tummy and big thighs and think not tonight. Any of you other girls ever feel like this?
    Oh god I've felt like that before but my b/f usually just makes me suck it up & I end up making good money anyway! It's so weird how that happens. Just because you don't feel good enough doesn't mean there won't be some guy in the club who still looks at you as a goddess.

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    Yeah I've been there too, and my mind really does a number on me if I don't want to go to work. I'll think I'm too fat, my face might be all broke out from stress and I'll feel unattractive, I'll feel ill at the last moment... It's always something and many times I let it get the best of me and no one ever really knows when i'm going to show up to work, not even me.

    I have to constantly remind myself why I chose to dance as opposed to working somewhere else. This usually helps to motivate me to get my butt to work because that's where the money gets made not sitting at home on the couch watching American Idol.

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    lol, that's what I did tonight and everybody sucked on Idol. Oh well, I am going to the gym again tommorrow and tanning, regardless though, I am working tommorrow, lol.

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    Good luck tomorrow! As for me, I took a leave of absence for the week, but I hope to get back in there next week and rob em' blind. As for American Idol, there's so much to keep up with, looks like another Blockbuster night for me... to bad I don't get paid when I'm not working.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeBe
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    I have to constantly remind myself why I chose to dance as opposed to working somewhere else...
    yeah like working somewhere else 40+ hours a week making only $350! Screw that. That's what I remind myself of when I think about quitting (until I have a REAL career planned).

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