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    http://sltrib.com/sports/ci_3561131

    I just heard about this on ESPN's "Around The Horn" and the link is to the related story in the Salt Lake Tribune.

    Masha Lopatova, a former Russian pop star and wife of Utah Jazz forward Andrei Kirilenko, revealed in an ESPN The Magazine interview that she allows her husband an "allowance" of one night per year with another woman.

    Quote from the story: "What's forbidden is always desirable. And athletes, particularly men, are susceptible to all the things they are offered. It's the same way raising children - If I tell my child 'No pizza, no pizza, no pizza', what does he want more than anything? Pizza.

    "So this is the arrangement that Andrei and I have. If I know about it, it's not cheating."

    She does note that the arrangement is NOT reciprocal (she doesn't get to sleep with another man once a year). And Kirilenko says he doesn't plan to use his allowance.

    I thought this was odd (especially since they live in ultra-conservative Salt Lake City), but on the other hand it makes a lot of sense.
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    eeeeeeeeeeh i doubt i could do it.

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    but that's awfully progressive of her.
    in a backwardsy sorta way (she's not allowed, he is).

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    Reverse psycology can work wonders!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by desavirsire
    Reverse psycology can work wonders!!!
    Unless the person on the receiving end doesn't get that it is reverse psychology.



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    I think this is easy to say, but if she was actually taken up on the deal would she be ok with it? I couldn't handle it--maybe if it was reciprical--but even then I would be too jelous.

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    Sort of like mild swinging?

    I think I could go for this, so long as it is once a year, and it goes both ways. There can't be any contact between the "outsider" through the rest of the year either. I'd be the most comfortable if the other person was a prostitute.


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    Hmm...I don't think I could do it...at least not at this point in my life...without feeling jealous or something.

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    I'd be the most comfortable if the other person was a prostitute.
    Yeah, me too. And it would have to go both ways. Duh.

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    Well, if it works for them, great. But I sure as hell wouldn't allow it.

    I like being std free and consider anything other than monogamy a direct threat to my staying std free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TarynJolie
    Well, if it works for them, great. But I sure as hell wouldn't allow it.

    I like being std free and consider anything other than monogamy a direct threat to my staying std free.
    Fucking A!

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    My boyfriend knows I have two rules and a guideline...

    Rule #1: Use condoms.
    Rule #2: Tell me about it.
    Guideline: I prefer to be there.

    AND, it goes both ways for both of us.

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    I could go for it. But I definately agree with the 'no contact again' rule. Oh ya, and they couldn't be hotter than me but not sure how to make that work...

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    It is SOOOOOOO ridiculous to say that only he gets to do it and only once a year.

    Yeah, sure, once a year, she knows about, who is to say that he doesn't do it more, just behind her back, he just wanted to make her feel that it wasn't happening all the time.

    NO WAY would I ever let my man do this, especially since it only went one way!!!! Although I wouldn't agree to it if it went where I got to sleep with some one else once a year either, but that there is just dumb!

    I guess I'm just old fashioned in my thinking that i only want to be with one person, and no one else, and expect my man to do the same.

    Not to say I look down on swinging couples or anything, I just chose to live my life a little bit more old fashioned, I have a child, I don't need any more drama in my life!!!

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    This reminds me of my aunt. My aunt is kind of frumpy and... well... she's open minded, but she's old fashioned. The other day we were talking and she asked if my gf and I were going to have kids. I said someday, but I don't really want to pay for sperm (cause it's out there, like, free, ya know) but I also don't want to open myself up to std's and genetics of some random guy. She promptly volunteered her husband. Then she told me that when she had been pregnant she hadn't felt like having sex, so she'd told him to feel free to find a fuck buddy for the duration of her pregnancy.... he was totally shocked and said no way. LOL

    I guess this is funnier if you actually know my aunt.



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    this is the most fucked up stupid thing i ever herd in my life enough said.

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    I'd do her before him. Her music sucks though.

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