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    Two weeks ago,I took a friend of mine out twice to dinner and paid for it both times.I told her whenever her boyfriend came into town one of these days,that I would take them both out and it'll be my treat.He came into town for a few hours last Monday and she first,calls me at EIGHT at night and tells me he's in town and secondly,asks if I was still up to taking them out to eat at that time.I told her,"Um no,not tonight".I felt like saying,"Um no,not if you're gonna invite yourself like that".Am I wrong or was this rude behavior on her part?????????
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    IMO, it was rude. I'm not much for people that invite themselves to be your guest. Bleh...what's wrong with people these days?

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    It was rude in the first place,but after treating her twice already???That's more than rude.
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    ^Yup, I totally agree. Sounds like a bit of a moocher!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deni
    ^Yup, I totally agree. Sounds like a bit of a moocher!
    She's 32,has three kids,chain smokes and swears worse than a sailor and this is the way she acts when I take her out.She wonders why she can't find a decent man.
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    I think it was rude-she should've waited for you to invite her out to dinner. Hopefully it's not a one-sided thing and she treats you to dinner sometimes too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    She's 32,has three kids,chain smokes and swears worse than a sailor and this is the way she acts when I take her out.She wonders why she can't find a decent man.
    It's just that there are no decent men.
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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie
    I think it was rude-she should've waited for you to invite her out to dinner. Hopefully it's not a one-sided thing and she treats you to dinner sometimes too!
    She doesn't have a job so I ALWAYS treat her to dinner.So much for being nice,I suppose.

    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    It's just that there are no decent men.
    Yes,they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    Yes,they are.

    Name one!
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    Name one!
    I can name two at this point.
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    hmmmmmm easy OTB.....MOOOCH! Mucho mega monster mooch. Super mooch....K-fed type kinda mooch.

    Not cool of her to ask that. What are you a credit card?
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    hmmmmmm easy OTB.....MOOOCH! Mucho mega monster mooch. Super mooch....K-fed type kinda mooch.

    Not cool of her to ask that. What are you a credit card?
    I guess she thinks I am a credit card.I wanna tell her how I feel but don't wanna alienate her.What should I do??????My ex-husband says I should completely disassociate myself from her.What do you think???????
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    I'd just tell her that you can't keep buying her dinner and see how she reacts. I had a friend that would get all put out if you didn't buy him a drink/dinner/get him into a club/whatever and that's sort of a clue right there if the person acts like they are entitled to it and gets pissed when you tell them no. Some people just live like that, mooching off of others and some people I think don't realize they do it. How does she pay her bills if she has 3 kids and no job and no man? wtf?

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    The stepdad (soon to be ex-stepdad) pays the bills and looks after the kids.She is a very neglectful mother and she was talking about having a 4th child with her new man.I told her,"WTF,you are absolutely crazy".
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    OTB - Ditch her, or just jokingly say someday 'so when are you treating me?' see how she reacts. If she gets pissy or offended then you know shes not worth your time.
    Last edited by Cally; 03-04-2006 at 12:57 AM. Reason: OTB beat me to it...

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    The stepdad (soon to be ex-stepdad) pays the bills and looks after the kids.She is a very neglectful mother and she was talking about having a 4th child with her new man.I told her,"WTF,you are absolutely crazy".
    so she has a man who isn't the kids' dad paying all their bills? Sounds like she mooches off of everyone to me. And wants to have a 4th kid??? poor kids. that is so sad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FrustratedBunny
    so she has a man who isn't the kids' dad paying all their bills? Sounds like she mooches off of everyone to me. And wants to have a 4th kid??? poor kids. that is so sad.
    Yep.She's from Mississippi.Nuff said.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cally
    OTB - Ditch her, or just jokingly say someday 'so when are you treating me?' see how she reacts. If she gets pissy or offended then you know shes not worth your time.
    The reason why I took her out is because she always says she wishes she could afford nice restaurants and trying new food,so I took her to a little Italian place and then sushi.In her 32 years,she has never tried sushi or gourmet Italian food.Common places like Olive Garden or Chili's are places she has never been to also.One night,I was telling her about my new boyfriend and how he's such a sweetheart and does all kinds of nice things for me and she said she wishes she would find such a man.She needs a whole mental makeover before that happens.I'm pissed.
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    Waaaaaait a minute. You just said that when her boyfriend comes to town, you would like to treat both of them to dinner. She was just taking you up on your offer...she may have done it a little rudely...but you are getting angry over her calling you and asking you if the offer was still good? That's not rude. It's rude to make an offer and then get mad when someone takes you up on it. Maybe I don't understand the whole situation. But, I also think it's rude to totally backstab a "friend" like this (with the way you are talking about her here). If she's such a bad person, why are you friends with her?

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    She admitted she had advanced notice of his arrival and called me at the last minute anyway.That's why I'm pissed.I am her friend because she came from a poor family and has never experienced going to a nice restaurant.You would think when someone takes you out and does something nice,you don't act uncooth while you're out with them.
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    Well OTB, you have a big heart and you take in strays that will always be strays.

    You just have to be aware that your good intentions will lead you into situations where people will take advantage of your generousity. They call us ... gullible....

    It happens to me too.

    Before you go to pet the stray dog, take home the poor guy without a hotel room, or offer to feed the hungry, hesitate just a moment and ask if the person will really appreciate it or will they use the situation to benefit themself. And, is the feeling you get from helping the person going to continue when they eventually take advantage of your generousity.

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    I don't know how long you've been friends with this girl, but if she's worth keeping as a friend, then you should definately have a talk with her.

    It was rude of her to call and expect you to take them to dinner then. I could see it not being rude if she had called and said something like, "well, my boyfriend is in town, do you want to hang out?" And then you would have either said no, or sure, why don't i take you out to dinner. They way she just called and asked if you wanted to take them to dinner was rude!

    If she's worth keeping as a friend, then I would tell her that yes, you may have more money than her right now, but that doesn't mean that even though you've been nice enough to take her to some places for dinner so she could try some new stuff, that its not always going to be that way. Friendship isn't just one person always footing the bill and the other person always getting to have all the fun. Tell her that you enjoy being friends with her, but that she needs to start at least paying for her share of the food. If you order a few items to share, and then you both order your own entree, maybe since she's down on money right now, you offer to pay for the things you and her split.

    i don't know, I've been down on my money quite a few times, and I have never been able to just let some one treat me to dinner, i let my boyfriend buy me dinner some times, only because some times I buy dinner too, we trade, but I always offer to pay for my son's dinner if we take him too, he always says no, but at least I offer something!

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    Waaaaaait a minute. You just said that when her boyfriend comes to town, you would like to treat both of them to dinner. She was just taking you up on your offer...she may have done it a little rudely...but you are getting angry over her calling you and asking you if the offer was still good? That's not rude. It's rude to make an offer and then get mad when someone takes you up on it. Maybe I don't understand the whole situation. But, I also think it's rude to totally backstab a "friend" like this (with the way you are talking about her here). If she's such a bad person, why are you friends with her?
    I am with Venus on this one. Sure you could have said "Well, hon, this is kinda short notice - how about tomorrow night?" I don't think she was overly rude though. Heck, go buy her a gift card or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    Waaaaaait a minute. You just said that when her boyfriend comes to town, you would like to treat both of them to dinner. She was just taking you up on your offer...she may have done it a little rudely...but you are getting angry over her calling you and asking you if the offer was still good? That's not rude. It's rude to make an offer and then get mad when someone takes you up on it. Maybe I don't understand the whole situation. But, I also think it's rude to totally backstab a "friend" like this (with the way you are talking about her here). If she's such a bad person, why are you friends with her?
    I feel the same way. You honestly opened the door for her on this one and you are offended she walked through it. You should be someone's friend for more reasons than that you feel sorry for them for growing up poor, or you will just be donating to her charity throughout the friendship. Maybe it's just me but, it sounds like you want recognition for your efforts. Were you testing her when you made the offer? Did you expect she, as a good friend would say, "no my treat"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by buffie06
    I feel the same way. You honestly opened the door for her on this one and you are offended she walked through it. You should be someone's friend for more reasons than that you feel sorry for them for growing up poor, or you will just be donating to her charity throughout the friendship. Maybe it's just me but, it sounds like you want recognition for your efforts. Were you testing her when you made the offer? Did you expect she, as a good friend would say, "no my treat"?
    I didn't open the door to jack.When it comes to someone else's money and kindness,you just don't invite yourself and think it's OK.I don't want recognition for anything either.Just a simple "thank you".Quit assuming.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol
    I am with Venus on this one. Sure you could have said "Well, hon, this is kinda short notice - how about tomorrow night?" I don't think she was overly rude though. Heck, go buy her a gift card or something.
    I agree. It's pretty messed up that she called you at 8pm. Now, had she called you earlier that day like, "hey _______ is gonna be in town tonight around 8pm, are you still game to going out" that would be a different story. It's about being considerate. She was taking your time for weakness. You can't be available to her everytime she calls.







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