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    Default Moving on after dances

    After you've finished dancing for a customer, and you know that they are out of money, about to leave, or whatever, and you want to move on to another custie, how do you do it?

    I kinda say "Gosh Ive had so much fun, but Id better get back to work. Dont forget, Im Celeste so you know who to ask for next time. See you next time. "

    How do you move on without breaking the "you're a special guy" rapport youve built up in your intro,sales and dance?

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    even if he is out of money, stay with him for a few songs after. Then say that you are going to get back to work. If he sticks around, say hi to him ever so often. If he spent a lot of money, then talk with him for 1-2 songs occasionally.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    I think there was a thread about this not long ago...you might want to take a look for it. There were some good responses.

    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr
    even if he is out of money, stay with him for a few songs after. Then say that you are going to get back to work. If he sticks around, say hi to him ever so often. If he spent a lot of money, then talk with him for 1-2 songs occasionally.
    I don't necessarily think you have to stay for a few more songs. Maybe just sit and talk with him for a few minutes and say you need to use the ladies room, smoke a cigarette, look for a CD for your next stage set, get some water, etc etc....IMO there is no need to stay that long, even if he isn't out of money. You can always say that you'll come back to him, but you need to get back to work for a while. Smile, thank him (always) and say you'd love to talk some more another time.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    I agree with the whole "ladies room" thing. That's the easiest thing to say. Then I go to the dressing room and freshen up, then I'm back to work with another customer.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    Songs in my club are 2minutes each. So two songs, 4 minutes, not that long to stay. Especially if you want him to come back and see you-may become a regular.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    I usually say well I'm going to the ladies room, but in my club youj can pretty much see that as soon as I pop out I'm to another customer, but I try to stop by for a hot second to say that I hope they are having a great time and it was wonderful dancing for them. And of course that I would love to see them again.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    Quick customer perspective: how that goodbye is handled really matters to me. I don't mind spending money, but I want to spend it on dancers who see their customers as human beings. Just one minute for a smile, a hug, a legitimate thanks for dances, and I will walk out happy and be happy to come back. A rude rush off, and I won't.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    It depends on the guy. Some just walk away. Others are casual and say thanx wanna have a drink. And, some are clingy and want u to sit w/ them for what seems like an eternity. My rule is to sit w/ someone for 1 song or half that if I can stand them. I then say nice meeting u if u need me again flag me down and I'll see u soon. Pretty general. Busy nghts I rarely sit w/ custies after dancing. There's just too much going on.
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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    Yea, unless they have indicated that they just want to take a break but want more dances--I hug them, tell them I had alot of fun, and that if they come in again to say hi to me, and that I need to get to work. I have never had a bad reaction to this. I try not to sit with anyone any longer than I have to--they are taking money out of your pocket when you do this.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    I think all of the girls above have great suggestions for this. Usually I tell them that I need to grab a drink (or something like that), and that I'll check back with them later. I usually also add in something about if I don't get to talk to them again that night to have a great night and that I hope to see them again, etc. The most important thing that I do is to be sure and thank them and work their name in there somehow. You might not always be able to remember it the next time they come in, but I feel like it would feel nice for a customer to know that the dancer actually listened when they introduced themself.

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    Default Re: Moving on after dances

    if they spend more than $200, then i might sit with them for one more song to make them feel important even though they're not spending. $200 might not seem like much to some of you, but it sure is to me (to get at one time). i mean, i've had custies that were in the club the whole night give me $600...but that's different than one who gives me all $200 within about 20 minutes.

    if they give me less, and if it is busy, i usually tell them thank you and then ask if they will be around the rest of the night. if they say they will, i tell them that i will see them in a little bit when im on stage, but i have to give some other people dances. also, i make sure to say that if they sneak out before i see them, have a great night.

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