Who are you going to? I'm in Denver. I went to Ali McCoy
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She used a local topical anesthetic on me. Since it's psuedo safe for the eye area (not the eye ball itself, it can give you a corneal abrasion. If you feel like you have sand in your eye when she applys the anesthetic, you need to tell her IMMEDIATELY) it only numbs for an hour or so. I felt pressure (duh) and, eventually, an anoying pinching sensation.
You may want to consider a lash enhancement instead of a smokey look. That can be rather difficult to achieve and although the ink will fade, it dosen't exactly wear off to unnoticable on most people. It is, afterall, a tattoo. Think faded greenish navy tats, now imagine that around your eyes... and you're 65.
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