I work in South Eastern Michigan which is a pretty high mileage area. So I see plenty of attempts from guys trying to reach into my thong, explore my behind, etc. This I can deal with and have found ways to curb these activities and usually still get the guy to keep buying dances despite his lack of access. There are however an increasing number of guys who think they can make out with me during their dance and then don't want any more dances after I won't do it. Or they ask ahead of time if I "kiss" which will end up breaking the deal and they'll go after someone else. And there really are no other girls at my club that I've seen who do this anyways.
At the first club I worked at there was a good amount of kissing amongst other more annoying things going on in the back room, so i moved on to a cleaner bar where management and the bouncers actually try to discourage extras.
Seriously, does anyone have any insight into this phenomena or creative ways to talk them out of it? Part of it is that I don't even understand why they want to do it in the first place. Its just gross.
Maybe there needs to be a new niche in the sex worker industry specifically marketed at guys looking for make-out partners or something. I guess its just so frustrating because I'm seeing more and more of this from guys who act like its a part of a normal lap dance. Urgghhhh.



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Have something handy to shove in his mouth mints, candy. Or tell him he's gotta show a lot more interest (through dances) to get you to even consider it.
Idiot

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