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    Ijust wanted to ask other dancers who have big fake boobs like me (34 E) if they have any problems in their real life. Im getting so sick of bar tenders etc thinking its ok to aks me about my tits when im out with my friends. Iwear t shirts n jeans not low cut tops etc and evry night its the same shit and yes i know i chose to have a boob job but its driving me crazy and i just thought i d vent!!
    How do you deal with this?

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    No.

    I just politely ignore such questions like I do at work or ask them if they are always this rude to a lady they have just met.

    People that see fit to open their mouths in public and ask me such personal and privacy invading questions get the same sort of rude treatment. Yes, guys stare, they're guys. My friends actually get a kick out of dragging me around with them. It's really funny as they've devised a point system for who stares and who doesn't.

    I've even walked up to one woman who kept staring at my boobs, pushed them together in her face and told her to speak into the mic. Plus I reminded her that she was titless and it wasn't my fault..

    Don't stress over it, you thought enough of yourself to defy gravity and make your body beautiful. Just keep reminded yourself that most people ( Note I said most ) are stupid.

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    I always wondered how those of you with extra large implants deal with these things but have been a bit nervous that the question might offend so I have refrained from asking.

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    Don't take it personally. This has happened to me. I went to a July 4th celebration in a family oriented small town and men and women stared and scowled at my chest. A dude talked crap about my boobs on SCL saying they're so obviously fake. People are just insensitive because they think you don't deserve respect. To them, you choose to provoke them with your obvious boobs.

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    i dress down too, but men still notice [even when i haven't showered and am wearing sweats]. living in nyc you get trained to not looking people in the eye when you walk around so i just ignore it. the giggles used to bother me, but now i just use that to make those stupid girls feel silly because i will look right at them and say 'thanks for pointing me out and letting your boyfriend stare at me , so he can later think of me while he masturbates'.

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    LOL Pink thats a good one.. Or one I pilfered from a tee-shirt.. " I taught your boyfriend that thing you like."

    Thanks for giving me a laugh.

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    I've gotten used to the questions and the stares, I suppose. One of my best girlfriends made mention of the fact that my best friend (we both have DD--hers are real) and I turn heads everywhere we go, either together or separately. I was like, "No, we really don't, do we?"She was like, "You guys are just so used to it, but I notice and it's really funny!" Being able to answer the questions like "Did it hurt?" or "How big were you before?" or even "Are they real or fake?" is fine with me, as long as they're not being rude. Where I do draw the line is when guys reach out to touch, or whatever. One thing that I get alot is the rude fuckmouth in a group of guys that makes some comment like, "Look at you, sticking your chest out and showing them off...I can see them whithout you doing that, you know?" That gets to me, it's like, I don't have a choice! They do that on their own and I have tall, proud posture!! Another thing that bothers me is that it seems like now it's some kind of crime to wear some of the things that I wore before my boobs were done. Like tank tops, halter tops or tube tops, especially in hot weather. So, only girls with smaller boobs can be afforded comfort when the temperatures soar? I mean, c'mon!! One of the reasons I went through all the pain and spent that kind of money is so I would feel more confident to wear these styles! I look good now, and there's something wrong with that? Anyways, that's my rant! I love my boobs, and most other people do, too! And after 3 years, I'm pretty much used to the everyday attention they elicit.

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    Any (naturally) big busted girls remember the days when everyone just assumed they were real? In the eighties, no one ever asked me if mine were fake, now I get asked all the time. It's wierd. Wierder yet when I am naked. Do they have eyes? I shove them up higher on my chest and say, "Hey don't you think if they were fake, I'd have put them up here?"

    Glamazon, I feel your pain, been a D cup since puberty and have often been told I can't wear certain things. Apparently, big boobed girls don't get to be comfortable when it is 100 degrees out. We're supposed to sweat our arses off while the smaller girls wear the tiny tanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nakedtruth
    Apparently, big boobed girls don't get to be comfortable when it is 100 degrees out. We're supposed to sweat our arses off while the smaller girls wear the tiny tanks.
    I hear you on this comment.My loser ex-boyfriend had some serious control issues and wanted me to look as conservative as possible.One summer day I told him that I was sweating my butt off and needed something lighter and smaller to wear and he told me,"It's not my fault you were young and stupid and wanted stripper big t*tties."I hate him with a passion now.
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    I don't have fake boobies and see nothing wrong with fake boobies but one time as I was walking out of a Dollar General there was a rude older women who told me, "Those look real."

    Uh... they ARE real... and I can only imagine how those with implants experience with rude people like that. Have some manners people

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    the stories I could tell about my 34 M's ...

    ... being offered $20 to show some pervert my tits in the card aisle at WalMart

    ... almost causing a 19ish roofing worker to fall to his death because he was hanging over the roof flashing of a shopping center trying to get a vertical view of my cleavage

    ... 90% + of guys, when meeting me for the first time, assume that I'm either dimwitted or promiscuous or both.

    ... being asked by the local sherriff to please stop jogging on the shoulder of the state highway, because I had already been the indirect cause of two traffic accidents (had to buy a treadmill)

    ... there are a few perks though, like deep-breathing your way out of traffic tickets (doesn't work at all with female cops though)

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    Melonie... I have to ask...do your breasts cause you back problems? I know my DD's cause me problems... never mind being a M cup Sorry its a little off topic, but I had to know. As for the guys who think your dimwitted... little do they know.

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    Oh yeah, I can totally relate to Melonie's issues - I heard this horrendous cracking noise when I was walking down the main walk through in wal-mart. This woman had slapped the crap out of what I assumed was her boyfriend or her husband for staring at me and my boobs.

    Guys do instantly assume because a woman has big boobs she is slow and or easy.. little do they know.

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    I get the "WTF???" look all the time because I'm an Asian woman with a large chest.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    I forgot! About 3 weeks ago, I was walking to meet up with my now ex-boyfriend in Vegas and I heard a woman say, "Keep looking forward, Harold." It was complete comedy. There I was, t-shirt and jeans, conservative shoes, minding my own business...

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    these stories are great I don't have quite so huge boobs, but the attention that I'm getting since my surgery in Sept.....boy is it getting OLD!!! I actually have more of the dancers excited about them, then the damn customers. I hate when the girls tell the men..."hey check out Babygirl, she just got her boobs done a while ago". I mean all the girls do it, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Then it makes it kinda weird for the men...they know they can't ask me questions about them because how pissed I look when the girls are ranting about them. I wish there was an easy way to tell the girls to stop doing that

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    i boobs arent fake or crazy big but i do get the stares because i have natual d-dd on a small frame .........my best friend would point at the guys as they are staring....its awfully funny to watch others turn around and stare at them as they are caught looking....ladies i feel you in the top thing...somehow we are sluts who are showing off for wearing a tank top....... i cant do anything about it, they are just there.

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    Babygirl.....

    It used to be and should be a strip club RULE that one dancer NEVER EVER discusses ANYTHING private about another dancer...or you all agree on a cover story. This ranges from boob jobs to dancers being married. Same difference. If your managers are receptive; have a private meeting with them and calmly tell them this is bothering you. Maybe they will have a meeting and review these rules with ALL the dancers (so as not to single certain girls out). Everyone needs a reminder; because some of us are such good friends that sometimes we forget we need to keep up the wall of illusion. It just plain isn't their biz to be discussing; even though you are not horribly angry at them. Bottom line is it's still affecting your business/earnings (maybe some guys don't like it; etc.--either way; not worth the risk of them knowing). If YOU choose to tell the customer; that's different.
    Again; another example of the small things that used to be a given when you started to dance now not being enforced (by whomever--mangers or owners).
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Original Babygirl
    I mean all the girls do it, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Then it makes it kinda weird for the men...they know they can't ask me questions about them because how pissed I look when the girls are ranting about them. I wish there was an easy way to tell the girls to stop doing that
    Perhaps if you're on a cordial speaking basis with them, you could approach the offenders politely and say, "Ladies, it's hurting my ability to put customers at ease because when you call all the attention to one part of my body, they start acting stupid. Really, men just don't know better sometimes. If you can help me on this, I promise to extend the same courtesy your way."

    (Disclaimer: Yes, guys, I know I'm shifting the blame to you men when that's not necessarily the case. It's called misdirection, but it's all for the good cause of colleague harmony.)

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    I have been "well-endowed" since I was in high school, so I have become accustomed to people looking at and commenting on my chest. About a year ago, I began to lose weight and my boobies shrank down to a small C cup and got pretty droopy. I got my boobs done last December to fill out all of the extra skin. Now, I am a 32 DDD. I don't get offended when people comment or stare at my chest. I guess I just don't take myself too seriously and I find the gawking pretty amusing. I think I carry myself well and give off a classy vibe, so I have not yet received any really nasty comments while in public. I do find men staring and acting stupid on occassion, but it makes me feel empowered in a way. I bet I could get just about anything I want with these puppies - without doing anything other than smiling and asking.

    In the club, the girls are the biggest culprits of commenting on my large chest - they even go so far as to grab them without being invited to do so. I just chalk this up to jealousy and go about my merry money-making way. Custies will also stare and make comments in the club. I guess I just expect it and I'm prepared for it in that environment, so it doesn't really bother me. They are great conversation-starters! If I were to get reactions in public like I do in the club, it would probably bother me. So far, I haven't had this problem.

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    I just bought a 34G bra..it fits like a dream..I live right in the heart of the conservative Bible belt..People say all kinds of nasty comments..It is especially hard in the real world..I have had my 34G's for nearly 8 years...I have grown used to the jealousy, and other people's [email protected]#$% comments..I try to ignore most and if someone comes up to me and outwardly asks me I'll either be nice and matter of fact or if I think that she/he is coming across in a disprespectful mode I'll say something witty and shut them up real quick. With me it is all about "how" you approach me...If you are sweet and truly just wondering what bra size I am I may tell you..or if you are a [email protected]# or a bas$%^& then I will quickly snap back..There is a proper way to inquire.

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    Funny thing is I actually want them bigger now(but may not go through with it quite yet)..Just to piss them off even more...hehe...I'm so bad
    I got my first boob job 9 years ago...I love them..And as for all the haters out there, they can kiss my you know...I have my boobs for me..no one else..They turn me on...

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x
    I just bought a 34G bra..it fits like a dream..I live right in the heart of the conservative Bible belt..People say all kinds of nasty comments..It is especially hard in the real world..I have had my 34G's for nearly 8 years...I have grown used to the jealousy, and other people's [email protected]#$% comments..I try to ignore most and if someone comes up to me and outwardly asks me I'll either be nice and matter of fact or if I think that she/he is coming across in a disprespectful mode I'll say something witty and shut them up real quick. With me it is all about "how" you approach me...If you are sweet and truly just wondering what bra size I am I may tell you..or if you are a [email protected]# or a bas$%^& then I will quickly snap back..There is a proper way to inquire.
    There is definitely an appropriate way to inquire, and I've gotten pretty good at gauging people's sincerity when they ask about my boobs! You said that you want another boob job! Me too! Mine just don't seem big enough! I got them as big as my skin would allow at the time (575cc overfilled to 625cc), but now, after 3 years, there's more room to stretch!!! It's not the attention that I want, I just want to be slightly disproprotinate from the top to the bottom! You know, I want to be a smidge top heavy!!!

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    well from a non-breasted point of view.. Its just a mans failed attempt at a complement/conversation starter and to be honest if u spent money on ur self to draw some attention to urself (whether it be for work or normal life) so think of it as money well spent.

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    I just got my boobies about 3 weeks ago (tomorrow) and its really funny when my hubby and I are sitting down at a reastraunt and he catches guys checking the girls out. The guys get the funniest look on their face when they realize they have been "caught". The other thing that KILLS me is the women who give me these nasty looks and tell whoever they are with "yeah those are fake" I just want to walk up and be like yeah, what of it? They are mine, I payed for them, i can show them off. UGH! oh well i guess it goes with the territory!

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