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    Eye contact bad??

    most of the dancers i've a regular for have all had a bad reaction to me makeing eye contact and holding it for any lenght of time.

    one held my head so i forced look at it as it moved 2 inches from my face.

    another will never look me in the eyes

    another does everything in her power to make me look at her snatch

    to me it make the dances alot more enjoyable. like i'm part of the show not just looking in from the outside. also it's just another step for me to dehumanize the dancer i'm interested in

    does it bother you when a cust holds eye contact? seems more interested in you
    than your 38 dd's?

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    I love eye contact and it makes the dance so much more "human" and enjoyable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    ... to me it make the dances alot more enjoyable. like i'm part of the show not just looking in from the outside. also it's just another step for me to dehumanize the dancer i'm interested in ...
    Dehumanize?

    I wonder if there's a boundary between what's perceived as normal eye contact and an obsessive stare.
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    I always make eye contact. Not that I ignore a great body, but to me the beauty of a woman is in her face and eyes.

    Once you've seen a woman give birth, it takes all of the mystery out of the questions of life for men. These 3 great questions are:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sitri
    3.Can I fit back in?
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    Why do some dancers not want you to look them in the eyes? For the same reason that some do not want to cuddle or kiss you. Its too intimate for their comfort zone.

    Eye contact is critical (both on stage and off) in order to sell me a dance, and the less physical contact there is involved, means the more important eye contact becomes.

    When a dancer gives me that cold "wouldn't you rather look at my cooch" treatment, its just a dealbreaker. All the grinding in the world afterwards won't make up for it. If her and I can't look each other in the eyes for a reasonable length of time, there's no reason to continue spending.
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    I like it when a cust holds eye contact with me. I normally always look at their eyes, especially when I'm dancing for them. I like to see they're enjoying it.

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    it's part of the "fantasy" that you are selling to the customer. If you can't look me in the eyes and have a decent response, I can see wtih my own eyes that I am not wanted, and no one wants to not be wanted.

    Granted, we are there to be hustled in the first place, but the valure of "hey you really ARE special" has to be there to some extent

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    I like making eye contact, but only with one eye.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    I like making eye contact, but only with one eye.

    Gee,I wonder which eye you're talking about.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Eye contact is good as it is a confirmation that they feel comfortable around me. Great way for me to know that they most likely will some dances from me.
    The ways you listed asbat are some of the wierdest ways Ive heard of dancer to customer eye contact. I think Doc-catfish summed it up perfectly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    does it bother you when a cust holds eye contact? seems more interested in you
    than your 38 dd's?
    I had a customer tell me "no, maybe later" while staring at my 38DD's

    Anyway, when I first start dancing, I noticed that about 90% of the dancers do not look at customers in the eyes. That is one thing that sets me apart, and makes a customer want to buy more than one dance from me.







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    When I first started dancing, another older dancer took pity on me and gave me a lap dance so I'd know how it was done. She was a real pro, and to this day, that dance is my gold standard of how a seriously sexy dance should be done. The thing that impressed me most was how she made eye contact. She hypnotized me, even though I'm a (mostly!) straight female, and wasn't paying her a dime. I try to use that hypnotic look as much as possible. I find customers who make eye contact are most likely to buy multiple dances. Customers who only look at me from the neck down want more grinding, are grabbier, don't buy as many dances, and may even try to cheat me out of money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Asbat
    it's just another step for me to dehumanize the dancer i'm interested in
    Why do you want to dehumanize the dancer or anyone for that matter ?

    Are you sure that is the correct word for what you meant to say ?

    Main Entry: de·hu·man·ize
    Function: transitive verb
    : to deprive of human qualities, personality, or spirit

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    dehumanize..... definition.. verb..
    to return to those times when your girlfriend was inflatable, moisturizer was required, and no sharp objects were allowed in the bed.

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    eye contact is GOOD!!!! sexy and seductive looks are the best!
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    I ALWAYS do eye contact.....every girl reacts differently...so far all of them are on the positive side.
    It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

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    call me old fashioned but if i as a customer start treating you as nothing more than a sex toy. then their is a another mental block removed and every woman from then on out will hafta overcome that hurdle.

    once i start i seeing you as 2 tits a hole and a heartbeat then i'm only a few steps away from seeing all women as that. not just the ones in the club.


    so far i've managed to keep that high standard.

    most of them don't know when my eyes are closed is when their doing the best job. if can feel her heartbeat for just a few seconds. that feeling is so comfortable and so peaceful to me. if she maintains chest contact long enough. you can feel her heart slow down just a hair and her breathing become slow and regular. and
    when you can feel her muscles go limp for just a instant. and i know she is comfortable with me and trusts me. that is the best feeling i've ever felt with any girl not just dancers.

    once i get the feeling you trust me you've got me as a regular.
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    Eye contact takes emotional energy. If a dancer's avoiding it, she's probably real tired.

    I love making use of my eyes, when I'm in a perky mood. My customers call me "dangerous" and tell me my eyes could swallow them whole. :-)

    I can't do it ALL the time on stage, and when I'm too out-of-it to really make the sex goddess work, I settle for sexy sidelong glances followed by ecstatic expressions.

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    I'll be honest, I don't make eye contact with every customer. If the customer gives me bad vibes in any way, is making "sex faces", or is generally talking dirty, I have a hard time looking them seriously in the eyes. If I'm comfortable with them, then I'll make eye contact. I guess I'm not a good liar.

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    hmm..well, to be honest..im all about the eye contact. but if im close to you on stage and showing you my crotch in particular..you should at least glance at it so i dont feel stupid for having my legs spread for no reason. haha..maybe its just me.

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    Hey Folks,

    This is my first post here so I will try to make it a good one.

    I evaluate dancers all the time. So here are some observations about EC ( Eye Contact)

    1. When making eye contact choose the dominate eye of your customer. 80 percent of the population the right is the domainant eye. Make sure you stare at the right eye.

    2. You can tell if a dancer is nervous because she blinks too much. 2 blinks a second etc...

    3. Not blinking at all or a little will make you more powerful.

    4. Looking at a man's or women's eyes will release chemicals that get the juices flowing.

    5. You can tell if a dancer is not into you if her eye pupils are small. Even in a dark club they are small. In other words no bedroom eyes. Same applies to men.

    6. Consider getting pupil contacts. Not the color contacts but pupil contacts that give you the bed room eyes (large pupils, stoned eyes) and still let your natural color come thru.

    Any dancers in the Miami, FL area around here?

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    Last edited by orgasmatron; 03-15-2006 at 10:39 PM.

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