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    Why is it that the guys that are never interested in you suddenly become interested when you get busy doing something else. Is it a control issue? Or a cat and mouse game?

    Examples:

    You sit down with a customer and try to pay him some attention, he appears to be the least interested, so you ask him for a dance just to make sure, he looks you in the eye and says "no, thank you". Fine, there is nobody else to approach right now, you sit down to play a little game on the machine at the bar. Then he walks up and says "Are you winning?", "How do you play that game?", you feel like saying fuck off, lol. Now, I get interested in something else and you want to be involved.

    Next example, same situation with customer, he is not interested, you move on to another customer, later every guy that didn't desire finds you to be the hottest thing alive. No one can get enough of you. Go figure, lol.

    Last example, hubby never wants to spend time talking until I hit the computer. Suddenly, he sits down and says "let's talk".

    You guys every experience any of this?

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    I do this on purpose. Keeps you pesky women on guard.

    *looks at his empty bed.*

    I always wait till you're in the shower... then I make with the 'We need to talk' comments. Normally this is right after the courtesy flush and before you tear my head off for the burning.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    [email protected] you Mast.

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    It's the excitement of the chase.Men don't want readily available women.They want the unattainable.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    Why is it... that when I get dressed to go home when I work 4-1 shift and walk thru the club to tip out the DJ guys say...Oh your leaving?? But I wanted a dance!! Gosh they are sooo full of shit!! Why couldnt they ask me when I was working and talking with them and asked them for dances before I left?? Maybe Im less intimidating in regular clothes??

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    It's the excitement of the chase.Men don't want readily available women.They want the unattainable.
    So, you think we only should spend time with them when we don't want to?

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1
    So, you think we only should spend time with them when we don't want to?
    I'm saying do what the women did back in the day.Play hard to get.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Men like the hunt
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    Because, once obtained: "You may find that having is not so pleasing a thing as wanting. This is not logical, but it is often true."

    Having.wav
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    Because, once obtained: "You may find that having is not so pleasing a thing as wanting. This is not logical, but it is often true."

    Having.wav
    Exactly what I said.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    Yes,it is.
    You realize that we're dangerously close to Klingon mating again and that's where Rhiannon seems to draw the line.

    But, OK, sure I......

    I......

    I.......

    Would you run some more, please?
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    You realize that we're dangerously close to Klingon mating again and that's where Rhiannon seems to draw the line.
    Yep.. Keep it in PMs, please.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Yep.. Keep it in PMs, please.
    Yes mother.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Back at ya.
    Not everyone needs or wants to see it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Back at ya.
    Not everyone needs or wants to see it.
    Now, let's see, what's that question that VenusGodess always asks about contaminated breakfast cereal?
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    No idea.. Let's try to keep this on topic, K? Enough.

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    The phenomenon you are describing is Daytona all the way...

    Personally, I hate the whole 'chase me' game. If you are interested, don't play games, and neither will I. If I detect any trace of cooling off because I am acting interested, I back the fuck off, immediately.

    Life is too short for this kind of bullshit.
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
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    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
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