Hey everyone,
I'm a newbie who did all the things recommended on the site. I needed some money since i'm a broke college student living on my own . I read most of the newbie faqs, I visited clubs, talked to dancers, did two amtaeaur night and since I did a private party before i figured I would be okay. Plus every club I auditioned at or went to wanted to hire me.
Problem is I live in Atl where you need a liscense after going to strokers on amt night i decided i couldn't work there i felt a lot of hate and ALTHOUGH EVERYONE SAID IT WAS THE BEST CLUB IN MY AREA I REALLY HATE CONFRONTATION. For some reason I'm intimated to go into a white club. And my friend who works at Pink pony says it's good money bbut takes atoll on you emotionally. I decided to start in a "dive" something which made sense after reading your posts.
All the clubs in atl u need 350 for a permit i found this one "hood spot "who said they would front me all the money. I went there my first night and hated it. I was there for all of an 1 hour The manger tried to kiss me in his office and gave me 20 to stay in there with him for a couple songs cuz there weren't that many people, then he precedded to try to bend meover and grind on me so i waas happy to leave when there came a knock on the door, all the girls gave me looks that could kill, and the custy's kept turning me down for dances but wanted to "holla' and did i mention i'm really bad with rejection so every "no" was a blow to my ego. i made $40 bucks and was ready to go. I was on the bus balling out of control and i don't know why and my feet hurt. I didn't know it would be so demeaning and emotionally straining.
should i try again?I thought i was mentally tough enough but i can't do the whole huistla thing I've never had to, not to be conceited but I'm very attractive and most of the management and male friends said i would make a killing. To make a long horiffic story short i left the club after an hour, basically ran away, had to pay a 25 fine, told them i would be back and i haven't shown up since (that was friday) I signed a promisary note and now i'm 350 in the hole
QUESTION US: SHOULD I GO BACK, OR AT LEAST TELL THEM I'M GOING TO TRY TO PAY,(the mangaer will probably just try to fuck me though) try to get a job as a waitress. will thery hunt me down? i'm scared and kind of embarrassed to go back, also i don't know anyone out here and i was to ashamed to admit any of this to my friends back home. Idon't know what to do but i need the money
SORRY IT'S SO LONG


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