I know a lot of girls who dance have their own place but most of them had someone else sign for the place. I don't have anyone who will do that for me. my credit is kinda screwed up. I don't really have any family. I'm a full time student and I don't have a regular job. How do I find a place to stay. I've been staying with friends here and there but I'm depressed. I really want my own place. I've had few customers tell me I can come live with them. and a few tell me they can get me an apartment, but of course I have to sleep with them for as long as their name is on the lease....I didn't really want to go that route.
I don't even make good money cause it seems I can only get jobs working in these garage strip clubs in Maryland where the girls are doing extras and the lap dances are always $5 a song. When I do dance, I usually make about 100 a night. working 4 hours from 10-2am. I have to do 20 dances just to make $100. I think I'm a okay looking black girl, but I've tried to get jobs at upscale clubs in DC and they always tell me they are not hiring.
How do you suggest that I go about getting an apartment? Most apartments do a credit check and require two pay stubs. I've looked at rooming houses, a lot of them do credit checks too , rent rooms for about $150 plus a week and they all seem to be full of guys who look scary.Most one bedroom apartments in the DC/MD/VA area in decent areas start at about $700 a month.
I've been attempting to find a regular good paying job, but I can't. I wonder if I could get a reg job long enough to get an apartment, and then quit and go back to dancing. But I'm not sure if the leasing offices look at how long you've been working on the job ... and then I'm afraid that I get a full time job that I will flunk all of my classes or I will end up dropping out and never finish school. I have about a year left to finish my degree, that I've been working on for sooooo many years. I don't qualify for any type of public assistance because I don't have any children.
I'm extremely unhappy with my life right now. No stable place to live, wreck of a car, no health insurance, and totally overwhelmed with school work. My hair has actually started falling out from all the stress. I am actually considering becoming an escort.....
There is no reason I should be grinding on guys laps, showing my naked buns to the world and still be broke and homeless....lol
Seriously I need help.



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