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    Which option would you choose.

    1. Having about several million dollars ( you could have the best job in the world, with investment money coming in ) and being able to live in luxory ( such as: expensive jewelry, watches, fancy clothes, go to the mall, mercedes benz or any other car of ur choice, a million dollar mansion or penthouse suite, go out to any club that u want, any vacation spot that you want, i mean really living it up) for the rest of life and can get any guy that you want on any given nite, but you cant have that love type feeling that just makes you can't eat, can't sleep type of thing, forever. With people looking at you like ur a celebrity, but ur really not the kind that walks on the red carpet or anything. It would just be money wise. But at the same time you have a feeling inside of you like a tiny sharp pain that you feel towards someone special ( LOVE ) that you will never have for the rest of your life. It would be LIKE a ( honestly ) 2-4 pound weight on you when you wake up in the morning and when you go to bed. At the point where you have a lil bit of hard time breathing, such as someone is squeezing ur air pipe just a very tiny lil bit. Or.

    2. Be with someone that you love, care for and have that wonderful feeling that you cant get from anyone else except that one person. With both man and woman having a 9 to 5 job 5 days a week non stop. and making enough money just to pay the mortgage on the house ( old shitty house or old shitty apartment , shitty car, below casual clothes), the utilities, food on the table, and once in a while have a small entertainment. but you are allowed to be with that person for the rest of your life and have that feeling where you still have that cant eat and sleep type of thing while you are with them cause you love them so much. and live in that shitty life with the person that you love.

    Would you let love slip away and living that life for the rest of you life to choose to make money and live in that luxory lifestyle, forever. and you can do anything that you want in that life.


    Really think about the two options and think when you are or at forty years old or fifty years old in that optional life you choose. please respond cause i am just curious what people would choose
    (HONESTLY ). cause i believe i am at that point to choose to make ( cause an opportunity has presented itself ) money or have love.

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    i would choose love. every time. money can buy you everything except for true happiness. i mean money buys you comfort and eliminates alot of probelms. and comfort to a certain degree is definitely a form of hapiness. i think that being rich wont make you happy but being poor will definitely make you sad. with all that being said, i have had money and nice things, but the very rare moments in my life where i have been glad to be alive are those when im in love and that love has been reciprocated. there is nothing on this planet that changes a person for the better than that feeling. it gives you a reason to live, a reason to be a better person. that for me is what life is all about.

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    I'm not a stripper, but option 1 looks kick ass!

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    #1...no question

    this all assumes you need love to be happy

    Love is great, but life is about LIVING....for yourself, not for someone else.

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    Oh, Emily, you are jsut feeding the stereotype that we are all money-grubbing golddiggers. Why are you feeding the troll?

    It was the answere he wanted and expected anyway.


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    It's all about love... i'm the richest woman in the world if i have the love of the man i adore.

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    OK Sir, now I pose a question to you: Think about your scenarios, and tell me, aren't you describing 2 different people?

    Situation #1: Any girl that is self driven and motivated enough to accrue millions of dollars via investments and such all on her own, is more than likely to prefer the life she created values the success that they worked their life for and that landed them the best job in the world more so than any outside arrangement in their life that makes them feel how you describe including a partner. The reality is that these type of people are self sufficient and motivated enough to get over it and will either manage it and live with it, or just get over it. In both cases, they move on. Not a bad thing but what this person wants is personal success and independance more than her other wants

    Situation #2: Is the great hallmark of relationships we're all in once in our life that ends horribly or lives happily ever after. The girl in this scenario values love and companionship more than any of her other wants and strives to have that long relationship that leads to marriage and kids and believes love conquers all.

    Neither people are bad, they are just different. Person in sit #2 will never understand Person in sit #1 fully and probably sees some cold heartlessness in her and Person in Sit #1 is always advising person in sit #2 about the breakups they go through and how she needs to be single for a while. Both are good people with different views on life.

    I prefer the self-driven motivated types because I just got out of a 6 year long meal ticket expector. I don't dislike #2 but I would be leading that person on since I am not interested in marriage or children right now. I want someone independant enough to be doing their own thing and have all their own methodes so whatever happens there is no pressure of a label or expectation of a result and things can happen naturally. That doesn't make person #2 a bad choice, just, I would feel like I am wrongfully leading on their expectation and in turn the situation would be pressured, and I'd end up the topic of a Ladies Only thread.

    Be honest to yourself and what you want. Go after that. Don't believe you're something you're not. You do that and you'll hurt less people in living your life. But regardless, if you're not a troll, I hope the woman that you're writing about makes the right decision for yourself and if that's not you I hope you're capable of recovering and moving on quickly

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    Honestly, you are assuming that she is in love with you, and that all strippers think like the one you fell for, buddy (didn't want to end on a preposition).

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    I don't mind playing along...besides, he dfidn't say that the money came from a guy. I just assumed it was mine that I earned and spent as I pleased!

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    lunchbox--

    the proper way to avoid ending on a preposition is to say "The stripper for which you fell." Just taking an unnecessary woprd on the end doesn't make it work.


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    love never lasts, ok so it does for lots of people, but I'll just play the odds of my own life and pick #1
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    the proper way to avoid ending on a preposition is to say "The stripper for which you fell." Just taking an unnecessary woprd on the end doesn't make it work.
    Correct, because now that sentence has an indirect object that doesn't refer to anything. Granted, it's fine in colloquial speech, but it's an awkward phrasing in written prose.

    And yes, I find the grammar dissection far more interesting than the retarded hypothetical scenario proposed by the offending troll. What is this guy, a Hollywood writer?
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    It's also a totally false choice. Maybe in movies love blossoms only among the poor, but in real life lots of people are successful both financially and romantically.

    I plan to spend my weekend in "loxory".

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    one of the reasons people get divorced is money. and if both of you are working all the time how much of each other do you see anyway. and i don't believe that feeling of in love is constant and never ending... but then, i don't need several million either. i don't care about any kind of bling, and try to keep my life as simple as possible. and i'll never work a 9-5 job, and if i ever do work full time, i won't be at a job where i'm putting in all this time and only have enough for basic necessities. just seems pointless. why does it have to be a choice anyway? why can't someone wealthy be with someone they love?

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    bottom line.. money doesn't buy happiness..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Correct, because now that sentence has an indirect object that doesn't refer to anything. Granted, it's fine in colloquial speech, but it's an awkward phrasing in written prose.
    That is what I put that on the end for, CO

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    these options dont have to be just strippers, other women also too. This is just a choice that a person would have too pick and yea you can have money and love, but i am saying which one would YOU choose. then it doesnt matter how you received the money, it is the fact that you just have it.

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    I'll take the first one. Being in love doesn't equate to happiness either, I'm going through this right now. At least I'll live comfortably will being single.

    I know what its like to be lonely or have feelings for someone not be reciprocated. I can live with that while having fun in other ways.
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    Cinderella's just a fairy tale.

    Pretty Woman...much more realistic.

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    thanks for the replies

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    I want both,but if pressed,then #1.

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    i would choose love cause it lasts longer and you can be happy with the person that your with. because you constantly have to buy things to make you happy and in reality it does not. always choose love and you will be okay

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    I would choose, and I do live both. Married 19 years, slugged our bums off working just to pay the bills. There's been times I love him to death, times I'd like to see his death. As the wedding vows say 'till death do us part', thankfully we stuck to them. I seriously love him to death, and our hard work has paid off and we are content, happy and loving a beautiful lifestyle with a beautiful family. HA! You can have your cake and eat it too, you just got to be prepared to put in the work of baking it and cleaning up the mess!

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    thats true. not too mention cake is good.

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    are you talking about wedding cake? I love wedding cake

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