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    Okay.. it all started last night. I get home from going out, and I get a text from a dancer at the club I go to.. I would say my reg dancer, but she doesn't give me many dances, she is usually busy hustling... my fav dancer is never at work enough for me to get dances from her (hint hint)

    anyway, I knew when she texted me what she wanted.. me to come in the next day. it's the only plausable reason for her to text me

    So she tells me she wants me to come in and visit her.. actually she "made" me come in to see her tonight.

    So I get home from out of town, as I work 45 mintues away, and becuase I am not working tomorrow, I stayed until like 11pm tonight. I needed to wind down anyway, and I definatly wouldn't mind getting some LD's from a pretty woman


    So I get there today.. and she is not there. So I think she is in the back, no biggie, I sit down, and have a drink... nothing. She isn't there

    it doesn't help that my fav dancer, my first, 2nd and 3rd options aren't there either.. I have never seen this many below average dancers in one place at one time. So I leave after like 30 mintues.. I wasn't even going to let me spend any money in there.. I mean I tipped the stage as always out of c urosty but that's it.

    So I get home, and I send her a text just to let her know, in a very respectful manner, that I didn't apprciate being stood up and the least she could have done was give me a heads up to save me a trip incase I changed my mind on going.. I mean she did ask me to come see HER

    So, and this is when she starts toa ct her age (19), actually has the nerve to get mad at me for saying she disrepected me. So she tells me she was Sick.

    So I say, okay, you still should have called.. I just talked t you 24 hours ago.

    So she says her cell phone was off, she didnt pay the bill on time.. but she paid it today and now it's on..

    Now, I've dated enough women to learn you can't win an arguement with them, and although I could have pointed out that the cell phone store closes at 5, meaning the bill couldn't be paid after that, meaning you had a 7 hour window to call me. Plus the fact that you told me you made 2000 this weekend and was going to buy a new mustang this morning, but yet you can't pay a 30 dollar phone bill...

    So I didn't even bring it up. I just told her that I was just letting her know that was not apprciated it, and in the grand scheme of things, I don't necessarly care, she is the one loosing money, not me.

    so she says this.. and I swear to god you can't make this stuff up... That she isn't loosing money..s he is just loosing my money



    Mind you, I am never a broke ass, I always bring around 500 with me to the SC, I never spend it becuase no dancer ahs never gotten it out of me, but I plan to spend it.. I usually spend about 250 every trip, 2 sometimes 3 times a week depending on my schedule.

    So she goes off and tells me that she is sick and she isn't feeling good.. and Hell I am not there, I am not one to call her a liar, but that's not the point. It's just not good business. anyway, she tells me that she isn't loosing any money becuase all I do is spend money on other dancers anyway... well.. of courese besides the time I tipped her 80 on stage just to make sure she I got her attention yet she still coudln't get the hint.. andt he time I came and and spent about 250 on lapdances on her for her to end them short and do a halfass job (but damn she is hot, and in all honestly, is fun to talk to)

    So I just tell her that I dont' argue, which I don't.. i have more serious things in my life than to aruge with a dancer about beting at work.. but nevertheless, that's not a mistake she should be making, because that could make someone not want to spend money on her next time they see her, andt hat if she was really sick, I wish her the best and I hope she gets better soon.


    Has anyone else ever had anything else similar to that happen?

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    Are you hoping she's gonna read this???
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    lol, no she doesn't post here.. she doesn't even have the internet

    But my fav dancer does, and in case she does read it.. she needs to take her ass to work so I can blow some money

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    You're too funny,LOL.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Default Re: I got stood up

    shoot, i wish you'd come to my club :-P but i'm not a flaky 19 year old :-(

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    I actually perfer older women.. there just aren't older ones here. Older dancers seem to understand the little things about the business that the young ones don't seem to grasp yet... the young ones, fresh out of HS (I'm not too far removed myself) think "hey, I'm hot.. I don't have to work hard, becuase I am hot..and you are goign to give me everything in your pocket becuase I am hot"

    and hot girls come a dime a dozen.. My ex would walk in there and shut the building down as far as looks but that only gets you in the door.. espically when you work at a place where there are nothing but attractive women.. even the not cute ones are more times than not.. cute, but not "dancer" cute if you catch my drift.

    My fav dancer is my age, however she comes here so ovbsiously she knows what the hell she is doing.. which is all I ask from a dancer.. know your profession. Know what men like. Know men. I swear more women seem to care about how is fucking who, etc.. One dancer actually went out of her way to show me one of the waitresses kissing a Bouncer... at a different club outside of work... get this.. she recorded it on her phone and told management.. I was like why do you give a damn.. please explain to me how this is messing with your money

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    I actually perfer older women.. there just aren't older ones here.
    I so need to come to Arkansas then!

    Young girls really don't seem to get how this works. I have a standing Tuesday nigth "date" with one of my ATF regs. If I'm not going to be at work I'll call and let him know and we alsways reschedule for latter in the week, and if he can't make it he'll let me know. It's called common courtesy.

    If this girl is going to be flaky and not have the respect to let you know she won't be around and then tell you you were out of line, right her off. I'd stll speak to her in the club but I'd stop tipping her, that's usually the best way to get a point across.

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    point taken

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    Okay.. it all started last night. I get home from going out, and I get a text from a dancer at the club I go to...

    anyway, I knew when she texted me what she wanted.. me to come in the next day. it's the only plausable reason for her to text me...

    So I get there today.. and she is not there. So I think she is in the back, no biggie, I sit down, and have a drink... nothing. She isn't there...
    Any guy who goes to a strip club just because a dancer wants to see him needs to rethink his priorities.

    You should be going when YOU want to, for YOUR enjoyment and when YOU can afford the time and the money, not when SHE needs you there.

    Quote Originally Posted by songofthesword
    So she tells me she wants me to come in and visit her.. actually she "made" me come in to see her tonight...
    No, no, no. She didn't make you come in and neither did the devil. You always have the option of saying no. Like the line from Margaritaville says, "but I know It's my own damned fault".

    I'm kind of in a snit this morning so forgive me, but dude, SC'ing is supposed to be fun, not an obligation. Grow a little spine here and you won't have to post crash and burn stories like this. Your back will thank you later.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Any guy who goes to a strip club just because a dancer wants to see him needs to rethink his priorities.

    You should be going when YOU want to, for YOUR enjoyment and when YOU can afford the time and the money, not when SHE needs you there.


    No, no, no. She didn't make you come in and neither did the devil. You always have the option of saying no. Like the line from Margaritaville says, "but I know It's my own damned fault".

    I'm kind of in a snit this morning so forgive me, but dude, SC'ing is supposed to be fun, not an obligation. Grow a little spine here and you won't have to post crash and burn stories like this. Your back will thank you later.

    1. You are correct. Trust me.. if I didn't want to go, I wouldn't have. As I said, I had a long day, nothing to do today, so I might have went to the regualr club when I got back in town anyway.. I usually do, well I always do, a pretty good job of keeping my prorities straight.. however my point was, although I didn't mind going tot he SC that night, I might not have went if she wouldn't have called me.


    2. I was being sarcastic.. that's why I highlighted "made".. no dancer will ever MAKE me do antyhing.. everythnig is my choice.

    A fool gets emotionally involved with dancers while they are at work.

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    Has anyone else ever had anything else similar to that happen?
    No, because dancers don't pull my strings.

    I may be a fat, balding, toothlessly slobbering PL, but I always remember that I'm the customer and I'm entitled and (generally) afforded a modicum of respect from the dancers I patronize.

    DocCatfish is right; you should have your SC privledges revoked.
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    Okay.. let me get this straight... on a thursday night, that I had planned to go out anyway, I get a call and asks me to meet them at the SC, so I make a stop by.. because of that I should be banned from a SC?

    I mean, you are expecting me to know she was going to flake before I went there, which m akes no sense.

    It's not like I ahve 2 kids and a wife at home. I'm single, ahve alot of disposable income and needed to unwind anyway from "working" all day long.

    That's the equivlent of me meeting a regular woman, asking to meet her at Barnes and Noble, her standing me up, and me getting told I have no self resepct for me getting stood up

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    oh shit, I left a major part out.. it was pretty late when I wrote it.

    This all happened yesterday, thursday.

    The day before, i Had a good (i.e very profitable) day at work, and I wanted to make a stop by the SC so I texted her first to see if she was going to work, because I know my fav wouldn't be there, so I wanted to be there

    she told me that she wasn't goign to be there but she was going to be there thursday

    she just didnt cotnact me out of the blue and told me to come see her

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